- Jun 12, 2019
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- Marital Status
- Married
Since being married we have had some financial issues mainly my mishandling funds. The last straw came when I lost our rent money gambling. Yes I gambled. I never did this before. Fact is my wife packed and moved out she has been living with her mom for 34 days. The day before our aniversery june 9 she told me she wants a divorce, only after asking many time. She said " I didnt want to tell you because I didnt want to hurt your feelings." . I was and still am hurting and confused. My sister tried spoke with her and she told my sister " she only said yes she would marry me because she did not want to hurt my feelings. I moved out so she could move back in with my step son. Point: I have prayed and continue to pray standing on Gods Word. My wife dont want to sit down with our pastor and talk. She blocked my calls we only speak through FB messenger. She was married for 10 years in a abusive relationship divorced him and Im the second. I have never been married I truly do not believe in divorce especially for somthing that can be repaired. Her family love me and mine her. But I believe her mom has a big influence on her because she has been seperated fro her second husband for 7 years never divorced. She has not filed for divorce and seems to not care to. I will not because I still love and I believe we can work through this. But she is just not hearing me. I admit finacially I could have did better just felt it was not as bad until now. I totally understand her stress but I thought we where in this together. Yes I messed no excuse. I take full blame. I just want to restore our marriage. I have a good wife. My pastor said he tried and she dont want to sit down and talk. I dont know what she is doing or plans to but I continue to love her and be faithful until she moves forward. I praying GOD interviens or will he allow this to carry out? I could not imagine GOD letting this continue but I dont know. Any suggestions.