sex

  1. L

    Sex and marriage

    Hi there, Im new to this site and joined to get some peoples opinions on this matter.. I have been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now, we are both believers and go to church and always intended on waiting until marriage to have sex. We know we are each others soulmates and are...
  2. J

    Boyfriend Struggles

    Hi everyone, This is my first time posting like this. I'd just really like some advice or help in my current relationship issues. I have had a boyfriend for over 9 months who I love very much. We are hoping to get married sometime in the next few years. However, recently a couple of issues have...
  3. Slash415

    Ravi Zacharias scandal??

    RaviWatch - A Brewing Ravi Zacharias Sex Scandal? Has anyone heard about this?? I have been a long time listener of Ravi Zacharias, if this is true it is devastating news...
  4. L

    Sexual temptation

    I was with a man for a couple of years but i broke it off as he's not Christian. Really sweet, kind hearted man; he's been going through a rough time mentally and we have maintained a friendship. My problem is that when we first met i wasnt Christian, and we shared an active sex life. Although...
  5. C

    A debate on when the "One Flesh" union occurs, it's effects, and meaning.

    In this debate, I will attempt to prove that while fornication is a sin, it does not necessarily equate to a union of the flesh and what does achieve that union is the irreversible transfer of genetic materiel, its efficacy, and its consequences. To do this, I will run through 5 points: 1. What...
  6. C

    A debate on when the "One Flesh" union occurs, it's effects, and meaning.

    In this debate, I will attempt to prove that while fornication is a sin, it does not necessarily equate to a union of the flesh and what does achieve that union is the irreversible transfer of genetic materiel, its efficacy, and its consequences. To do this, I will run through 5 points: 1. What...
  7. L

    Early 2000s Christian Sex Ed Book

    Hi everyone, I was homeschooled as a child, so my sex ed came from a book my mom had me read around 2007. We were a very religious family at the time, so there's a strong possibility it's a Christian book. BUT I remember it being very blunt and scientific in its description of sex; it didn't...
  8. S

    Being tempted in my dreams...

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  9. KaieraAi

    Man and Woman created in God's image - Conversations about Gender/Sex

    So man and woman are created in God's image without one being lesser than the other. With that in mind, doesn't it seem that God is likely genderless? I know what Genesis says about how man and woman work together, but can we consider the idea of sex and gender being separate for a moment, and...
  10. B

    Looking for help with premarital sex struggle and breakups.

    Hello. This is my first real time ever posting anything on a forum, but I'm really looking for some help right now. My first serious girlfriend and I recently broke up after 3 and a half years together. Both of us were virgins at the beginning of it, and neither of us had any serious walk with...
  11. N

    What was it like having sex for the first time as a married couple (for those that waited)?

    If you had waited until you got married to have sex with your partner, what was it like the first time? was it what you expected? was it awkward? was it awesome?
  12. pantingdeer

    Why can't I love people

    Hi I'm an 18 yr old male and last January I just lost any attraction to women completely. I have not liked a woman since and have honestly do not find women attractive and they don't 'turn me on' like you should I guess with normal attraction. I don't want to list after every girl I see but it's...
  13. D

    I broke a covenant with God

    Hi. I am addicted to inappropriate content and masturbation. I tried to stop by making a promise/covenant to God that the day that I touch or have premarital sex, may I die. I included premarital sex because I am in a long-distance relationship, we are both christians but the temptation is unbearable when...
  14. D

    Trouble having sex first time

    Hi there, my husband and I are newly weds and are having a lot of difficulty having sex. I experience pain when he inserts just one finger and as such we have yet to progress past that, much less to full consummation. As it is both our first times, I feel quite nervous and flinch / tense a lot...
  15. gzt

    Women and the Creed: "For us humans and for our salvation"

    I ran across this great post about translation issues in the Creed which touches on some other things we've been discussing as well. https://publicorthodoxy.org/2017/06/19/women-and-the-creed-for-us-humans-and-for-our-salvation/
  16. S

    I feel lost..

    I feel so lost right now. I used to be so on fire for Christ and it feels like I have lost Him. I need some advice, it is much appreciated. About 5 years ago I used to be engaged to be married. I ended up calling off the wedding and it was very difficult. We continue to try to date off and...
  17. S

    Help|Sex & guilt

    Hi guys, So i'm actually a christian (Jehovah's witnesses) but you don't recognise them as one. I'm 19 and having been having same sex thoughts a lot recently mainly from watching inappropriate content. I know in my heart what's right, I know such desires are not in allign with Gods purpose. I have had many...
  18. StrugglingWithLife

    Crippling anger with God

    I was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, which is a neurological condition. I've only had one girlfriend in my life but we aren't together now. I am losing my acceptance of Christianity and having faith in God. I believe he's there, but I'm finding his plan harder to accept. I guess when I...
  19. Tetra

    Sex... losing a part of yourself!?!?

    I was having a conversation with my wife about an experience she had in youth group as a young lady. This activity in youth groups was all the rage in the early 90's. She said the youth pastor would have the girls hold a piece of paper while boys, one by one, would come up and rip a piece off...
  20. M

    Need answers for this very confusing thing I'm dealing with when it comes to my wife and her sister

    Almost a year ago, I had a sex dream about my wife's sister, with no feelings towards them arising from it at first. But now, almost a year later, I am starting to have a strong attraction towards her, seemingly from out of nowhere. It started out as a sexual desire, but now I am starting to...