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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Poll: Gen Z men more likely than women to prioritize having children, marriage

The young men and women of Gen Z have drastically different definitions of personal success depending on their gender and who they voted for in the 2024 presidential election, a new NBC poll found.

The NBC News Decision Desk Poll, conducted among 2,970 adults aged 18-29 from Aug. 13 to Sept. 1, found that young men who voted for President Donald Trump said their top indicator of personal success is having children. According to Geiger Capital on X, 34% of young men said having children is their top priority in achieving personal success.

Young women who voted for Trump ranked children as sixth on a list of 13 definitions of success, opting instead to put “achieving financial independence” as their highest indicator of personal success. Young women who voted for former Vice President Kamala Harris ranked children as 12th most important on the list, while men who voted for Harris placed children in 10th position.

The poll found that marriage also was deeply polarizing. According to Geiger Capital, 29% of young male Trump voters said marriage was important to their personal definitions of success. Marriage was ranked fourth of 13 among men who voted for Trump. Both female Trump voters and male Harris voters ranked marriage as ninth on the list. Female Harris voters ranked it in 11th place, with just 6% saying being married contributes to their views of personal success.

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Is Mary the Woman in Revelation 12?

Even many Protestant scholars believe she is an image of the mother of Jesus​


When Protestants say, “Catholics believe in doctrines that aren’t found in the Bible,” they often appeal to the dogma of Mary’s assumption in order to justify the claim. In response, some Catholics say the Assumptionis in the Bible because Mary is the woman John sees in heaven that is described in Revelation 12. Protestants often counter this claim by accusing Catholics of shoehorning Mary into a text that is actually talking about the Church or the people of Israel.

So who is right?

In one sense, both. But before I explain how that could be, I need to remind Catholics that we are not Protestant.

Challenges that we must “prove” all Catholic doctrine from Scripture shouldn’t worry us because we reject the unbiblical doctrine of sola scriptura. When St. John Henry Newman preached on Mary’s assumption and immaculate conception, he gave evidence for those doctrines, but he also said, “I am not proving these doctrines to you, my brethren; the evidence of them lies in the declaration of the Church. The Church is the oracle of religious truth, and dispenses what the apostles committed to her in every time and place.”

A plausible case can be made, however, that the Bible “reflects” the doctrine of the Assumption and that evidence for this dogma is implicitly found in John’s description of the woman in Revelation 12:1-6. This isn’t enough to prove that Mary was assumed into heaven, but it does cohere with prior belief in Mary’s assumption and provides additional support for that claim. So let’s examine what John says about this woman and consider the possible Marian symbolism:

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Shut Up About Pope Leo

Since his election on May 8, Pope Leo XIV has become the subject of a torrent of analysis. Timehailed him as a global authority on artificial intelligence. The National Catholic Registerparsed lessons from his still-young papacy for corporate boardrooms. Vatican journalist Christopher White has already published a book about the beginnings of Leo’s tenure.

The Pope has also quickly been roped into church politics. Conservatives have fawned over his choice to use Pope Benedict XVI’s ceremonial stave and don the traditional red mozzetta. Liberals have hailed his progressive stances on immigration and climate change. The swirl of coverage has already branded him both “woke pontiff” and “the most based Pope ever” within his first month.

Coverage of the Bishop of Rome is now a bona-fide industry, with journalists scrutinizing his every aside, old lecture, and offhand gesture in search of clues about his views on doctrine or culture. The insatiable appetite of American Catholics for papal content exposes the very ills of the modern Church that many observers hope Pope Leo will address. In an age of instant news and constant commentary, the faithful have become conditioned to consume the papacy as spectacle. Yet Leo’s pontificate may offer the chance to recover a quieter, older form of devotion, one less dependent on press conferences and soundbites.

Much speculation already swirls around the possibility of Leo’s first encyclical. The very name he chose, Leo, evokes Leo XIII, the 19th-century pope who inaugurated Catholic social teaching. Rumors in July suggested that a draft was underway. For many, this promised letter would establish the tone of his papacy.

