Anybody that treats discipline casually should remember, "with what measure you judge, it will be judged against you". Only the most egregious sins warrant church discipline in the form of expulsion, ones that threaten the good order of a church. Using it to shame, humiliate, or control other people isn't right.
Thank you for sharing your perspective it’s a thoughtful and necessary reminder that church discipline must always be handled with deep humility, reverence, and spiritual discernment.
You're right:
"with what measure you judge, it will be judged against you" (Matthew 7:2) is a sobering warning to anyone in a position of spiritual authority. We should never approach church discipline as a tool for control or humiliation. That would be a grievous misuse of Christ’s teaching. However, I do believe there's a
broader purpose for biblical church discipline than just dealing with the "most egregious sins."
In
Matthew 18:15–17, Jesus lays out a clear, gracious, step-by-step model for church discipline not to shame, but to
restore. The goal is always redemption, never rejection. Paul echoes this in
Galatians 6:1, urging us to restore a fallen brother "in a spirit of gentleness," being mindful of our own weakness.
Yet sadly, as the survey shows, many churches today avoid discipline altogether
not because no one is sinning, but often out of fear of conflict, cultural pressure, or misunderstanding what love truly means. And this avoidance, ironically, can
weaken the body.
Church discipline, when rooted in love and truth, serves multiple purposes:
- It protects the church from false teaching and divisive behavior (Titus 3:10, Romans 16:17).
- It helps the sinner see the seriousness of sin and opens the door to repentance (1 Corinthians 5:5).
- It preserves the witness and integrity of Christ’s body before a watching world (1 Peter 2:12, Philippians 2:15).
I totally agree with you that it should
never be used as a weapon to control or embarrass someone. That’s spiritual abuse, not biblical discipline. But I’d gently suggest that the
church does the Body no favors by treating discipline as a last resort only for scandalous sin. Even smaller, hidden sins can spread like leaven if left unaddressed (1 Corinthians 5:6–7).
The early church understood this balance. They were committed to both
grace and accountability two sides of the same coin. Today, recovering that balance might just be one of the ways we revive holiness, unity, and power in our churches again.
Thanks again for raising this. It’s a conversation the modern church truly needs.
Grace and peace to you.