- Jun 19, 2016
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- Single
I am 20 yrs old and I am depressed because I fear I will be forever alone. Since 3 yrs ago I somehow seemed to lose my libido and attraction towards women overnight. I can still see the beauty of them but don't feel any strong urge towards them or anything and find it very difficult to be aroused by them now (AND NO IM NOT GAY).
I have very negative thoughts of myself and am filled with self-hate. My dad called me ugly once and it hurt me very much even though recently he told me I'm handsome and am the type of man women would be attracted to - the hurt of the previous comment remains in my mind and I think everyone thinks it of me now when people look at me.
Also, some person at the youth of my old church was mean to me on a church trip so I stopped going there too.
All in all, I am becoming very sad. I have no friends and no girlfriend and I don't feel like I belong anywhere. I feel like I can't tell anyone in real life how I feel as they wont understand. I can never be with a girl that I like at uni because I don't feel how I know Im meant to feel and she is perfect and deserves a proper man that isnt a loser like me.
Please help me by praying that my strong desire for women returns. This would make my confidence come back and bring the true me back to the world. I could then fit in with society, make friends, have a girlfriend and be a happy person.
Thank you for reading this.
I have very negative thoughts of myself and am filled with self-hate. My dad called me ugly once and it hurt me very much even though recently he told me I'm handsome and am the type of man women would be attracted to - the hurt of the previous comment remains in my mind and I think everyone thinks it of me now when people look at me.
Also, some person at the youth of my old church was mean to me on a church trip so I stopped going there too.
All in all, I am becoming very sad. I have no friends and no girlfriend and I don't feel like I belong anywhere. I feel like I can't tell anyone in real life how I feel as they wont understand. I can never be with a girl that I like at uni because I don't feel how I know Im meant to feel and she is perfect and deserves a proper man that isnt a loser like me.
Please help me by praying that my strong desire for women returns. This would make my confidence come back and bring the true me back to the world. I could then fit in with society, make friends, have a girlfriend and be a happy person.
Thank you for reading this.