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What’s Most Important in Life? A King’s Last Words Give Us Cause for Reflection

I happened to stumble on a story from history while on my phone one day—it was really inspiring for me, so I wanted to share it with others. The story goes like this: Alexander the Great was one of the most successful military commanders in history. He became very ill on his return journey from his victorious military campaign, and just as he was about to die, he shared his three last wishes with his generals. First, he wanted his physicians to carry his coffin back, and he wanted the road to the cemetery where his coffin was to be taken to be strewn with gold, silver, and precious stones. Lastly, he wanted both of his hands to be placed so they were outside of the coffin. Alexander explained that by doing so, he wished to impart three lessons upon the living. First, no matter how great a physician’s skill, they cannot save people’s lives; they cannot determine a person’s life and death. Second, it isn’t worth it to spend an entire life in the pursuit of wealth; it’s a waste of precious time. And finally, each one of us comes into this world empty-handed, and we will leave empty-handed. We can’t take a single thing with us.

Alexander the Great passed with great regrets, and while on his deathbed he used his own personal experiences to warn others: Devoting a lifetime to accumulating wealth is useless, as no matter how rich you are, it can’t buy a life back, and it certainly can’t extend your life by a single second. Sadly, he didn’t have this revelation until he was on the brink of death. Something that the Lord Jesus said popped into my head: “For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?” (Matthew 16:26). It really is true. As for we humans, life is greater than all else, and if we lose our lives, no matter how much money we have, it may as well be a heap of rubbish. It is of absolutely no use. Even though Alexander the Great used his own personal experiences to share this lesson with those after him so that they wouldn’t make the same mistakes he did, unfortunately, this has not brought about an awakening for people. Most are still going down the wrong path that Alexander did in their pursuits—they’re busy from dawn till dark every day, rushing to and fro, working hard, and some even employ all sorts of other tactics just for the sake of earning more money and enjoying a high-class lifestyle.

What about you—what are you chasing in your life right now? Is it wealth, success, or something that truly matters? Take a moment to reflect…

Students detail faith-based discrimination at Religious Liberty Commission hearing

More than half a dozen American public school students testified about anti-Christian and other faith-based forms of discrimination in an education-focused hearing conducted by President Donald Trump’s Religious Liberty Commission.

The Sept. 8 hearing was the commission’s second meeting since the president created it earlier this year. The commission’s inaugural meeting in June focused on broader threats to religious liberty stemming from federal, state, and local government actors and questions about the proper role of faith in public life.

The archbishop of New York, Cardinal Timothy Dolan, a member of the commission, made his first appearance at Monday’s hearing after missing the first hearing due to his train being canceled. He emphasized the importance of the commission’s work on education and broader concerns.

Dolan, who took part in this year’s conclave to elect Pope Leo XIV, discussed cardinals from around the world approaching him in pre-conclave meetings “to thank us for our strong defense of religious liberty” in the United States.

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FBI and DEA taking down drug traffickers

It’s either that or the government admit that its own people are too stupid to take care of themselves so the government has to “help” them by making substances illegal.
It’s kinda funny how when it comes to protecting people from deadly drugs outright bans and harsh penalties for dealers is the go-to but that goes right out the window when we’re talking about deadly weapons and gun retailers/manufacturers.
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Becoming Like Little Children (Chapter Talk)

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Becoming Like Little Children (Chapter Talk)

When Jesus says we must become like little children to enter the kingdom of heaven, could He be revealing what we already are? We are children. What we call “mature adulthood” is often just a more sophisticated childishness: seeking control, always needing to be right, defending our egos.
Children are innocent, open, and disarming. They soften our hearts—until, of course, life happens and they “grow up.” But the real miracle is when adults become childlike again—through the long process of dying to self—and rediscover what true maturity is: simplicity, trust, and openness to love. That, I believe, is the path to the kingdom. Let us continue to walk that path—together, in humility, and with God’s grace.Amen.

