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relationship advice

  1. R

    Doesn't God know everyone?

    I've been happily married for 2 years and even have a baby, but my mother and my husband have never seen eye to eye. The other day I was speaking on the phone with my mum and she told me that when my husband and I first met, she prayed to God about why they weren't getting along, and He told...
  2. MARIAH36

    Am I experiencing lust, infatuation or real attraction?

    I'm experiencing a really deep sadness, as someone that I feel deeply for is no longer in my life. We did not have a romantic relationship officially, but it was very obvious that there was chemistry there. I'm struggling now, to discern between whether my feelings are genuine or strictly...
  3. 2

    Guidance in my relationship

    Hi , i would appreciate some advice .. 22 years old , female , in a relationship that im not having peace about ... He said he was a Christian but his lifestyle said otherwise . I broke up with him because he was addicted to painkillers and in and out of jail , also he was pressuring me to...
  4. R

    Am I going about this the right way?

    Recently, well really just a few days ago my boyfriend broke up with me. This was my first serious relationship. Before our relationship, we were decently good friends. I had feelings for him all of the last school year and the summer. Never did anything about and I never expected to end up in a...
  5. Lexie Grey

    relationship help

    In the fall, I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 and a half years, I was feeling neglected and lonely so I made some mistakes. We broke up, and I ended up dating the person I cheated on him with (call him Y). However, me and the boyfriend I cheated on, kept in contact almost everyday after the...
  6. C

    Single father in need of relationship advice.

    First let me apologize for a potentially long post. I am a 26 year old active duty soldier. Back in 2016 I started talking to a girl I went to high school with. I was stationed in Texas at the time while she was back in my home state of Tennessee. During that time she was a single mother and I...
  7. J

    Can you please advice me on what to do/what went wrong?

    About a month ago, my ex-boyfriend and I broke up. To start off with, I had some issues with insecurity mainly due to the fact that firstly I was set up by my sister, so I didn’t really feel like dating/I am really naive so didn’t know what to expect when we first met. I’m also very much of an...
  8. J

    Trouble understanding what God wants from me.

    Hi, my name's Jordan, I'm 17. This is my first time using this site so I apologise in advance if I'm doing something wrong! I'm here asking for advice, because I feel completely lost as to what God is calling me to do. So it started in fall last year, I've lived in France for the last 11 years...
  9. J

    James

    Hello all. I'm not really a "Christian," at lest not seriously. I know about "Do unto others" and that's about as far as it goes. A co-worker suggested I search online for guidance and I thought this might be the place. The subject that brought me here is kind of embarrassing and most of my...
  10. B

    Relationship Advice Needed

    Morning All, So long story i need advice on how to handle this situation. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and have talked about marriage. She is a great and loving girl but she comes from a rough past. Her dad is in prison for fraud and she did her share of running...
  11. W

    Finding the relationship a challenge - advice and opinions appreciated

    Hello, I am unsure where to start on typing this. Firstly, my name is Abi, I'm 23 and live in England. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for approximately 6 years, however he lives in America so we only see each other perhaps once a year. A little about me - I was not born to or...
  12. H

    Dating a nonbeliever

    Hey all, So a couple of years ago I went through a very rough patch in my faith, nearly renouncing my relationship with God to live my own life. It was at this time that I started dating C, my current boyfriend. At the time, we had very similar beliefs and we worked quite well. However, as...
  13. Lanae

    How do I get my Christian friends to get closer to me?

    Every time I don't hang out with others that much, they just ignore me, block me every where on Social media and ignore my messages social media, phone calls and text messages after they leave the church and all because I never spend time with them. I don't know what topic to talk about with...
  14. J

    Relationship Advice-21 never dated?

    What’s up everyone? I’m new around here, but it feels like a cool community from what I’ve seen so far so I’m excited to explore. I’ve got a lot of background information so you can actually understand why I’m a really frustrated and feeling a little helpless for the first time. None the less...
  15. D

    Need relationship advice

    I am currently 17 and a senior in high school and have liked a girl since february of last year and have been mostly texting her since. I told her i liked her at the end of june and she even said that she liked me for a time in the summer. Fast forward to the end august and after alot of times...
  16. Tardis911

    Running Away?

    I am just in need of some non-judgmental emotional advice and support right now. This morning my boyfriend got out of bed without saying a word and drove away. We had not even spoken to each other so I have no clue what is wrong. He has been gone for 8 hours. His phone is dead. We live together...
  17. B

    Advice about a developing relationship

    Hi all, i wanted some input from other believers about a current relationship im pursueing with a girl at my church, So i recently started attending this church a couple months ago, and i met this girl who is around my age (20) and we have had some conversations on and off hear and there, most...
  18. Luis Z

    There's this girl...but I don't know if I can pursue...

    Hi everyone, blessings! I happen to have a big crush. It all started somewhat recent. An event like this is usually something to be a happy about. Unfortunately, I'm very conflicted, and don't know what to do. So I would like to seek council here if possible, to see what you all think. First...
  19. Luis Z

    There's this girl...but I don't know if I can pursue

    Hi everyone, blessings! I happen to have a big crush. It all started somewhat recent. An event like this is usually something to be a happy about. Unfortunately, I'm very conflicted, and don't know what to do. So I would like to seek council here if possible, to see what you all think. First...
  20. A

    I've been feeling unsettled and confused in my relationship

    First I'm so sorry about how long this is. I've been with a guy for almost a year now and he is such a nice guy, we met at church, I'm 2 years older than him and our pastors actually set us up but we have now moved to a different church as we weren't growing in that one. Before we started...