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relationship advice

  1. E

    Please help - Relationship in crisis

    Hi, new member and firs time poster... A little background: I am 25 years old. I am a Christian female who isn't heavily involved in church... but do go on the occasion and try my best to do what is right in terms of my faith. It has officially been one year since I got out of an emotionally...
  2. D

    Is there a forum about relationships?

    Hi, my name's Alain. I just signed up here bc i need some advices about my love life and i am not sure in which forum to ask for help.
  3. S

    Did God place him in my life? Is he the one I've been praying for?

    So. I got out of a messy relationship with a man couple years ago. He was a liar, cheater, and did not care or love me in the way I was raised to love according to the Bible. I knew in my guy and by dreams that this man was not the right one for me yet I tried to make it work... Once I found out...
  4. T

    Long term boyfriend tells me no to having children...

    I'm really hoping I'm putting this in the correct place, I apologize if I'm not. My mind isn't quite with it at the moment and I could really use some advice. To keep this short and sweet... like every relationship - there are always up's and down's. I have been with my boyfriend just over 4...
  5. Women Seeking Truth

    Me, My Ex & His Wife

    My ex boyfriend from 10 years ago got in contact with me through social media early last year. It was pretty unexpected for me because it came out of nowhere at the most unexpected time of my life. I was at a very low point for quite sometime after my stepfather committed suicide on my 25th...
  6. J

    I don't know where to begin

    To start off let me give you my background. I was raised in a conservative christian home. And I consider myself a Christian believer by faith. I am 22 years old and I live with my parents. In February of 2015 I met this amazing guy. He was everything I've always wanted but never knew I truly...
  7. S

    21 y.o. living with mom which strictly reject my boyfriend. Should I move out?

    I am 21. I never had a boyfriend before. My parents have always overprotected me by not letting me have any contact with the opposite sex. I spent so long without guys contact that I spent 4 years in depression thinking that I was lesbian because I had feelings for some girls in high school and...
  8. Olivia C

    Being unequally yoked.

    I was in a 6 month relationship with a strong believer in god but I am only returning to my faith. We split up after having a 4 hour discussion about our faith. We discussed his testimony and why I turned my back on god. We prayed together and I asked god to take my burdens from me and accept me...
  9. Ahilla

    Should I give in to sex?

    My boyfriend and I are both Christians, but we had sex before marriage. After a long time of wantingto stop but not wanting to lose him, I finally built up the courage to tell him we need to stop, and I told him a., the reasons. He said he understands my reasons and he agrees, but he keeps doing...
  10. Hate&Rage

    I am that guy everyone says she should leave

    My rage knows no bounds. I struggle with it and more often than not, it wins. I'm too weak. My faithful gf of 3 years has been always by my side, at a terrible cost. I can only imagine the mental trauma of knowing my darkest thoughts and witnessing my rage consume me. I have been so angry...
  11. S

    Dating a non-virgin

    Dear All, I am currently dating a girl and i found out that she is not a virgin. As for me through the Grace of God i am. I understand and truly believe that it was not my will, but rather God's Will and Grace that intervened in many of these situations where i could too have slept with a girl...
  12. R

    Long distance relationship woes?

    I have posted about this guy before. Since then we have become exclusive and he just visited me for the 1st time. I cannot stamp out this feeling of disconnect (when apart) which to me is more then the miles btw us. I felt this way shortly before I ended my 1st serious relationship, where we...
  13. LauraAviel

    Severe co-dependence help

    I am just starting to realize that I am severely co-dependent and have been for a long time. I believe that this is what is at the roots of many of my problems. I was wondering if there is anybody here who has any experience with co-dependence or overcoming co-dependence? I would appreciate any...
  14. Joyfuliness

    Please pray, about a guy!

    Please pray for my situation with a guy (long distance), I don't know him so well, not sure if he is a Christian(equally yoked), but I am comfortable talking to him in some ways and feel quite connected, there was a time we didn't speak for about a month(I dated him for a short period of time...
  15. M

    I Don't Know Why I'm in this Relationship..

    I'm 17 years old and I've been this one guy for a year and a half. We have a great connection and we're really close. We're both Christians and are waiting until marriage.. But I don't want to get married anytime soon. And I don't know if I want to be with him, I feel like I can't escape. I've...
  16. K

    Spiritual advice on bullying amd confrontation

    Hi everyone, I am new to these forums and even new to the Christian faith. I have just started to explore a relationship with Jesus and I am struggling with how to appropriately deal with a situation that has been ongoing with my boyfriend of 5 years ex girlfriend. In the beginning of our...
  17. T

    Is He the "one"?

    So I am currently 18 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about eight months now. I cannot describe the love I have for him. He is my absolute best friend and I am so crazy in love with him. He is not my first love, though. Nor am I his. But both of us agree that neither of us have loved...
  18. W

    More Than One Way To Worship?

    Hi, I have a question concerning my Christianity and my new girlfriend. She seems to think that, since my relationship with God is different from her's, I am either not strong in my faith or that I am not being a good Christian. I will elaborate on why my girlfriend thinks this but, firstly...
  19. F

    Christian boyfriend of 2 years cheated

    Hello, I really need some advice on my situation. So to start off my boyfriend and I met during college. He was brought up in a strong Christian household, faithful/supporting family, he went to church each weekend, and brought me closer to The Lord. I am a Christian as well, but I was a...
  20. R

    How do I deal with feelings of hurt in my realtionship?

    Recently within my relationship I have began to wonder if I had made a mistake or if I wanted out. My boyfriend and I are not married but engaged with a baby due 4 months out. When we first got together we never fought or argued. I new in my head that this would come to an end as all...