Hello, my name is David, I am new here, I am 14. I joined because I had a question on my mind, and I needed an outside, christian opinion.
So, as with some of you, my parents established a no dating rule (maybe anywhere between no dating til 14-18). For me it is no dating until we are 18 years old. Now a little over a year ago, I went on decided to date a girl I liked despite having a rule against it (it wasn't serious, took it real slow, dated for about 7-9 months didn't even so much as hold hands). I eventually broke it off because I didn't feel right about going behind my parents back and dating her anyway, even after they found out and asked me to end it. (I did, but i kinda didn't mean it so we drifted back to dating again, but then i seriously did break it off for good). It's been about a year since that has happened, and I somewhat agree with my parents decision on the no dating rule but it's been getting harder. My heart wants to be in a relationship with someone. I haven't had my first kiss yet, i haven't even so much as held hands with a girl (again.. 14). And everytime i hug one of my friends (that are girls) I long for that physical (non-sexual) connection with that special someone, and I am torn between my parents decision and my heart, does God want me not to date? Are my parents right? I want to respect their decision because they are my parents but i also want to follow my heart. So now that you have read my story, it brings me to my question. What should I do? And when is it a good time for me to start dating? (P.S I have no intention in engaging in any sexual activity with any person until I am married)
So, as with some of you, my parents established a no dating rule (maybe anywhere between no dating til 14-18). For me it is no dating until we are 18 years old. Now a little over a year ago, I went on decided to date a girl I liked despite having a rule against it (it wasn't serious, took it real slow, dated for about 7-9 months didn't even so much as hold hands). I eventually broke it off because I didn't feel right about going behind my parents back and dating her anyway, even after they found out and asked me to end it. (I did, but i kinda didn't mean it so we drifted back to dating again, but then i seriously did break it off for good). It's been about a year since that has happened, and I somewhat agree with my parents decision on the no dating rule but it's been getting harder. My heart wants to be in a relationship with someone. I haven't had my first kiss yet, i haven't even so much as held hands with a girl (again.. 14). And everytime i hug one of my friends (that are girls) I long for that physical (non-sexual) connection with that special someone, and I am torn between my parents decision and my heart, does God want me not to date? Are my parents right? I want to respect their decision because they are my parents but i also want to follow my heart. So now that you have read my story, it brings me to my question. What should I do? And when is it a good time for me to start dating? (P.S I have no intention in engaging in any sexual activity with any person until I am married)