This is just something that's been really bothering me lately regarding a so-called "gift of singleness." I understand that there a plenty of people who are happy being single, but a great many more are not. They would like to be married (including myself) yet most churches are doing little to nothing to help them along with that. If man was designed to be content in God alone, Eve would not have been necessary.
The bible never teaches that there's a gift of singleness. There is a gift of celibacy, but that's completely different. People with this gift do not have any desire to marry and are perfectly fine being single. Moreover, this gift is rare. Furthermore, Christians in other countries like India believe everyone is called to marry unless specifically called by God not to.
I hate to burst everyone's bubble, but apparently most people don't realize that most of us are not meant to endure 10-20+ years of temptation. There is a reason our sex drive is at its highest in our twenties and thirties. Instead of watering down the truth, why not teach what the bible says? The cure to sexual temptation is marriage.
And yet, we're told we singles are on our own. Well, if you're going to teach us to save ourselves for marriage, why not help set us up? I've heard people say we can live without marriage. That may be true for an individual, but not for society at large. Society needs marriage. And when we have healthy marriages, we have healthier people.
The bible never teaches that there's a gift of singleness. There is a gift of celibacy, but that's completely different. People with this gift do not have any desire to marry and are perfectly fine being single. Moreover, this gift is rare. Furthermore, Christians in other countries like India believe everyone is called to marry unless specifically called by God not to.
I hate to burst everyone's bubble, but apparently most people don't realize that most of us are not meant to endure 10-20+ years of temptation. There is a reason our sex drive is at its highest in our twenties and thirties. Instead of watering down the truth, why not teach what the bible says? The cure to sexual temptation is marriage.
And yet, we're told we singles are on our own. Well, if you're going to teach us to save ourselves for marriage, why not help set us up? I've heard people say we can live without marriage. That may be true for an individual, but not for society at large. Society needs marriage. And when we have healthy marriages, we have healthier people.