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  1. A

    I've been feeling unsettled and confused in my relationship

    First I'm so sorry about how long this is. I've been with a guy for almost a year now and he is such a nice guy, we met at church, I'm 2 years older than him and our pastors actually set us up but we have now moved to a different church as we weren't growing in that one. Before we started...
  2. ovis90

    I need Advice

    Since I was a teenager I was in to online dating sites I always had my fear that I might stay alone if i wont look. It lead me to close my self from real relationship and have difficulty to keep friendships with people. I feel shy often around big groups or people at work or school. Few years...
  3. T

    My first love wants me back - what do I do?

    Hi all, First of all I am a 20 year old young woman who has a very strong faith in God. I have an awesome church family, friends and my own family who I know love me and have been so supportive of me. I just thought I would post to this forum to get some advice from others who don't know me or...
  4. R

    A reflection on why I find it hard to date fellow Christians

    A recent Whatsapp conversation with a Christian acquaintance I met online has just ticked me off. So much that I decided to myself that I am going to write this openly to see whether some people do think the same. THIS if you can't see the picture, it's basically a conversation that goes...
  5. E

    Relationship advice?

    Hello everyone, So I'm aware there's a number of different threads on this site asking for advice with relationship so I thought I'd join in and request some advice and guidance myself! A few months ago, my friend asked me out on a date and I straight away turned him down, and said I wasn't...
  6. C

    Need advice for approaching a guy.

    There is a guy who I have a ton of mutual friends with in church but for whatever reason I have never become friends with him. Additionally, I have only introduced myself once and other than that I see him in service and after during fellowship. I am really interested in becoming his friend and...
  7. S

    I feel lost..

    I feel so lost right now. I used to be so on fire for Christ and it feels like I have lost Him. I need some advice, it is much appreciated. About 5 years ago I used to be engaged to be married. I ended up calling off the wedding and it was very difficult. We continue to try to date off and...
  8. Lybrah

    Is God fed up with Me?

    I keep praying to God to send me a husband. The problem is, he sends me someone I just can't get interested in. Is it racist to say I don't want to date a particular race? I just don't feel attraction to this race (I'm not going to say what race it is). That might make me a racist, and I am...
  9. Y

    Asking out a complete Stranger

    Hello, This is my first post here. I am a christian man, and I intend to marry a godly christian woman. That being said the church I currently attend has no available girls. At my local supermarket there is this girlnI have talked to a little, I would like to ask her for her number but I don't...
  10. S

    The guy I like isn't Christian...

    I met a guy through umpiring and he's not Christian, but some reason I feel drawn to him and can't get him off my mind. I know that he likes me (a lot, as he's told me and I can see) but there are three problems: 1. He's not Christian and I always said I wouldn't date a non-believer. Also...
  11. S

    Did God place him in my life? Is he the one I've been praying for?

    So. I got out of a messy relationship with a man couple years ago. He was a liar, cheater, and did not care or love me in the way I was raised to love according to the Bible. I knew in my guy and by dreams that this man was not the right one for me yet I tried to make it work... Once I found out...
  12. D

    Trying to find a Christian wife

    I don't know if I'm posting this in the right place, but here it goes. I'm a 40 year old guy that is really trying to find the right woman for me. I'm not your typical 9 to 5 kind of guy. My passion is playing music for a living (metal) and I'm always working towards that goal to where I can...
  13. D

    When to start dating from a Christian standpoint

    Hello, my name is David, I am new here, I am 14. I joined because I had a question on my mind, and I needed an outside, christian opinion. So, as with some of you, my parents established a no dating rule (maybe anywhere between no dating til 14-18). For me it is no dating until we are 18 years...
  14. M

    Pray for relationship

    Hello. In November of 2016, I broke up with my girls friend of 2 years. We were not growing spiritually together and there were other things that would have never worked in a marriage. About 3 'I thank later, I started dating someone else. I have truly fallen in love with this girl and care...
  15. S

    21 y.o. living with mom which strictly reject my boyfriend. Should I move out?

    I am 21. I never had a boyfriend before. My parents have always overprotected me by not letting me have any contact with the opposite sex. I spent so long without guys contact that I spent 4 years in depression thinking that I was lesbian because I had feelings for some girls in high school and...
  16. S

    21, mom don't accept boyfriend, should I move out?

    I am 21. I never had a boyfriend before. My parents have always overprotected me by not letting me have any contact with the opposite sex. I spent so long without guys contact that I spent 4 years in depression thinking that I was lesbian because I had feelings for some girls in high school and...
  17. E

    looking for sound advice

    I am looking for some honest advice. Feel free to tell it like it is I am 26 and have been single for about a year, I'm not big into the going out and trying to meet women at bars and such so I decided to try out online dating back in November. I told myself that I wasn't going to settle for...
  18. SusieJeanne

    Dating Help! Am I worrying too much?

    Hello all, thank you for taking the time to read this. I have come seeking some solace and helpful information with the boy that I have been talking to. I feel like I am worrying far too much, but I have been hurt before in the past and dating honestly sort of scares me now. I have been trying...
  19. Rovelic Smith

    Not looking for short term

    “I have been in the West Lafayette area for a few years now and always looking to meet new people. I am a very hard worker and love my job. I work a lot, but I know how to balance well. I enjoy meeting new people and i love adventures, outdoors, watching movies, dancing, and traveling. I made...
  20. Lybrah

    Is it okay to date another Christian whose been divorced?

    I know the bible says that if a man divorces his wife and marries another, then he and that new woman are adulterers. But in this day and age, it is extremely hard not to meet someone who is divorced. Especially when you are older. Are there any exceptions? I don't want to commit adultery!