Hello,
I've got two friends that are going through a divorce. The wife is the one calling the divorce because her husband has "abused" her. (I put in quotes because I'm not sure if this is actually considered abuse or not). She says that he purposely emotionally and verbally abuses her, and also brought up the fact that he knows that her love language is touch, but he refuses to touch her - unless they are with other people. (He doesn't intimately touch her ever, but when people are around he hugs her and holds her. But when they are alone, none of this happens.) She has said that she's had nights where she's been crying in bed, and she's needed him, but he just turns his back to her and scoots to the other side of the bed. There is no support from him in any way. He says things to her on purpose to bring her down, and it's been crushing her spirit. She also makes a point that her husband is very good at making himself seem like somebody he is not to other people. (Basically he acts out of "love" when people are around to make it look like everything is okay in their relationship). He's been putting a show on.
Is this a biblically justified reason for her to leave him? I just want to be there for them both. I don't want to take sides, I just want to give them any wisdom I can.
I've got two friends that are going through a divorce. The wife is the one calling the divorce because her husband has "abused" her. (I put in quotes because I'm not sure if this is actually considered abuse or not). She says that he purposely emotionally and verbally abuses her, and also brought up the fact that he knows that her love language is touch, but he refuses to touch her - unless they are with other people. (He doesn't intimately touch her ever, but when people are around he hugs her and holds her. But when they are alone, none of this happens.) She has said that she's had nights where she's been crying in bed, and she's needed him, but he just turns his back to her and scoots to the other side of the bed. There is no support from him in any way. He says things to her on purpose to bring her down, and it's been crushing her spirit. She also makes a point that her husband is very good at making himself seem like somebody he is not to other people. (Basically he acts out of "love" when people are around to make it look like everything is okay in their relationship). He's been putting a show on.
Is this a biblically justified reason for her to leave him? I just want to be there for them both. I don't want to take sides, I just want to give them any wisdom I can.