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relationships

  1. H

    Who should I choose to be around?

    Good evening! I have come across some scriptures that have me a little confused. From what I understand, they all seem to be saying that I should not be around sinners and unbelievers. Here are three scenarios that I am currently in that are causing me to not be sure of what I should do...
  2. Heartofsilver

    Text Only Relationships And Hook Up Culture

    Hello everyone, I'm very frustrated today with this new way that people seem to be getting together or lack there of. I have noticed a gradual shift in the dating world in the past five or so years. Guys used to ask me out on dates looking for a commited relationship and I eventually ended up...
  3. Cynthia Teoh

    Former crush is dating non-believer and we're both christians?

    We both met at OCAC a year ago and we were just friends. I used to hug him all the time even though he should have spoken up about it. He used to make me laugh so hard until my guts hurt like mad. I had another crush so I didn't like him until August when I started missing him a lot. When he...
  4. S

    Ongoing suffering and grief from the separation of my ex partner

    Hello everyone, I hope you are having a most blessed day! I'll try and keep this short and simple. Basically I made the decision to separate from my ex boyfriend (who I was also engaged to and living with) of 5 years. I left him 5 months ago and I am still struggling to cope. I met someone else...
  5. L

    Sex and marriage

    Hi there, Im new to this site and joined to get some peoples opinions on this matter.. I have been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now, we are both believers and go to church and always intended on waiting until marriage to have sex. We know we are each others soulmates and are...
  6. 2PhiloVoid

    ATHEIST vs. CHRISTIAN view of … Female/Male Romance?

    Hi Everyone! For this thread, I've posted a video by Atheist, Rachel Oates, an educated, seemingly classy young gal, wherein she reviews a presentation from a Christian guy known as 'ThatChristianVlogger' who addresses a specific tangent about relationship expectations which have to do with why...
  7. stormie_renee

    Unsaved Boyfriend

    I've been in a relationship for almost three years now. I got saved early September of last year, however, my boyfriend is not. He told me he wanted to get saved yet..he's only given me excuses. He's the type of guy who only runs to church when something bad happens(he is a believer) He said he...
  8. M

    Breakup with Non-Christian

    Hello all! Yesterday I made the decision to end my one year relationship with my boyfriend. I knew before that he was a non-believer. I stayed and continued this because I loved him, but he did not love all of who I am, he did not love God as I do not the God who lives in me. He told me that...
  9. M

    Breakup with a Non-Christian

    Hello all! Yesterday I made the decision to end my one year relationship with my boyfriend. I knew before that he was a non-believer. I stayed and continued this because I loved him, but he did not love all of who I am, he did not love God as I do not the God who lives in me. He told me that...
  10. Lanae

    How do I get my friends to stop avoiding me?

    I'm sick and tired my friends avoiding me all because I try to touch them and tickle them. I was just joking. They avoid me all because I touch them. I was just getting their attention when I forget their names. How do I get them to stop avoiding me and how do I get them to come back to...
  11. Lanae

    Close friendships

    how often does it take get close to a friend?
  12. Lanae

    For my friends I never spend time with

    I messaged E on kakaotalk and she just told me to leave her alone and don't contact her anymore I didn't do anything to her. My sister in Christ, M is so lucky have Ellie hanging out with her all the time. Just because I never spend time with someone doesn't mean I cant contact them. She so...
  13. Lanae

    Cyber stalking and stalking in real life

    I'm not stalking anybody so I'm just saying it. when I used to cyber stalk someone or make fake profiles to add them, they cuss me out, calls me names, ignore me, and not care anything about me. Why are they doing this to a sweet innocent girl like me? Why are they cussing at me and calling...
  14. L

    Sexual temptation

    I was with a man for a couple of years but i broke it off as he's not Christian. Really sweet, kind hearted man; he's been going through a rough time mentally and we have maintained a friendship. My problem is that when we first met i wasnt Christian, and we shared an active sex life. Although...
  15. B

    Not sure what to do with relationship of 3 years

    I struggled a long time with being a Christian and finally got baptised. A year later, I met my boyfriend. I told him I was looking for a Christian man to be my husband and lead the family in Christ. He said it was a big role to step up to and said he would pray about it and told me to keep a...
  16. E

    I need advice

    hello everyone. I created this because I have nobody I can talk to and I am dealing with the greatest pain I have had to go through in my life so far. I have been in an off again on again relationship for the last 4 years. This summer in august he broke it off officially with me because we both...
  17. I

    Desire to marry one day; need advice on a serious concern of mine

    Hello, my name is Ivan; I'm a 21 year old male. I'm new to the forums so if this is the wrong place or I format wrong or something please let me know! I signed up to this forum because I need advice from other Christians about a sensitive matter. I have a strong desire to marry, and one day I...
  18. megan_26

    Please pray

    Hello. I've been single my entire life, mostly out of fear of what my Dad would say if I brought home a boy. But recently I've become friends with a nonbeliever who is by far the sweetest and most incredible person I have ever met. We like each other very much and have admitted this to each...
  19. Lanae

    Do you think the People-Searching websites are a scam?

    People-Searching websites: Instant Checkmate US Search Itelius PeopleFinders USA People Search TruthFInder BeenVerified Spokeo Veromi MyLife PeopleSmart PeekYou LinkedIn Maybe facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, Zabasearch Pipl White Pages I think sometimes these...
  20. J

    Relationship Advice-21 never dated?

    What’s up everyone? I’m new around here, but it feels like a cool community from what I’ve seen so far so I’m excited to explore. I’ve got a lot of background information so you can actually understand why I’m a really frustrated and feeling a little helpless for the first time. None the less...