The difference is my opinion is based on my own studies on the languages and what is involved in language studies, while yours is apparently based on nothing more than agreement with an extreme minority of scholars. You admit you don't have the background to make an evaluation of the scholastic arguments, so your opinion is simply an uneducated one and you have no basis for it. So spare the martyr talk until you have something worthwhile to base your opinion on.
So you are saying from your studies you know more than men like David Bentley Hart ? The very thing that you say you have come to know from your studies is more scholarly and more linguistically correct than scholars like Hart . I have never claimed to be a linguistic scholar, but I am a student of those who are, and what they teach is more correct than Western Tradition. What those in the Western Tradition are doing is exacly what 2 Cor 10:12 says " they compare themselves by themselves" for the last 1500 years that is what has happened.
2 Pet 2:1-2 " Yet there arose false prophets among the people as well, just as there will also be false teachers among you who will secretly introduce destructive heresies, EVEN DENYING THE MASTER WHO HAS PURCHASED THEM, bringing swift destruction upon themselves; And many will follow their licentious ways, by whom the path of truth will be blasphemed"
I have never heard of the path of truth being blasphemed for believing that when God said, its his will for all to come to know him, or that God is reconciling the the world to himself in Jesus, or that Jesus came to save the world not judge it, for none of these things have I ever heard a non believer blaspheme the word of truth. In my 45 years in christian ministry, I have seen the people, who will have nothing to do with a God who would create someone knowing that they would not hear the gospel or not understand it, and then torture them forever for not understanding, but I have never seen anyone who blasphemed God, when the true gospel was shared, that God loves all his creation and Jesus came down into our darkness and paid the price of liberation for all humanity, they just need to wake up to the reality of what Jesus did, they may still remain in their darkness but they do not blaspheme that message.
I have listened to some Orthodox teachings and in one the priest was saying, they do not try to define God, they just want to know him so well that they can discern when looking at something, that it is definitely not of God, and ECT is definitely not of God.
I do not care how many people are dragged out, with the worlds system of letters behind someones name, the truth is the truth and that will never change.
I know for now you see it differently and would say the same thing of what I believe, that's ok, I for one will not break fellowship over this and build walls of separation, each one will stand before God and give account and he will judge, If I am judged for overstating his infinite love, then I will gladly take whatever discipline he deems fit.