• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

dating advice

  1. J

    I don't know what to listen for...

    Me and my ex girlfriend broke up this year, and I've been this emotional wreck for the past 7 months. We dated starting November of last year and broke up in May. It started as a mutual break up; she wanted to take a break to fix things and get back together again, and I thought this would've...
  2. Royals IS

    Does e-dating work in the long run?

    So Ive been single for the past three years. I am not able to meet new people or engage in relationships in the place I am commited to. So I was wondering about e-dating, because I am generally only out in the community about 3 hours a week its very hard to meet people or even make friends...
  3. L

    Do Christian guys exist?

    Hey guys, I'm new here + wanted to reach out. One day, I was talking with my Muslim friend. IDK how the conversation got there but she told me that she didn't think there were many Christian guys waiting til marriage. And I didn't really have a strong reaction to it, but it got me thinking. Do...
  4. 2

    Guidance in my relationship

    Hi , i would appreciate some advice .. 22 years old , female , in a relationship that im not having peace about ... He said he was a Christian but his lifestyle said otherwise . I broke up with him because he was addicted to painkillers and in and out of jail , also he was pressuring me to...
  5. 7

    How should a young Christian man approach girls?

    I am approaching 20 years of age, as my birthday is in June. Like all young men, my flesh yearns for romantic female contact. However, in accordance with God, I am staying sexually pure until I am married. The problem is this. I'd love to date a girl and get married but I'm absolutely 100% dead...
  6. ovis90

    Should i seek for a soulmate or wait for it?

    So my question is should I try to find my soulmate or just wait for it to come. I am 27 Have been useing online dating sites for many years,but never choose any girl because i just never seen that which i would feel was for me. Then i started at one point feel very addictive almost like...
  7. B

    Relationship Advice Needed

    Morning All, So long story i need advice on how to handle this situation. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and have talked about marriage. She is a great and loving girl but she comes from a rough past. Her dad is in prison for fraud and she did her share of running...
  8. V

    Dating christian guys

    Hi everyone ! So I have recently entered back the christian dating world, I use to date non-christians but since that became a problem in a serious relationship I am trying to look into christian singles. But I do find christian guys are a bit less confortable with opinionated women... Or is it...
  9. Noelle_LikeChristmas

    I need boy advice. (Interdenominational relationship, non-denom and Catholic)

    I never thought anyone would fall in love with me. Much less did I ever dream there would be two of them. Also, I never expected myself to fall in love with anyone. Much less did I think it would be such a problem when I did... I know this is a stupid situation. But it's a situation...
  10. J

    Help please. Non-Denomination Christian dating Seven-Day Adventist

    Hello, One year ago I started dating my boyfriend who is a seven-day Adventist Christian. I was raised in a non-denominational church and have attended non-denominational, Baptist and Pentecostal churches in my past. My boyfriend and I both agree on the same fundamentals of the Bible and...
  11. A

    How long should friends wait till they start dating?

    I'm 32 and I've never been in an "official" relationship. I've been interested in quite a few girls at my church and Christian co-workers, but each one was either already seeing someone or weren't interested for some reason. It doesn't help matters that I'm pretty shy before I get to know...
  12. T

    To Date or Not to Date

    I have this friend that I’ve been really good friends with for a little over a year. We go to school & church together and are involved with so many things together in our youth group & such, so we’re pretty close friends. I really like him & he really likes me too... A weird thing that I’ve...
  13. T

    Relationship advice needed

    So I'm 17, don't smoke, drink, do drugs, etc. I'm Pentecostal and in church 5-6 times a week. I've never had a boyfriend before. Anyway, I met this guy who is 16, and he's amazing. He loves the Lord with all of his heart, he doesn't smoke, drink, do drugs either. We believe exactly the same...
  14. B

    Advice about a developing relationship

    Hi all, i wanted some input from other believers about a current relationship im pursueing with a girl at my church, So i recently started attending this church a couple months ago, and i met this girl who is around my age (20) and we have had some conversations on and off hear and there, most...
  15. A

    I've been feeling unsettled and confused in my relationship

    First I'm so sorry about how long this is. I've been with a guy for almost a year now and he is such a nice guy, we met at church, I'm 2 years older than him and our pastors actually set us up but we have now moved to a different church as we weren't growing in that one. Before we started...
  16. T

    My first love wants me back - what do I do?

    Hi all, First of all I am a 20 year old young woman who has a very strong faith in God. I have an awesome church family, friends and my own family who I know love me and have been so supportive of me. I just thought I would post to this forum to get some advice from others who don't know me or...
  17. E

    Relationship advice?

    Hello everyone, So I'm aware there's a number of different threads on this site asking for advice with relationship so I thought I'd join in and request some advice and guidance myself! A few months ago, my friend asked me out on a date and I straight away turned him down, and said I wasn't...
  18. S

    The guy I like isn't Christian...

    I met a guy through umpiring and he's not Christian, but some reason I feel drawn to him and can't get him off my mind. I know that he likes me (a lot, as he's told me and I can see) but there are three problems: 1. He's not Christian and I always said I wouldn't date a non-believer. Also...
  19. N

    How true is Proverbs 19:22?

    In Proverbs 1922 it says that what makes a man attractive is his kindness (or loyalty). There's this girl in my church that I have come to really like a lot. I am extremely kind and loving to her, not just because I like her but because I legit care about her. I encourage her in a Godly manner...
  20. M

    Pray for relationship

    Hello. In November of 2016, I broke up with my girls friend of 2 years. We were not growing spiritually together and there were other things that would have never worked in a marriage. About 3 'I thank later, I started dating someone else. I have truly fallen in love with this girl and care...