relationships

Hi everyone, blessings! I happen to have a big crush. It all started somewhat recent. An event like this is usually something to be a happy about. Unfortunately, I'm very conflicted, and don't know what to do. So I would like to seek council here if possible, to see what you all think. First...

Hi everyone, blessings! I happen to have a big crush. It all started somewhat recent. An event like this is usually something to be a happy about. Unfortunately, I'm very conflicted, and don't know what to do. So I would like to seek council here if possible, to see what you all think. First...

Hi all, First of all I am a 20 year old young woman who has a very strong faith in God. I have an awesome church family, friends and my own family who I know love me and have been so supportive of me. I just thought I would post to this forum to get some advice from others who don't know me or...

So my fiance and I have been together for a little over a year now and known each other for 6 years. Right now it's a long distance relationship with us living in different states but, one day soon it won't be. As soon as he can afford it he's moving to my hometown to be with me and then we're...

hi everyone. I greet The Saints everywhere. I salute all those that stand steadfast. I'm new to the forum scene, but I'm here to see what ideas christians are bringing to the table. I'm 32 and I've been a Christian for 9 years. At the moment, I'm working on a Christian book on the concept of...

Hello everyone, So I'm aware there's a number of different threads on this site asking for advice with relationship so I thought I'd join in and request some advice and guidance myself! A few months ago, my friend asked me out on a date and I straight away turned him down, and said I wasn't...

**LONG POST** God be with you all! On another thread, some brethren suggested that I not only discuss my present situation w/ my wife regarding separation, but me entire testimony instead...so here we go. I was born-again in September 2008. Prior to that, I was raised Roman Catholic and...

I am dating long distance again, this time it is different! The guy came down to meet me, we had an roadtrip together and with a one of my friends. It was for about 5 days, it was a blast, we didnt get tired of each other, and we got along well, we hardly show any intimacy though like we didnt...

This is my first post, I am new here! I need some advice/insight. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. He's a great man, probably the best I've ever met. I have a hard time letting anyone in, especially love, so there have been some rocky moments. I have anxiety, so I...

I met a guy through umpiring and he's not Christian, but some reason I feel drawn to him and can't get him off my mind. I know that he likes me (a lot, as he's told me and I can see) but there are three problems: 1. He's not Christian and I always said I wouldn't date a non-believer. Also...

This has been on my mind here as of late, and I can't stop thinking about it. My teenage years were horrid in terms of relationships. Barely any ladies were interested in me, and the only thing I would hear from ministers was that "men are dogs" and girls were "delicate creatures that needed...

I don't know if I'm posting this in the right place, but here it goes. I'm a 40 year old guy that is really trying to find the right woman for me. I'm not your typical 9 to 5 kind of guy. My passion is playing music for a living (metal) and I'm always working towards that goal to where I can...

Personally, I do NOT believe that there is "one person out there for everyone." I do NOT believe that God provides you with "a soulmate." When I was a high school student in the late 1990's, I was FOOLED, MISLED, DECEIVED AND DUPED by the promise of true love that this "Love Letter from God"...

Dear All, I am currently dating a girl and i found out that she is not a virgin. As for me through the Grace of God i am. I understand and truly believe that it was not my will, but rather God's Will and Grace that intervened in many of these situations where i could too have slept with a girl...

I had this dream last night that really stood out. I'm pretty sure it meant something since it was a double dream. Dream 1: I was laying in my bed alone wishing that I could snuggle with my bf but he was nowhere to be found. I was laying in the dark sad and alone. All of a sudden I noticed a...

Hello! I am a young 23 year old woman who is a Christian. Although, I am not 100% sure if the relationship I am in is right. The guy I have been seeing for almost 2 years now is not affection at all. We live together at the moment but he isn't treating me like a girlfriend. He treats me like a...

Hello, I am new here and wanted to post a new thread but don't know where to post it. It's about relationships. I recently got out of a serious 5 year-long relationship about 7 months ago and am very lonely. I know that God is with me and Jesus said He will never leave me or forsake me but I...

Hi, I'm new to this forum so bare with me. About a month ago, my girlfriend for whom I was dating for over 3 months broke up with me. She told that it wasnt me, it was her. She was still dealing with baggage (specifically mental issues) from a very bad past relationship she had. It took me by...

After all, they are not in the Bible, and are not part of the Biblical model for finding a marriage partner. I believe that they have no place in Christian life. In my opinion, there should be no commitment until marriage is proposed and decided. The BF-GF relationship is just pointless, and...