Humility allows us to understand that ‘doing it my way’ may not always be the best way at all. We all have insights about one another; we see each other foibles and shortcomings, often before the person being observed knows. Or in fact, may never know. This of course, goes for me as well. Many in this room see things about me that I am unaware of. Yet I see them in others and will often react instead of responding. If this is not learned, how we see our reflection in other community members, then the monastic life can be one long drawn out ordeal that can lead to bitterness and isolation from the life of the community.

We are called to love ourselves, others and to serve one another. In Monastic life, we have our own unique ways of doing that. All forms of service to the community are very important, from being abbot to mopping the floor, when this is forgotten then someone else is burdened, and the one who burdens does harm to his own heart and soul, even if not believed or understood. It is a form of self-wounding, which in the end that is what sin is. I can wound myself and then blame the community for my pain and feelings of isolation.

To seek to grow in humility is also to seek inner healing, for when we learn to have compassion towards ourselves, then we can also show compassion and empathy not only for community members but also for those who are in our far past and are the origin of some of our struggles. So as we grow in humility we can be those who heal and not strike out and wound as we were wounded. For men this is often undervalued when it comes to others, however, another matter when we experience it ourselves. Empathy is learned from experience. It is the often gut-wrenching pain that others can cause me without realizing it that helps me to see how it can distress those I live with when I treat them in a harsh manner.

When Jesus says that we have to become little children in order to enter the kingdom of heaven…… Could he be in reality telling us what we in fact are….children….and that what we often take for being a ‘mature adult’ is in reality, a form of childishness? Being in control, dominating, always being right, is that really what we are called to be. Children are childlike by nature and most adults love that. They make us smile and with children we drop our defenses fro a least awhile. Of course, there is nothing remarkable about this, it is in their nature. Until of course, life happens and they become ‘adults’, some may be so called ‘mature adults’. The true miracle is when ‘mature adults’ become childlike and enter the kingdom of heaven while on earth. It is a long process of death to self which is in reality the doorway to a broader reality that is true adulthood I believe.—Br-MD
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What Is Your Music Doing For You? The #1 Sound Your Brain Desperately Wants to Hear

I worked with APL (A Programming Language) from its development at IBM in the 1960s, before it ever ran on a computer, until I retired from programming for pay in 2023.

That Wikipedia article doesn't really do a good job of explaining it. APL is an incredible language, with applications ranging from a formal description of the IBM 360 operating system in the IBM Systems Journal in the 1960s, to current mathematical and database applications in engineering, education, finance, insurance, and medicine. There is a fully featured non-commercial version and a lot of instructions available from Dyalog APL (I have no financial ties to them)

This is a bit off-topic in this thread. I’d be happy to continue an APL discussion in a private message if you would like.
Yes please, I'd like to know more about APL. :)
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Is the Rapture credible?

The KJV is written in English to be specific, it is written in Jacobean English it is definitely not written in Hebrew and in Greek. you are of course correct. There is no Greek word that is spelled "rapture".
An all can used internet to see the Greek and Hebrew word you want to. see its spelling and what it means in. the

Greek and Hebrew text at any. time that you want day . or night and one showing. the Greek o r Hebrew text has
any where from 8000. to 20,OOO. at any. one time ,. and it shows the English with the Greek or Hebrew , and its meaning. called BIBLE HUB. !!

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Chaplet

No. It has St. Dymphna, and the other side has "pray for us." All the beads are blue, and it came with a prayer card to St. Dymphna.
Ok. I thought you bought the same one I did. Mine has a St Dymphna medal with”pray for us” where a crucifix would be and the centerpiece is the rose. It also came with a card that has instructions on how to pray the Chaplet.
Can you post a picture of yours? Mine looks exactly like the picture I posted last week. I got mine from Etsy. Where did you buy yours?
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