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  1. B

    Roommate and Her Boyfriend Sharing a Bed

    Hello! So my roommate recently started dating someone. Both of them are Christians, and I am noticing things in their relationship that concern me. Before they were dating, she would often sleep at his house, and she told me they would kiss and sometimes sleep in the same bed. I’m pretty sure...
  2. bèlla

    Robo Strippers: Gyrating Robots Make Debut

    How did it come to this... Gyrating ROBOTS debut at French pole dancing club, with the androids performing alongside human counterparts A French pole dancing club has caused a stir after exhibiting gyrating robots ‘Stripper robots’ had cameras for heads & performed alongside female dancers...
  3. Up&Up

    Christians who had pre-marital sex with the partner you did end up marrying, do you regret it?

    I'm really curious to hear what you actually felt and experienced, I have a good idea of what the Bible says.
  4. Reborn1977

    Men Destroy Their Soul With Adultery - Study Of Proverbs 6:32-33

    How Do We Make Godly Decisions? Study of Proverbs 6:32-33 – Men of Shame When a man commits adultery, he does not just wound the women involved he destroys his own soul according to Scripture. Find out in this post what that destruction of the soul actually entails. GodsTruthInLove.org
  5. Reborn1977

    In-depth Study Of Proverbs - One For The Men

    How Do We Make Godly Decisions? Study of Proverbs 6:24-29 - Watch Out Men What men want the most might be the number one thing that sinks them. Find out what it is in this week’s posting. GodsTruthInLove.org
  6. N

    My Relationship is Crumbling and I’m the Reason Why

    I made this account just to post this thread; I was hoping for some third party insight from men/women of God that aren’t directly involved in my life because it’s a humiliating story. *WARNING: VERY MATURE TOPIC* I was born and raised in Bible Belt Michigan and moved to San Francisco a year...
  7. I

    Virgin or lack there of... does it matter?

    Hi, this is going to be hard for me to write, so people be nice. Be honest, but please dont beat me up with your answers. I will first tell you my story, then my question, if you dont want to read the story you can skip to my question STORY: A few years ago I found myself in a not so great...
  8. K

    A single person's struggles and is it ok to think about sex?

    I am new here and it's my first time posting anything but I have not found a similar thread that answered my specific question yet, so I am creating one. I'm not a person that summarizes things very well, so this is going to be long, I thank in advance to everyone patient enough to read all this...
  9. B

    Loss of Salvation? Is God fed up with me?

    I’m in complete and utter despair and ruin. I’m pretty sure that my life is ruin. I was raised in a Christian home. Claimed to be a Christ follower my whole life and felt like I was. I have struggled with my sexual sin most of my life. When I was younger it was masturbation and occasionally...
  10. pantingdeer

    Is it ok for christians to go to nightclubs

    I feel like I've really missed out on experiences at university to make friends. I don't drink, talk to women, have good friends. What are your thoughts on going to nightclubs and having a drink or two to become more social and meet new people?
  11. pantingdeer

    Sexual Desire for women disappeared

    When I was 16/17 it seemed like my sexual desire for women left overnight and since then I begun to hate myself as I could never have a girlfriend because I'd be lying to myself and I wouldn't be able to please her properly or be honest with her. I did bad things to 'test' myself and I couldn't...
  12. pantingdeer

    Christian jokes

    Hey girl, wanna come over to my house? Dont worry my parents are home.
  13. pantingdeer

    Depressed as don't have feelings for women - please help

    Hi there, over the past 3 years my life has taken a turn for the worse. I am a very studious person and have some interests however I feel very sad as I am missing something very important - my attraction to women. One day when I was 17 I just seemingly felt much less attracted to women and I...
  14. pantingdeer

    Life is ruined as not attracted to women

    I am 20 now but when I was 17 I one day just seemed to lose my sexual attraction to women - I could still recognise when I liked the look of a girl but all deeper feelings had vanished. I did bad things at the time to 'test' myself as I thought I was going mad but to keep it simple I couldn't...
  15. pantingdeer

    How to make friends at uni

    I'm 20 yrs old and at university and don't really have any friends. I find it difficult to socialise and speak with people and so I probably end up looking a bit weird and so people don't want to be with me. I only really hang around with one person and I'm not really even friends with them, my...
  16. pantingdeer

    Sexual issues and depressed please help

    I am 20 yrs old and I am depressed because I fear I will be forever alone. Since 3 yrs ago I somehow seemed to lose my libido and attraction towards women overnight. I can still see the beauty of them but don't feel any strong urge towards them or anything and find it very difficult to be...
  17. pantingdeer

    How to get a nice girlfriend

    I am 20 yrs old and I don't have a girlfriend but would like one (preferably of Polish or Spanish origin). Would you have any tips for on how I can find a girlfriend that is kind and that I get along well with. I have quite low confidence because of some issues I have and so I wouldn't feel...
  18. pantingdeer

    Is sex before marriage wrong?

    Where in the bible does it say that you can't have sex before marriage? And if there is a verse on this topic, why is it so important? How do couples manage to abstain from sex for years before getting married - it seems weird in this day in age. For example, if I saw a couple I would...
  19. pantingdeer

    Lost my attraction to women and now very depressed and sad

    When I was 16 it seemed that overnight my attraction to women dramatically reduced. I am now 20 and I am still struggling with this and have become very depressed. I find it very hard to get on with other people as I hate myself and get negative thoughts about myself all the time. All I want is...
  20. pantingdeer

    No sex attrcation to women anymore and I'm 20 yrs old

    When I was 16/17 it seemed like my sexual desire for women left overnight and since then I begun to hate myself as I could never have a girlfriend because I'd be lying to myself and I wouldn't be able to please or be honest with her. I'm 20 now and nothing has changed. I even got tested for low...