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  1. K

    Does God reunite a couple when the timing is right?

    Hello, I'll ask my question first. When you are in a relationship that seems to have a Devine hand leading it, but you mutually decide that the timing is off, does God reunite them when they have achieved their personal growth? And can you know/will God tell you if it is his will? And here is...
  2. L

    Conflicting mind regarding relationship

    Hi family. I am conflicted deeply about what the Lord wants me to do regarding my relationship. When I first starting dating my boyfriend a year and a 3 months ago, I felt like the Lord was calling me into this relationship. I joined the relationship due to his heart for God, our daily...
  3. M

    I feel so sad because I never have male interest

    I am 23 and I have never been asked out ever in my life before. Men never start conversations or small talk with me unless they have to. And when I go out, men pretty much never hit on me or try to flirt with me. I feel like I will never find someone or fall in love. I feel so undeserving of...
  4. Srom

    Doubts About Getting Married

    As a single, 22 year old man who desires to get married someday, I have only ever been in 1 relationship when I was 18 years old and that failed because she chose to give into depression and pushed me away and decided I was better off with someone else instead of her. Since my very first...
  5. Not David

    Dating or courting?

    I prefer dating but I would be interested in a peaceful discussion about why would you prefer a different option like courting. Share your thoughts!
  6. K

    Bible Study for Dating Couples

    Hello all and God Bless! I'm hoping someone can point me in the right direction. I've scoured the internet and LifeWay book stores but I have not been able to find a Bible study for couples to complete together. I'm looking for something that has a work book kind of like Beth Moore's studies do...
  7. A

    Making the most out of your single years

    Hey everyone! What are some of your tips and advice for making the most out of your singleness and being grateful where God has you?
  8. T

    How do I handle this friendship now that I have feelings for them

    I am a male in his twenties. One of my best friends is a woman who is also in her twenties. I drug her to church with me for months until she gave her life to God. Now she attends regularly on her own and is becoming involved in small groups and bringing her friends and family too. She has no...
  9. Servatude

    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Hello Family, I am a young man who is actively looking for a godly christian female to court or date. I have been having a dilemma as for whether or not I should go for women that I have been normally attracted to all my life. Just to give you a little background of myself, I was recently set...
  10. Servatude

    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Hello Family, I am a young man who is actively looking for a godly christian female to court or date. I have been having a dilemma as for whether or not I should go for women that I have been normally attracted to all my life. Just to give you a little background of myself, I was recently set...
  11. D

    MJ Only Are You a Single Messianic Believer Looking for a Spouse?

    I created a website called messianic-mingle.com There you will find a 100% Free, Messianic Courting/Dating platform. No catches, I made the site as a ministry to help Messianic believers who may not have many single Messianic people in their area. Check it out if you're Messianic and single, or...
  12. Royals IS

    Does e-dating work in the long run?

    So Ive been single for the past three years. I am not able to meet new people or engage in relationships in the place I am commited to. So I was wondering about e-dating, because I am generally only out in the community about 3 hours a week its very hard to meet people or even make friends...
  13. A

    How to share Christ with an ex? (Help)

    I was in a relationship for a short period and it hit a point where we had the "friend talk". Since then we'd talked a little but steadily grew apart. That was about a year ago. Recently, I had felt like God wanted me to reach out to her and I prayed that God would give me specific/clear signs...
  14. V

    Dating as a Christian

    Hello everyone, I've seen a bit of a similar thread in this forum. But I am wondering something slightly different. I want to know if, as a Christian, it is okay to date, for the sake of dating, (meaning, by my own definition, go on dates with anyone - Christian or non-Christian) without the...
  15. Srom

    Need Some Advice

    There is this girl that I think likes me, but we have been really good friends since our senior year (We are both 21 years old) and lately she has been wanting to hangout a lot lately more and more. I for one don't really like her, but she is a strong Christian women,very kind, and caring and I...
  16. Lybrah

    Struggling to develop feelings for guys

    I've been dating for about twenty years and am hardly ever interested in any man I meet. There were about two exceptions. I really, really liked these men but they ended it because they just weren't that into me. With one of them, I had a pretty good relationship with and thought it was...
  17. ovis90

    Bothered by Psychic words about my future

    So since I went to my last years of school when I was 17 my teacher. Said she can see the future and she told to all my class mates there future and many things came true. As well she said she was a Christian. She told me about me what she see and what is waiting for me. She said I will become a...
  18. B

    Confused - in the "friend zone"

    Hey guys. For some context to start, I like a girl from my church - we started 'hanging out' about 6 weeks ago to see if we wanted to enter a dating relationship with each other. It seemed to be going so well, but 2 weeks ago she abruptly tells me she can only "see me as a friend". Initially I...
  19. Royals IS

    Things need to change for me. Need advice

    So Im a 21 year old Male, who has never had a significant other and I honestly don’t know how to go about those types of things. I know I can’t be single forever but that was only recent thinking for about the last 6 months, since my mental health was not in check, for the last 4 years of my...
  20. Lexie Grey

    relationship help

    In the fall, I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 and a half years, I was feeling neglected and lonely so I made some mistakes. We broke up, and I ended up dating the person I cheated on him with (call him Y). However, me and the boyfriend I cheated on, kept in contact almost everyday after the...