Hi there, Im new to this site and joined to get some peoples opinions on this matter..
I have been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now, we are both believers and go to church and always intended on waiting until marriage to have sex. We know we are each others soulmates and are planning to get engaged after we have graduated our university studies for convenience. We love eachother so much and we fool around and have done things but never sex, but its so hard not to as we get so close to it sometimes. I know in my heart that I will marry this man and will eventually have sex with him, and im running out of reasons not to do it now, i feel like waiting until marriage is wasting a long time that we could've spend being closer together and sharing something so passionate and special, and for what? I know it says in the bible to wait until marriage but when you are with the one you know you will marry, why not do it now? what difference will a piece of paper and a name change really make? We have already vowed to each other that we will be spending the rest of our lives together, I dont see what difference marriage will make, only that it means rushing to just get marrieg so we can have sex and i dont want marriage to just be about that, it just seems a bit pointless in the grand scheme of things when you know you are already with the one.
Thoughts?
I have been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now, we are both believers and go to church and always intended on waiting until marriage to have sex. We know we are each others soulmates and are planning to get engaged after we have graduated our university studies for convenience. We love eachother so much and we fool around and have done things but never sex, but its so hard not to as we get so close to it sometimes. I know in my heart that I will marry this man and will eventually have sex with him, and im running out of reasons not to do it now, i feel like waiting until marriage is wasting a long time that we could've spend being closer together and sharing something so passionate and special, and for what? I know it says in the bible to wait until marriage but when you are with the one you know you will marry, why not do it now? what difference will a piece of paper and a name change really make? We have already vowed to each other that we will be spending the rest of our lives together, I dont see what difference marriage will make, only that it means rushing to just get marrieg so we can have sex and i dont want marriage to just be about that, it just seems a bit pointless in the grand scheme of things when you know you are already with the one.
Thoughts?