I wanted to come back to this post because there's one or two things that I didn't say that I think should be said.
First, you have every right to express your opinions. And I don't challenge that at all.
Second, If your opinions had been restricted to what you felt rather than to observing what you regarded others to be, there could be no challenging them.
So, had you observed that you felt lifeless when you were attending a Catholic Church, that would be fair enough, but to imply that The Catholic Church is itself lifeless is not fair, and that is not an opinion that you are entitled to hold, regarding other people. That kind of opinion is nothing short of bashing as I observed.
And had you restricted yourself to saying, that you yourself felt as if you had no personal relationship with Jesus Christ when you were in The Catholic Church that too would be fair enough, but when you imply that no one or apparently no one in The Catholic Church has a relationship with Jesus Christ that too is bashing as I previously observed.
If you did not intend to say either of the things that I made an observation about, all you need to do is clarify that you did not mean to imply those things. So, I ask directly, did you mean to imply those things?
There is no better way to find out what somebody means than to ask them what they mean.