Hi everyone !
So I have recently entered back the christian dating world, I use to date non-christians but since that became a problem in a serious relationship I am trying to look into christian singles. But I do find christian guys are a bit less confortable with opinionated women... Or is it just me ?
I use to find that when I wouldn't agree on something with a guy he would listen and argue back but just by debating I never felt like it was somewhat "unattractive" and that is what I am feeling from christian guys. But maybe it's just me or I currently happen to experience this.... I have talked to a few christian guys and they don't like being wrong or "loosing" but maybe that is just cultural thing I don't know... I feel there is so a lot more ego at sake and that I am expected to be cute smile and not opinion too strongly. I know the bible tells the women to obey their husband and by the way not totally getting that as well. Since the bible also says that the men and women become one, and that the husband should love his wife like Jesus loves the church so to me it is a bit contrary to obeying.
So I guess I am questioning how a christian relationship should be according to the bible.
Thank you for your responses !
So I have recently entered back the christian dating world, I use to date non-christians but since that became a problem in a serious relationship I am trying to look into christian singles. But I do find christian guys are a bit less confortable with opinionated women... Or is it just me ?
I use to find that when I wouldn't agree on something with a guy he would listen and argue back but just by debating I never felt like it was somewhat "unattractive" and that is what I am feeling from christian guys. But maybe it's just me or I currently happen to experience this.... I have talked to a few christian guys and they don't like being wrong or "loosing" but maybe that is just cultural thing I don't know... I feel there is so a lot more ego at sake and that I am expected to be cute smile and not opinion too strongly. I know the bible tells the women to obey their husband and by the way not totally getting that as well. Since the bible also says that the men and women become one, and that the husband should love his wife like Jesus loves the church so to me it is a bit contrary to obeying.
So I guess I am questioning how a christian relationship should be according to the bible.
Thank you for your responses !