Hi,
I'm new to this forum so bare with me. About a month ago, my girlfriend for whom I was dating for over 3 months broke up with me. She told that it wasnt me, it was her. She was still dealing with baggage (specifically mental issues) from a very bad past relationship she had. It took me by surprise at the time, but looking back I should have seen it coming as the final couple weeks we began to have problems arise. We broke up with nothing but good things to say to and about each other. Although we have not talked to each at all since then as we both needed time and space to heal and figure out whats next for our lives, is there any chance we get back together? And also should I try to contact her at some point or should I let her contact me since she was the one who initiated the break up? This was my first real relationship as other relationships I had werent good ones either. Overall we had a good time for the first 2-2 1/2 months of our relationship. We bonded very quickly and easily as we had a lot in common. But I guess she needed more time and healing from her past. I know it was a God thing that we broke up but I also believe it was a God thing that we both were in the relationship. So the 2 questions are is there any chance at getting back together? And should I try to contact her at some point or should I just wait for her? Thanks for any and all advice!
I'm new to this forum so bare with me. About a month ago, my girlfriend for whom I was dating for over 3 months broke up with me. She told that it wasnt me, it was her. She was still dealing with baggage (specifically mental issues) from a very bad past relationship she had. It took me by surprise at the time, but looking back I should have seen it coming as the final couple weeks we began to have problems arise. We broke up with nothing but good things to say to and about each other. Although we have not talked to each at all since then as we both needed time and space to heal and figure out whats next for our lives, is there any chance we get back together? And also should I try to contact her at some point or should I let her contact me since she was the one who initiated the break up? This was my first real relationship as other relationships I had werent good ones either. Overall we had a good time for the first 2-2 1/2 months of our relationship. We bonded very quickly and easily as we had a lot in common. But I guess she needed more time and healing from her past. I know it was a God thing that we broke up but I also believe it was a God thing that we both were in the relationship. So the 2 questions are is there any chance at getting back together? And should I try to contact her at some point or should I just wait for her? Thanks for any and all advice!