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  1. 7

    How should a young Christian man approach girls?

    I am approaching 20 years of age, as my birthday is in June. Like all young men, my flesh yearns for romantic female contact. However, in accordance with God, I am staying sexually pure until I am married. The problem is this. I'd love to date a girl and get married but I'm absolutely 100% dead...
  2. Heartofsilver

    Dating a Psychopath

    This past December I was eating lunch in the cafeteria at school. A man sat across the way at another table and spotted my Santa hat. He started talking to me about God, the Bible, living abroad, and starting a Bible study on campus. He seemed like a very friendly, intelligent and out going...
  3. Heartofsilver

    Dating a psychopath

    This past December I was eating lunch in the cafeteria at school. A man sat across the way at another table and spotted my Santa hat. He started talking to me about God, the Bible, living abroad, and starting a Bible study on campus. He seemed like a very friendly, intelligent and out going...
  4. SaintCody777

    How to date successfully on ChristianMingle

    Its very rare to find a godly woman in this world. Though many girls I see are hot, I know that's not really important when it comes to finding godly women, though it would be a good, helpful bonus. I barely found any genuine Christian girls at university, except for a girl who runs...
  5. B

    Am I wrong for hoping?

    So I moved churches to one that I could better serve and met this girl (worship ministers daughter) and we got really close really quick. We texted every day, and I've only known her for 3 weeks, and both had feelings for each other. I finally mustered up the courage to talk to her brother about...
  6. M

    Help this meddling mom :)

    My daughter is 17, and we have allowed her to start dating, provided the young man she chooses meets our standards- namely possessing a growing relationship with Jesus and tremendous respect for our daughter in every sense. She dated a boy for about one month, and he began sexting her and we...
  7. R

    Looking for a Devotional or Bible Study with my S/O.

    Hey, I am new to this site and I am looking into the idea of doing either a devotional or bible study with my s/o. I'll go into a little detail about each of us and our relationship to try and help y'all help me! (sorry it got more lengthy than I thought!!) About our spiritual paths: Both my...
  8. NotUrAvgGuy

    Dating Profiles

    I am never sure how much to relate about myself in dating profiles. Some people believe in keeping it light and saving anything heavier for once you get to know each other. I tend to want to save people time by sharing a bit more. Some counter my idea by suggesting that if I share too much...
  9. ovis90

    Should i seek for a soulmate or wait for it?

    So my question is should I try to find my soulmate or just wait for it to come. I am 27 Have been useing online dating sites for many years,but never choose any girl because i just never seen that which i would feel was for me. Then i started at one point feel very addictive almost like...
  10. B

    Relationship Advice Needed

    Morning All, So long story i need advice on how to handle this situation. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and have talked about marriage. She is a great and loving girl but she comes from a rough past. Her dad is in prison for fraud and she did her share of running...
  11. V

    Dating christian guys

    Hi everyone ! So I have recently entered back the christian dating world, I use to date non-christians but since that became a problem in a serious relationship I am trying to look into christian singles. But I do find christian guys are a bit less confortable with opinionated women... Or is it...
  12. Noelle_LikeChristmas

    I need boy advice. (Interdenominational relationship, non-denom and Catholic)

    I never thought anyone would fall in love with me. Much less did I ever dream there would be two of them. Also, I never expected myself to fall in love with anyone. Much less did I think it would be such a problem when I did... I know this is a stupid situation. But it's a situation...
  13. J

    Help please. Non-Denomination Christian dating Seven-Day Adventist

    Hello, One year ago I started dating my boyfriend who is a seven-day Adventist Christian. I was raised in a non-denominational church and have attended non-denominational, Baptist and Pentecostal churches in my past. My boyfriend and I both agree on the same fundamentals of the Bible and...
  14. A

    How long should friends wait till they start dating?

    I'm 32 and I've never been in an "official" relationship. I've been interested in quite a few girls at my church and Christian co-workers, but each one was either already seeing someone or weren't interested for some reason. It doesn't help matters that I'm pretty shy before I get to know...
  15. C

    Is My Doubt Divine or Other??

    I have been friends with a man whom I love and who loves me for over a year and a half. We started out merely as friends and have drawn closer in the last few months. Both of us have been in very damaging past relationships, both have children from these relationships and are hesitant to dive...
  16. H

    Dating a nonbeliever

    Hey all, So a couple of years ago I went through a very rough patch in my faith, nearly renouncing my relationship with God to live my own life. It was at this time that I started dating C, my current boyfriend. At the time, we had very similar beliefs and we worked quite well. However, as...
  17. N

    Women, have you ever had a guy be into you but you weren't into him initially but then it changed?

    Have you ever had fallen for him later on even though you weren't initially interested in him when he liked you? If so, what caused that to happen?
  18. GracefulGalPal

    Was it a good idea?

    So I made an eHarmony account to see if I could find a partner. Was it a good idea? I know some people don't like that site but I don't know what else to try.
  19. T

    To Date or Not to Date

    I have this friend that I’ve been really good friends with for a little over a year. We go to school & church together and are involved with so many things together in our youth group & such, so we’re pretty close friends. I really like him & he really likes me too... A weird thing that I’ve...
  20. T

    Relationship advice needed

    So I'm 17, don't smoke, drink, do drugs, etc. I'm Pentecostal and in church 5-6 times a week. I've never had a boyfriend before. Anyway, I met this guy who is 16, and he's amazing. He loves the Lord with all of his heart, he doesn't smoke, drink, do drugs either. We believe exactly the same...