How to Respond to the Cross-Dressing Man at Mass? DIFFICULT MORAL QUESTIONS: What we do and what we tolerate both witness to what we believe.
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What Charlie is failing to mention is the culture and the witness it gives. In Germany, etc. Not a big deal. Other places, yes. Kilts or whatever the usual uniform is does not deny one’s gender. Those forms of dressing can be a manly form of dress depending on culture. Movie stars or fashion shots do not do that and it is not in the setting in the Church where appearance could cause scandal. Something completely different than what the op discusses. Again Charlie, thanks for the derail.
I’m offended.I agree. It's the intent behind the dressing that is important. If someone is trying to fool people that they are the opposite sex, then it's a grave sin.
Genuinely, offended.
This isn’t X.
Or Facebook
Or Truth Social
Where algorithms and AI keep you intellectually and morally anesthetized in a feedback loop of like mindedness and bot created gimcrackery.
This, in case you’ve forgotten, is Christianforums. A bulletin board system of the type used on the Internet from a more enlighten incarnation.
Here, we exchange ideas and change minds. We challenge each other to think better and maybe make ourselves better people.
“Derail”? Hardly.
I’m just trying, in my own light hearted and distracting manner, to get people (not necessarily you, Mich, as I’ve always said I write for the lurkers, of which there are many more than actual content creators) to maybe think about their automatic assumptions. Maybe people who are different from you or who vote different from you or who dress different from you aren’t evil, or deceitful, or scum or whatever other uncharitable thing you can come up with.
They’re just different. And God made us all different. And He never made a mistake.
Tell me, chapter and verse, where in the Bible Christ ever said dressing unlike what is considered gender appropriate was sinful.
Cite, specific paragraph, where the CCC says a person has to be removed from a Mass due to clothing choice.
You and I both know there are none.
Why do you even care? Because you might have to explain to a child that people are different? Because it somehow offends you that these people exist? Because your Christianity doesn’t allow for people you deem off-putting ?
I choose not to buy into your “Oh this is so sexually fetish that they might as well be wearing nothing but leather chaps and a muscle shirt” sense of indignation. And I will not be part of a closed feedback loop, that allows you to just keep thinking that way unchallenged.
That’s not derailing. It’s correcting. (You should know MIch, you've corrected me often enough)
Christ gave us our marching orders on the Sermon on the Mount. Feed the hungry, Slack the Thirsty, Welcome the Stranger, Visit the Imprisoned.
He never mentioned sexuality or gender.
You have an issue with that, find a different Savior.
Hit me with your best shot, there’s people lurking.
And Crystal
No one is trying to deceive you. Trust me, no one dressed for you on Sunday.
They just wore what felt comfortable for them.
If you don’t like it, don’t look.
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