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  1. נ

    Burning with Passion

    I have always considered myself to be a Christian, though I have only attended church on occasion when family friends would invite us to their church. I mainly study and practice The Word of God in private, but recently I have become much more involved, as if a switch was flipped inside of me...
  2. Lybrah

    I'm in bondage and can't escape

    I need prayer. I can't confess this sin to my bible friends because it's too personal. I touch and fantasize about having sex with a man daily. I'm a woman who's never really had sex and is unmarried. I want a husband but I don't think I'm going to get one. I just can't let anyone in...
  3. M

    a marriage that needs help

    Hi everyone! This is my first time on a forum like this. I'm sorry if this post is under the wrong forum. My husband and I were married 4 months ago and of course now we are being hit with life. Before we got married I knew that my husband struggled with a pornography addiction, however this was...
  4. B

    A re-occuring porn addiction.

    I remember that I wasn't much older than 11 years of age. It was the late 1990's, and the internet had not made it into our home, yet. Television was the way for me to get entertainment. By day, I watched cartoons, motorsports, movies, soap drama's, etc. But by night, being the curious only...
  5. Lybrah

    Can you go to hell for fantasizing about having sex?

    If you have sex fantasies, but you don't touch, is that a bad sin? One cannot help it, especially if one is single and does not want to have sex unless one is married. God have us this drive, correct?
  6. B

    Is the use of an IUD wrong? My doctor says I have a high chance of death if I get pregnant.

    My husband and I have been faced with a very difficult issue. I was diagnosed with a rare (1 in 10,000) blood disorder called Thrombotic thrombocytopenic purpura (TTP). If I were to get pregnant, I have a high chance of going into DIC, along with many other horrible possibilities. Meaning, the...
  7. pantingdeer

    My world is falling apart. Please pray for me.

    Whoever reads this do not laugh or judge me. Please help me, I'm in a very bad state. Until about 6 months ago I would be very into girls until one day all attraction towards women and the desire to be with one suddenly disappeared unexplained. I thought it was a phase and would maybe come back...
  8. pantingdeer

    Need help before I can't take anymore

    Whoever reads this do not laugh or judge me. Please help me, I'm in a very bad state. Until about 6 months ago I would be very into girls until one day all attraction towards women and the desire to be with one suddenly disappeared unexplained. I thought it was a phase and would maybe come back...
  9. pantingdeer

    Will God ever give me back a desire for women which I ask for

    im 17 and about 2 months ago I met this girl I really liked but never said. I kept thinking about her but and couple of days later my desire for women completely disappeared and since that day I've never felt attracted to a woman at all. This scares me greatly and I'm sure this contributed to...
  10. Ryan Landsberg

    SO MANY QUESTIONS

    Hello everyone, I'm a newbie (still trying to find my way around this site) and was just wondering if anyone could help me out... I've been a 'christian' all my life but only recently i really became very involved and dedicated to the Lord. However i do have many questions i would like answered...
  11. Y

    No sex for 7 months

    My wife and I are both Christians, we love the Lord with all of our hearts. We have been married for over 20 years and have definitely had some struggles (finances mainly), but we deeply care for each other. We are in our early 40's and in pretty good shape. The problem is, she just won't...
  12. seeing_glory

    Premarital sex struggles...advice needed!

    Hi everyone, just joined this forum because I need a community to talk to about these things. Happy to have found this :) So! I've been with my bf for about 2.5 years. He's 26, I'm 22. Both believers striving to grow. Things are great. I truly feel like he's right for me and we do plan to get...
  13. Douglas Hendrickson

    Is "agape" like "love"?

    The New Testament very much uses the term "agape," and it is very much translated as "love." Does that perhaps mean the earliest Christian writers have universalized the term "agape" much like English has the term "love," giving it quite a diverse usage meaning various things dependent on...
  14. Jonathanxr

    Young man with an addiction to sex and sexual thoughts?

    It's an absolute pleasure to be able to speak with you! I am a 21 year old young man. I feel like it is incredibly hard dealing with certain temptations and I don't really have anyone in my current life that is a guiding light. That's my reason for even being here now. I am sort of dating this...
  15. Jonathanxr

    Young man with an addiction to sex and sexual thoughts?

    It's an absolute pleasure to be able to speak with you! I am a 21 year old young man. I feel like it is incredibly hard dealing with certain temptations and I don't really have anyone in my current life that is a guiding light. That's my reason for even being here now. I am sort of dating this...
  16. NevaY

    How to help my boyfriend through his sexual frustration

    Hi, everyone, I am at my wits' end and hoping for some counsel from all of y'all! (Incidentally, this is my first post.) I have been dating a wonderful man for about 8 months. We have a strong, healthy relationship, and we spend most of our time talking, with friends and family, or in...
  17. D

    A question to all husbands - please help!

    Dear husbands, I am struggling with a decision to make and I thought maybe if you could share your experience that might be helpful. Here's the story: I am 33 years old and I am thinking of starting dating and then maybe marrying a girl I know. We like each other and there is a good...
  18. N

    Late 20s and Early 30s a Virgin Lifestyle

    I am almost 30 years of age, currently 28. Ever since I was little, I was told growing up not to drink, smoke, or do drugs. I never have. I was also told that I should not have sexual intercourse until marriage. I am to this day still a Virgin and I am saving myself until marriage. I am proud...
  19. Handy Andy

    I have a problem when I get bored, and it's pretty bad..

    Hi all, never posted on here before. So I'll get down to it, I'm a currently unemployed security guard, recently passed my police exam and I may be only 6-10 months away from going to the depot. However, being unemployed I can never find enough to fill my time, even if I assign myself multiple...