divorce

  1. H

    I Cant Be Financially Attached To You Anymore

    Since being married we have had some financial issues mainly my mishandling funds. The last straw came when I lost our rent money gambling. Yes I gambled. I never did this before. Fact is my wife packed and moved out she has been living with her mom for 34 days. The day before our aniversery...
  2. T

    Annulment and Remarriage = Adultery

    /thread
  3. C

    Child-on-child molestation occurred, what now?

    Short story: my son “Jay” molested my step-son “Bill” (the incident happens twice and there was no penetration) at the time he was 11, and 7. This occurred about 4 years ago, he’s been in therapy (he’s had difficulties along the way but more so about behavior than acting out sexually) recently...
  4. Pavel Mosko

    Divorce (Is adultery the only justifiable reason for it?)

    I have a friend who is in the process of getting a divorce from his wife who he has been married for 30 years or so. The marriage has been bad for at least the last 20 years. His wife I'm sure is at least seriously mentally ill and maybe even demonized (Kevin my friend does not believe...
  5. F

    Advice please

    my wife and I have been married for 20 years. Things have been good for the most part but the last couple of years have really been a struggle. Last year she found out that the guy she dated for 4 years before we got married was getting divorced and was putting his house up for sale. I’m not...
  6. JenniferLeigh

    Devastated by failed marriage and losing faith

    I desperately need prayer and encouragement. I am so deeply hurt by my husband's betrayal and our subsequent separation that I have come to doubt the Truth in my grief. I have come to doubt God's love. I have come to doubt the life giving power of the Gospel. The pain is excruciating. I am so...
  7. Brent Papineau

    The top 3 healing issues/topics for the recently divorced?

    Hi, everyone. For over 4 years, God has led me to write a blog to help people that need healing from divorce. I have also written 2 divorce reading plans for the YouVersion Bible App that are approaching 100,000 downloads. I wanted to provide a Christian perspective to the issues and feelings...
  8. P

    Toxic Femininity

    ON WOMEN: Father, help me in this writing. How I long to bring harmony into homes, and work-places, but I know what I am about to write, can be divisive in its basest suggestions. Satan, get thee behind me! Jesus Christ is encouraging me to lead His Body into growth, love, and peace! It...
  9. N

    Ex Wife left me and the kids and I'm depressed

    Thank you for taking time to read my story. 15 years ago, at the age of 20 I got Married to the love of my life. We had already had our first child at a young age and knew that we wanted to be together for the rest of our lives. So we got married at a church and tied the knot. After getting...
  10. W

    My husband wants to seperate

    Over a period of time the intimacy stopped. My husband would sleep in the guest bedroom bc he snores loud, drinks, and comes to bed much later than I do. Eventually this became an every night thing. He said he would go to the doctor to find out why he was snoring so badly but he never did. He...
  11. W

    Hi I’m Rachel - struggling Ex Wife

    I am Rachel and I got divorced approx in 2007. I filed, and I am and have been single since which I feel completely content with. I almost feel too content but I am not at all broken hearted or still grieving, I’m fine. I have just been busy in and out of courts with my ex and custody issues...
  12. Bible Highlighter

    The Bible's Laws on Divorce and Remarriage.

    Whosoever shall put away his wife, except for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery (Matthew 5:32). In Matthew 19:9 it says: “Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery;" Some think you can divorce for other...
  13. JenniferLeigh

    Need advice about separation and possible divorce

    Hi. I am a devoted Christian female married to a nominal Christian who has committed adultery. I forgave the adultery, but he refuses to work and is on the run from law. He was on disability collecting $750/mo but he lost it and isn't seeking God or work. I understand that adultery is grounds...
  14. N

    PLEASE READ MY STORY, in DIRE need of guidance!!!

    in 2011 I dated a woman in an on and off relationship to 2014. In 2014 during one of our breakup I had relations with her best friend. That year I proposed to her. During that time we sought marriage counseling and was told not to marry instead wait a year. A year later in 2015 we sought...
  15. D

    Open Marriage versus Divorce when both are sins??

    I have been married for 18years and for the last 5 years, my husband has asked for us to join a swinger lifestyle as he feels this will bring the “spark” back. He says we have a wonderful sex life and marriage but he feels it needs more and that this is the only thing he feels is missing. This...
  16. P

    Validity of a Marriage Union

    Presupposition 1: Matthew 19:6 “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” implies that God makes the union between a man and a woman in marriage; God joins them. We also know that the marriage partners become one flesh. So something happens; God does something. It's...
  17. Episaw

    Fatherless Children

    One of the most disturbing trends in today’s society is the increasing distance, if not separation, of fathers from their biological children. Arguably, the arrival of easily obtainable divorce led not only to the breakup of families but also to a pandemic of fatherless children. In the lives...
  18. Dropout_Theologian

    Please pray for a friend's marriage

    Hello. My good friend who would probably like to remain anonymous announced today that he and his wife decided to get a divorce, and he was near the point of tears telling us. Please pray that their marriage can be mended, as I really like this guy. Thank you.
  19. A

    Why are single moms wrong without knowing the situation?

    I have noticed that when a Christian single mother asks how good Christian men feel about single mothers, often times it is assumed that the single mother made a "mistake" or was a "fornicator" in which conceived the child out of wedlock....this seems to be assumed almost always from Christian...
  20. C

    My Wife's Behaviour Ruined Our Christian Marriage - I don't wish to be alive

    Hi, This is a bit of a long one. I asked similar before, but began suffering depression to the point I couldn't think to answer, and I apologise. I loved my wife unconditionally, did nothing to instigate our problems. She made a lot of bad choices (details below) she has done a 180 on truly...