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  1. kaitlyn7645

    What is the right age to start thinking about courtship and marriage?

    Ok this is a little embarrassing, but I have been thinking about marriage and courtship/dating WAY too much lately and I have no idea why. I feel I shouldn't be thinking about this yet. But I can't help it lately. PLEASE tell me this is normal. lol I feel I'm going crazy. I think about it...
  2. Joyfuliness

    Please pray, about a guy!

    Please pray for my situation with a guy (long distance), I don't know him so well, not sure if he is a Christian(equally yoked), but I am comfortable talking to him in some ways and feel quite connected, there was a time we didn't speak for about a month(I dated him for a short period of time...
  3. Joyfuliness

    Dating Long Distance help!

    So about a month ago, i dated a guy for about a week from a christian dating website. It was a long distance relationship. I really felt like we had chemistry and such, like it was easy to talk to him, and he was understanding and we had similar interests but then he rushed, for the first few...
  4. M

    It is not who you date, it is who you marry?

    Online dating is something that I was thinking about getting into. I have no experience with it at all. Also, I am afraid that too much weight will be placed on appearance alone when going into online dating. For anyone that has tried it before, what are the pitfalls that come with appearance...
  5. Lost Girl

    The Hard Side of Adolescence

    Warning: This is a LONG story, so please be prepared. Every since I was a small girl I've had things happen to me that could only be described as miracles. I was blessed with a Godly intuition that always seemed to keep me out of trouble at just the right time. This intuition could even go to...
  6. Lost Girl

    The Serious Side of Adolescence

    Warning: This is a LONG story, so please be prepared. Every since I was a small girl I've had things happen to me that could only be described as miracles. I was blessed with a Godly intuition that always seemed to keep me out of trouble at just the right time. This intuition could even go to...
  7. T

    Is He the "one"?

    So I am currently 18 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about eight months now. I cannot describe the love I have for him. He is my absolute best friend and I am so crazy in love with him. He is not my first love, though. Nor am I his. But both of us agree that neither of us have loved...
  8. Lostbreed_ofchampion

    Church Girls vs Girls from the World

    Hello brothers in Christ, First of all, my english is far from being perfect. I am from Montreal where french is the first Language we learn at school. I am also hispanic, so before english turned into a linguistical obligation, i had two languages interfering with the natural process of...
  9. A

    Help me to understand my situation?

    My boyfriend recently broke up with me after spending 5 weeks in the Philippines together on a missions trip. He claimed that he felt it was what God was leading him to do. And he said that he doesn't know if he's the one for me and that he doesn't know if he can love me the way he used to, but...
  10. Lostbreed_ofchampion

    Church girls vs World girls (dating, courtship)

    Hello brothers in Christ, First of all, my english is far from being perfect. I am from Montreal where french is the first Language we learn at school. I am also hispanic, so before english turned into a linguistical obligation, i had two languages interfering with the natural process of...
  11. W

    More Than One Way To Worship?

    Hi, I have a question concerning my Christianity and my new girlfriend. She seems to think that, since my relationship with God is different from her's, I am either not strong in my faith or that I am not being a good Christian. I will elaborate on why my girlfriend thinks this but, firstly...
  12. NotUrAvgGuy

    What constitutes dating?

    I ask after just reading an article off-site about confirmed bachelors. They were writing about men who never married. I am a man who should never have married but did but now am a confirmed bachelor. Some such men still date and while they say they've been upfront about not wanting a...
  13. L

    Is Melania Trump a Mail Order Bride?

    Melania Knavs, was born in 1970 in Yugoslavia, now know as Slovenia. Knavs studied design and architecture at the University of Ljubljana in Slovenia. She then worked as a model for fashion houses in Milan and Paris before relocating to New York City in 1996. After moving to New York City...
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  15. T

    When/How/Should I break up with my current agnostic boyfriend?

    This is a long one, but I REALLY, REALLY I need advice on this as soon as possible; I have to make a decision tomorrow (today, really -- it's about 6AM as I write this, and he wants to come and get me for a date at 9 or 10). So I mentioned on another post how I was looking for a Daddy and...
  16. ilovesendai7

    BF-GF relationships sinful?

    After all, they are not in the Bible, and are not part of the Biblical model for finding a marriage partner. I believe that they have no place in Christian life. In my opinion, there should be no commitment until marriage is proposed and decided. The BF-GF relationship is just pointless, and...
  17. C

    I want a wedding blessed by God, but he doesn't agree.

    I am a little confused regading the future of my relationship. I am 32 and have been together with my boyfriend for 3 years and he is great and shows so much love for me and my 10 year old son. He is 34. My son is from a previous marriage and he asked my BF if we could live with him. I agreed...
  18. Julie.S

    What matters the most in the person you date?

    We all have things that we look for in a person. Some look for: Religion Looks Personality Age Maturity Weight Education Etc But whats the most important overall? This is not the same for everyone and we all look for different things. I would like to at least avoid major arguments in this...
  19. Andi Fels

    Nearly nineteen - How to deal with not being able to date

    Hey, so I'm just over a week off being nineteen, and, as the story goes, I have met a guy. He's really sweet and he is a Christian. We actually met through my godparents. But my dad won't let me date. Not until I have "finished my studies". And whilst I can understand why he says that, it's...
  20. C

    Pregnancy dream but not married?

    I try to pay attention to the dreams I have because I've had prophetic dreams before. This didn't necessarily feel prophetic but it did feel significant, I just wanted some feedback on it. I just had a dream that I found out I was pregnant after I had sex with my boyfriend. Now, keep in mind...