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anxiety

  1. H

    Anxiety of Possession. Is medication necessary?

    Hi, I've been dealing with anxiety since 2012. My anxiety was at an all time high for about 7 months. I could not be alone, I could not drive, I lost my job. My anxiety revolved around death. That I was going to die or something was going to happen to me. I was just in a constant state of panic...
  2. pantingdeer

    I am Guy. Why does God not let me like women.

    i would prefer to like women my own age but god does not grant this wish of mine even though I ask him for 3 years. Instead I am depressed as I've no friends or people who care about me and no girl like me. I stopped being attracted to women 3 year ago (I 19 now) and now my life is bad since. I...
  3. Heartofsilver

    Fear Of Friendship

    Hello everyone, Lately since losing a couple close friends and having to let go on toxic family members I have been becoming anxious about allowing friends to get to know me or getting to know me better. I'm starting to see that I'm having a fear of getting close to them, because I have a fear...
  4. Heartofsilver

    The Evils Of Facebook

    Hello everyone, The other day I posted a hot topic on Facebook. I later came back to discover that a Christian acquaintance had given me a textbook response on the LGBTQI+ community and told me that what I posted was an insult. Her and a non-Christian aquintence both insisted that I message...
  5. SummerMadness

    White Extinction Anxiety

    White Extinction Anxiety
  6. N

    unforgivable sin, pls help!

    Ever since I heard about the unforgivable sin I've been troubled with thoughts of blasphemy. I'm so scared this has lasted for quite a long time now. I used to cry and pray but nothing. I've asked God to kill me because I don't know how I'd survive without him, and he said in the scripture he...
  7. pantingdeer

    Depressed and lonely life

    When I was growing up I felt straight but when I was 16 (now 19) my libido left me completely one day out of nowhere and it never came back. This was the start of my depression. Every day since I've had anxiety about my sexuality and am mad at God for never helping me when I asked for help and...
  8. C

    Christian advice for social anxiety

    Hello! I was just wondering if there were any other Christians on here who may currently be experiencing (or know of anyone who goes through) social anxiety/social phobia. Is there anything in the Bible which may bring comfort for sufferers? My anxiety problem leads to issues when I'm in...
  9. Heartofsilver

    Hard past couple of days

    I have had a hectic past couple days that have been filled with stress and anxiety. My goal for this summer was to be lessen my stressors, but more are building up when dealing with daily life. I just started going to a women's Bible study where I don't really know any of the girls there and...
  10. P

    How do I move on and let go?

    Its hard to know where even to begin. This is going to be a very long winded post, as I've never talked about, potentially the root of this, with anyone, but I think its time to try and find real answers. I don't mean to spill my whole life story here, but at this point I don't care. A...
  11. Christsfreeservant

    Why So Downcast?

    This song is based off Psalm 42. The psalmist was downcast due to some trying and difficult times in his life. He may have been in exile. He was suffering greatly. The storms and tempests of his life were sweeping over him like a flood. He felt forgotten by God. He questioned why he must endure...
  12. I-Love-God

    Why has God punished me?

    I am born with bad genes. I lack the masculinity. God made me socially anxious. God gave me bad looks. God gave me a high pitched voice. God made it so that everyone makes fun of me for the fact how I look and speak. Why did God do this? Why did God give other boys good puberty growth and have...
  13. DeerGlow

    Stress

    I’ve been kind of all over the place recently. I have felt off and on sick the past few days, and some peace but also stress. Sunday I went up to an altar call and was so nervous I looked down and felt like crying and also nauseous (if I remember right) and tired later. I waited a while too...
  14. ChristIsSovereign

    Dread

    Well... We bought chicken feed at the store today, and after that, we went to McDonalds. Some guy that we haven't seen in 4 or 5 years came up to us and remembered us both, with my Mom not remembering him at all and I only vaguely remembering him. He looked like he was in his mid-60's or so...
  15. DeerGlow

    Heated Situations

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  16. CloeLace

    Is my husband controlling?

    Hi, as I'm writing this, my husband is on the plane coming from mexico with his best friends and i'm picking him up in a couple hours. He left 5 days ago, spending 4 nights there. So here's the problem, somehow, he is able to make me feel guilty for going out with my girlfriends one of the...
  17. C

    Hello CF and good people

    Not really tried CF before but thought would give it a go. Had problems with OCD for 20 odd years and took medication-which I think has made the problem worse and has changed me. I was reluctant to share stuff as I may regret it later and also feeling guilt already if I don't reciprocate...
  18. DeerGlow

    Chit Chat

    I am extremely anxious right now and don’t know what to do, soon I’ll be offline for probably at least an hour. Does anyone feel like talking? Some things I like are yugioh, Chinese pop (as well as Korean and vocaloid), and five nights at freddy’s, but this thread is for anything, if you want to...
  19. P

    Can't cry

    Hey all. I have this issue where I get depressed, sad, anxious, and just overall very emotional but I can't seem to release it. I hear that crying helps release stuck emotions and clears out toxins, but as soon as I feel like I'm going to cry, it just doesn't happen. Sometimes it is...
  20. A

    College Prayer Request

    Hello I am currently a senior in high school and have just finished applying to colleges. My reach school that happens to be my dream school is the University of Georgia. I have grown up with UGA being a huge part of my life and unfortunately it has gotten extremely hard to get into. I have...