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friendships

  1. wayofthepromise

    Back from the dead

    Former Baptist minister here. Spent a decade in the wilderness. Much has changed, but God preserved me through it all. I'm here to gain insights, participate in discussions, and to find friends. It's hard to talk to people around me about the spiritual life. Thanks! Jason
  2. Lanae

    How do I get my Christian friends to get closer to me?

    Every time I don't hang out with others that much, they just ignore me, block me every where on Social media and ignore my messages social media, phone calls and text messages after they leave the church and all because I never spend time with them. I don't know what topic to talk about with...
  3. Lanae

    How do I get my Christian friends to get closer to me?

    Every time I don't hang out with others that much, they just ignore me, block me every where on Social media and ignore my messages social media, phone calls and text messages after they leave the church and all because I never spend time with them. I don't know what topic to talk about with...
  4. Heartofsilver

    Text Only Relationships And Hook Up Culture

    Hello everyone, I'm very frustrated today with this new way that people seem to be getting together or lack there of. I have noticed a gradual shift in the dating world in the past five or so years. Guys used to ask me out on dates looking for a commited relationship and I eventually ended up...
  5. SpiritSong

    What have you done to start a new life?

    For me, it has been since 2005, when he passed. I moved to another city, I got a job, I'm doing well. I go to the Senior Center. I go out for walks. I read my Bible every morning. I read a lot of books. I make friends and we go out to eat or something. I do whatever it takes. I feel OK, but I...
  6. K

    It sucks to lose friends ...

    Hi and thank you for your webpage and wall. I'm new here (Feb 8th, 2018). Just feeling down at the moment. A while back I was so happy to find old friends that I haven't seen in years on FaceBook, (I'm in my 50s). But as time progressed I got into some scathing arguments with some of them over...
  7. Lanae

    I Need More Posts Please

    I think I'm not choosing friends wisely I need more comments
  8. Lanae

    I think I'm not choosing friends wisely

    Hey my friend told me that this Korean dude name Joongul said something negative about me. He said that I'm some crazy a black girl, I'm a Something creep and Something up in the head. He said something about sharing his pictures to my facebook profile. Is there any thing nice and positive he...
  9. G

    Should I allow our friendship to end?

    This is rather long but I'd appreciate if any women and men of God could give me some guidance. I'm currently in a very confusing situation with regards to my friendships with my 2 closest friends. Just some background... I grew up in the church and officially gave my life to Jesus at age 14...
  10. Lanae

    How do I get my friends to stop avoiding me?

    I'm sick and tired my friends avoiding me all because I try to touch them and tickle them. I was just joking. They avoid me all because I touch them. I was just getting their attention when I forget their names. How do I get them to stop avoiding me and how do I get them to come back to...
  11. Lanae

    Close friendships

    how often does it take get close to a friend?
  12. Lanae

    For my friends I never spend time with

    I messaged E on kakaotalk and she just told me to leave her alone and don't contact her anymore I didn't do anything to her. My sister in Christ, M is so lucky have Ellie hanging out with her all the time. Just because I never spend time with someone doesn't mean I cant contact them. She so...
  13. Lanae

    Cyber stalking and stalking in real life

    I'm not stalking anybody so I'm just saying it. when I used to cyber stalk someone or make fake profiles to add them, they cuss me out, calls me names, ignore me, and not care anything about me. Why are they doing this to a sweet innocent girl like me? Why are they cussing at me and calling...
  14. Lanae

    About Affairs

    Someone at church told me that if a female (Tina for example) touches a male ( Kevin for example) , people will start rumors saying that Tina is having an affair with Kevin when he already have a girlfriend ( Christine for Example). Then Kevin’s girlfriend, (Christine) will think that Kevin is...
  15. Lanae

    Do you think the People-Searching websites are a scam?

    People-Searching websites: Instant Checkmate US Search Itelius PeopleFinders USA People Search TruthFInder BeenVerified Spokeo Veromi MyLife PeopleSmart PeekYou LinkedIn Maybe facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, Zabasearch Pipl White Pages I think sometimes these...
  16. Lanae

    How do I get my Christian friends to get closer to me?

    Every time I don't hang out with others that much, they just ignore me, block me every where on Social media and ignore my messages social media, phone calls and text messages after they leave the church and all because I never spend time with them. I don't know what topic to talk about with...
  17. Lanae

    I posted a topic about a gossiper

    About A Gossiper | Christian Forums
  18. Lanae

    About A Gossiper

    I want you to read this post and tell me what you think https://ventingmyfru...ou-know-what-he How would you feel when someone goes through your journal or social media posts, spread something you said all over the public and give you a bad reputation?
  19. Kaylaherin

    Dealing with a chronic complainer and negative friend

    Hello! So my title is pretty self explanatory. I have a friend who complains just about everyday and she is always negative. I think a bit of a back story might help in this. We have gotten to know each other only through my fiance, they were never close friends but in a way I feel that he...
  20. A

    Hello From Asia ...

    Shalom brothers & sisters, I joined this forum for some peace of mind and spiritual fellowship. I was comatosed for 2 years, 1 year physio-therapy and past 6 months mobility and awareness gradually returned. We (50 yos) were an active couple (physically and socially). My mobility quite impacted...