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  1. Tetra

    Sex... losing a part of yourself!?!?

    I was having a conversation with my wife about an experience she had in youth group as a young lady. This activity in youth groups was all the rage in the early 90's. She said the youth pastor would have the girls hold a piece of paper while boys, one by one, would come up and rip a piece off...
  2. M

    Need answers for this very confusing thing I'm dealing with when it comes to my wife and her sister

    Almost a year ago, I had a sex dream about my wife's sister, with no feelings towards them arising from it at first. But now, almost a year later, I am starting to have a strong attraction towards her, seemingly from out of nowhere. It started out as a sexual desire, but now I am starting to...
  3. Zoii

    Do Christians support sexual health education for teenagers

    Sexual education covers a broad range of topics including: · An understanding of sex physically and behaviourally · How to prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). · Symptoms of STDs and services available to offer assessment and management · Sexual trauma eg...
  4. J_G94

    I've lost my virginity - now what?

    At the young age of 10 I was exposed to something that I till this day can't process. I was raped. To be honest, I've been living in denial since, as at that stage I did not know ANYTHING about men and sex,etc. I honestly didn't know what had just happened to me. Till this day, I can't remember...
  5. Fish and Bread

    Australian couple tells pope and cardinals how great sex life kept them together

    Link: Australian couple tells pope and cardinals how great sex life kept them together From 2014, but probably still of interest.
  6. L

    Needing Some Advice About Pre-Marital Sex

    I need some advice about sex from some people who have experience with the real-world emotional/spiritual effects of pre-marital sex. I'm 31 and I've never had sex. Never been in any kind of relationship at all. There's a better than average chance I will never be married. I am wondering if I...
  7. Rovelic Smith

    Not looking for short term

    “I have been in the West Lafayette area for a few years now and always looking to meet new people. I am a very hard worker and love my job. I work a lot, but I know how to balance well. I enjoy meeting new people and i love adventures, outdoors, watching movies, dancing, and traveling. I made...
  8. Ahilla

    Should I give in to sex?

    My boyfriend and I are both Christians, but we had sex before marriage. After a long time of wantingto stop but not wanting to lose him, I finally built up the courage to tell him we need to stop, and I told him a., the reasons. He said he understands my reasons and he agrees, but he keeps doing...
  9. J

    Do you think God takes care about our sexual life

    Is sex something bad? There is something wrong if the act indeed is full of love? Do you think He get's sad if you do soemthing you are programed for? Nothing wrong if it's a normal act, I think. Into an order. Something you control, inside a bounderies. What do you think about? I realize that...
  10. Lybrah

    Want to wait until marriage for sex

    I want to wait, but I am afraid that if I make the guy wait, would if I am bad in bed? What if there is some other problem? I would feel bad making him wait, marry me, and then the sex is bad.
  11. A

    I feel like an hypocrite

    The more I grow up the more I feel like being a Christian becomes even mor challenging. I want to be closer to God and I started to pray more bu there's one area that I really feel ashamed of and stops me from praying. I'm sure I'm not the only one struggling with this, but it's sex. When my...
  12. S

    Dating a non-virgin

    Dear All, I am currently dating a girl and i found out that she is not a virgin. As for me through the Grace of God i am. I understand and truly believe that it was not my will, but rather God's Will and Grace that intervened in many of these situations where i could too have slept with a girl...
  13. Fere222

    Marriage Issues

    I think marriage is difficult for most couples. Every relationship has high and low points. I love my husband, I believe in God and attend church without him. He isn't really a believer in Christ. When I read the Bible, I have even seen him roll his eyes. Sometimes I have hope that his heart...
  14. Borislav

    Destroying the kids

    Kids learn about how your gender is what you feel, not what your parts are and now they experiment and change gender. Did something like this happen to kids when they weren't taught this? Im not againts LGBT community but common core is destroying the kids. Did something like this happen when...
  15. Tetra

    Sex Poll: How Many Sermons Have You Heard on Sex?

    Quick question, how many sermons have you heard promoting sex within the confines of marriage... a whole sermon encouraging you to go home a rock it with your spouse? :) This is different then a sermon discouraging you from having sex. I think we've all heard those. I'm talking sermons of...
  16. F

    Newly Married/Disappointing Sex Life

    My husband and I have been married for 8 months. We were together for 2 years prior to marrying and did not have sex before we married as being Christian we believed this was the right thing to do. Fooling around, I had the impression he was very interested in regular and exciting sex. I lived...
  17. aw7jesus

    God - The Creator of Romance

    Far too often the world is seen as having the best understanding of and expression of romance. I believe it is God who is the Creator of romance and much of his heart on the subject is clearly and beautifully expressed in the book Son of Solomon. My love for this book inspired me to sing and...
  18. P

    Wating till marriage

    Hi fellow christians, I have a question, me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for quite some time now, we are both mature adults, both 21. Till this day we have only kissed, because we both want to keep ourselves pure till marriage. But at this point we both desire something more...
  19. MorkandMindy

    Think of it the other way around

    When it is too difficult to understand something it might be helpful to reverse the situation Suppose the US was too violent, it has 5 times the murder rate of England for example, so some huge peacekeeping force moved in, did 'shock and awe' to New York and Washington, and later when four of...
  20. StrugglingWithLife

    I guess this belongs here

    Hey, I was feeling really unsettled lately. I think I'm giving up on wanting to have sex, get married, find love. God said that all sex outside of marriage is a condemned sin, and even though he created it, he is going to obsolete it in heaven anyway. I am spiritually crippled by the idea that...