Well, I have had a huge discussion with my brother and his friend whom are both young ADULTS about the thin line on lusting in the heart and actually having sexual intercourse. They both were saying that if you kissed, touch, or even look at another human being with lust, then it is like you have already committed a sexual sin. Of course in the bible it tells us that IF you have lusted in your heart then you have already committed a sin. I believe that is so. To me it sounds like there are justifying having actual sexual intercourse, just because you've lusted in your heart. Well, in this case if someone had thought about killing a person, then when you might as do it. :o Are you serious!
My brother's friend told me that I am not pure or a virgin because I have kissed guys. I am not perfect neither is anyone one else. They actually compared playing a R rated video to being a murderer.:o They also agreed that the terminology of virgin is a man mad word and that it haves no spiritually connection with the bible, that lust is equivalent to sexual intercourse. No sin is justified. I would not tell someone that if done a little of something that you might as well do it all. I would not tell someone that you are a virgin if you kissed someone.
I believe based on what I've read in the new and old testament that keeping your VIRGINITY is extremely more complicating than what they seen to believe. I believe that it is very and I mean extremely important to keep your virginity until marriage.
God stress the importance of marriage and purity. Of course we have all sin and have all lusted at some point in our life, in fact many of us think about sex everyday lets just face the facts. But I refuse to have someone to tell me that I have lost my virginity because I kissed some one. What they said seem to me the most insane. I strongly believe that I have a grand relationship with God. There is a convenient kept btw God and every person. There is also a convenient btw a man and a women, nether should violate there body by allowing another to violate him or her. My body does not belong to anyone but God. Once I am married I belong to him and he is the man of the house and God is head of us. I would not violate God nor anyone else.
Please, if your are intelligence and wise enough please respond.
I would like to know what you people thing about this and please give quotes from the bible if you can. Hopefully some wisdom can be shard on this topic.
What does the Hebrew text say about virginity and lust? that would as well.
My brother's friend told me that I am not pure or a virgin because I have kissed guys. I am not perfect neither is anyone one else. They actually compared playing a R rated video to being a murderer.:o They also agreed that the terminology of virgin is a man mad word and that it haves no spiritually connection with the bible, that lust is equivalent to sexual intercourse. No sin is justified. I would not tell someone that if done a little of something that you might as well do it all. I would not tell someone that you are a virgin if you kissed someone.
I believe based on what I've read in the new and old testament that keeping your VIRGINITY is extremely more complicating than what they seen to believe. I believe that it is very and I mean extremely important to keep your virginity until marriage.
God stress the importance of marriage and purity. Of course we have all sin and have all lusted at some point in our life, in fact many of us think about sex everyday lets just face the facts. But I refuse to have someone to tell me that I have lost my virginity because I kissed some one. What they said seem to me the most insane. I strongly believe that I have a grand relationship with God. There is a convenient kept btw God and every person. There is also a convenient btw a man and a women, nether should violate there body by allowing another to violate him or her. My body does not belong to anyone but God. Once I am married I belong to him and he is the man of the house and God is head of us. I would not violate God nor anyone else.
Please, if your are intelligence and wise enough please respond.
I would like to know what you people thing about this and please give quotes from the bible if you can. Hopefully some wisdom can be shard on this topic.
What does the Hebrew text say about virginity and lust? that would as well.