I am American my husband is from a Latin American country. My husband had an emotional affair denies having sex but he was planning on leaving me and his son.
I have forgiven and I just have to watch everything he does all emails and text messages
One side of his family has been rude to me consistently make belittling statements, and his mother for about 2 years even when I was pregnant was very rude to me. It has gotten so bad that I am so paranoid to eat her food I feel like she hates me. I learned Spanish his family understands me my patients and coworkers understand me but when I speak Spanish to her she ignores me and pretend like she doesn't know what I am saying.
I am not sure if it is a Hispanic thing a few months ago twice I wanted to give her mail that came to her she didn't want to take it from me I gave it To my husband and she took it from him. And the 2nd time I gave her a banana per her request she made a face ran to the bathroom washed her hand I passed her paper towel she didn't want to take it from me I gave it to my husband and she took it.
I gathered she doesn't want to take anything directly from me. My energy and spirit is zapped when I go over there. I haven't been there in 5 months. I didn't imagine my life being this way an unfaithful husband and crazy inlaws. I didn't know his family was like that I have been with my husband for 6 years.
Should I go around these people and If so how often. I encourage my husband to take my son over there at least once a week
I have forgiven and I just have to watch everything he does all emails and text messages
One side of his family has been rude to me consistently make belittling statements, and his mother for about 2 years even when I was pregnant was very rude to me. It has gotten so bad that I am so paranoid to eat her food I feel like she hates me. I learned Spanish his family understands me my patients and coworkers understand me but when I speak Spanish to her she ignores me and pretend like she doesn't know what I am saying.
I am not sure if it is a Hispanic thing a few months ago twice I wanted to give her mail that came to her she didn't want to take it from me I gave it To my husband and she took it from him. And the 2nd time I gave her a banana per her request she made a face ran to the bathroom washed her hand I passed her paper towel she didn't want to take it from me I gave it to my husband and she took it.
I gathered she doesn't want to take anything directly from me. My energy and spirit is zapped when I go over there. I haven't been there in 5 months. I didn't imagine my life being this way an unfaithful husband and crazy inlaws. I didn't know his family was like that I have been with my husband for 6 years.
Should I go around these people and If so how often. I encourage my husband to take my son over there at least once a week