marriage

  1. H

    The Church's Problem with Singleness

    This is just something that's been really bothering me lately regarding a so-called "gift of singleness." I understand that there a plenty of people who are happy being single, but a great many more are not. They would like to be married (including myself) yet most churches are doing little to...
  2. S

    Marriage Advice

    Hi there. I wanted some advice on my marriage. I want to take divorce from my husband but he's not ready to give me. All he says is he wants me. I dont understand what for he needs me when he never loves me. because of his family i lost my mom. my mother in law dislikes me for nothing and never...
  3. StDamage

    Yet another young one dealing with a love predicament

    This has been on my mind here as of late, and I can't stop thinking about it. My teenage years were horrid in terms of relationships. Barely any ladies were interested in me, and the only thing I would hear from ministers was that "men are dogs" and girls were "delicate creatures that needed...
  4. K

    Kenny - Baptist - Age Gap Marriage

    Like the title says, I'm a Christian in an age gap marriage. I'm 25. She's 57. We've been married for three years. I have a lot of conflicting issues going on in my head and it's been that way since we first started dating. My wife is an awesome woman and a good Christian. I love her, but our...
  5. D

    Trying to find a Christian wife

    I don't know if I'm posting this in the right place, but here it goes. I'm a 40 year old guy that is really trying to find the right woman for me. I'm not your typical 9 to 5 kind of guy. My passion is playing music for a living (metal) and I'm always working towards that goal to where I can...
  6. D

    Friends Are Going Through Divorce

    Hello, I've got two friends that are going through a divorce. The wife is the one calling the divorce because her husband has "abused" her. (I put in quotes because I'm not sure if this is actually considered abuse or not). She says that he purposely emotionally and verbally abuses her, and...
  7. C

    Forgiving my husband's past..

    We have been married for five years. He just recently came to me and told me that he cheated on me when we were dating. The person he cheated with is someone we have seen at multiple events and even gone to dinner with since being married. He would rake me over the coals if I even talked to...
  8. D

    Stuck in The Middle

    So my best friend is divorcing her husband because 1.) She hasn't been happy since the beginning. (Which I believe can be fixed.) And 2.) There are high suspicions that he is actually gay. I've had him ask me many questions throughout our friendship that I was uncomfortable answering because the...
  9. L

    Should I stay away from my inlaws

    I am American my husband is from a Latin American country. My husband had an emotional affair denies having sex but he was planning on leaving me and his son. I have forgiven and I just have to watch everything he does all emails and text messages One side of his family has been rude to me...
  10. O

    inappropriate content in a Christian marriage

    Hi guys, I've been having problems. Some between my husband and some between my mind and soul. My husband and I have been together for almost 2 years. We love each other, and we want to live the most Christian life possible. My husband watched inappropriate content for about 5 years before me and even in our...
  11. M

    Need answers for this very confusing thing I'm dealing with when it comes to my wife and her sister

    Almost a year ago, I had a sex dream about my wife's sister, with no feelings towards them arising from it at first. But now, almost a year later, I am starting to have a strong attraction towards her, seemingly from out of nowhere. It started out as a sexual desire, but now I am starting to...
  12. Fish and Bread

    Father Thomas Reese: 'What God has joined together ...'

    Link: 'What God has joined together ...' Why not just recognize that lifelong marriage is the ideal, but that the real world sometimes makes a hash of ideals, and that remarriage after a divorce often represents people doing the best they can with what they are given? I don't agree with...
  13. JBell-Fitz

    Hello Everybody!

    Hello fellow members! I am very excited to be a part of Christian Forums because I want to grow in the Lord and I really want to put myself around Christians and positivity! A little about myself... I live in California and I am married. One of the main reasons why I am here is because I would...
  14. S

    Newlywed Regret

    I am only a month into married life and I am filled with regret. We got married on our 2 year anniversary after a year long engagement. Our relationship was filled with arguments prior to marriage but when I confided in those I trust they told me it was just me who thought it was wrong. I suffer...
  15. hanakins

    Verses for Gift Bible

    hi So I get married in just over a month and as it's tradition to get the bride/groom a gift for on the day I've ordered the "grooms bible", inspired by something I saw online where a girl highlighted key verses for her partner I'd like to do the same.... So does anybody have any good verses...
  16. MorkandMindy

    If it doesn't make you happy or someone else happy or both it isn't worth doing

    This really is a point for discussion I hope, it sort of banged me on the head that it is a simplified version of what our minister in England had told me was part of the European Jewish wedding vows, that it is the responsibility of the husband to make his wife happy (and by reciprocity vice...
  17. Fish and Bread

    Australian couple tells pope and cardinals how great sex life kept them together

    Link: Australian couple tells pope and cardinals how great sex life kept them together From 2014, but probably still of interest.
  18. D

    Need help and opinions.

    We just got Married few weeks ago and things have been rough for us. My wife complains of pain during sex and she asked me if we could stop having sex. She suggests that we be a married couple that NEVER have sex and I gave her an honest answer that I cannot do that. I cannot wait till I get...
  19. D

    Wife, Facebook, Ex-husband

    My wife looks up her Ex-husband on Facebook several times a week. She says she is looking for photos of the daughter she and her ex have together. The daughter lives with my wife and I but spends time with her father. She claims to have no feelings for her ex. My wife had an affair and...
  20. Lybrah

    Is it okay to date another Christian whose been divorced?

    I know the bible says that if a man divorces his wife and marries another, then he and that new woman are adulterers. But in this day and age, it is extremely hard not to meet someone who is divorced. Especially when you are older. Are there any exceptions? I don't want to commit adultery!