Why has God punished me?

[I-Love-God]

I am born with bad genes. I lack the masculinity. God made me socially anxious. God gave me bad looks. God gave me a high pitched voice. God made it so that everyone makes fun of me for the fact how I look and speak. Why did God do this?

Why did God give other boys good puberty growth and have them have a good looking head shape with high testosterone and was I not gifted this?

 

[Bluerose31]

I am born with bad genes. I lack the masculinity. God made me socially anxious. God gave me bad looks. God gave me a high pitched voice. God made it so that everyone makes fun of me for the fact how I look and speak. Why did God do this?

Why did God give other boys good puberty growth and have them have a good looking head shape with high testosterone and was I not gifted this?

I am very sorry you are suffering brother. The Lord loves you greatly. He made you beautiful as he made other men. The Lord wants you to know you are very handsome just as you are. Your voice is beautiful to God and to others. The Lord will heal you through closeness with Him. The Lord will make it so that you feel your own beautiful masculinity. I will pray that the Lord comforts you and heals you.

 

[Southernscotty]

Hello I-Love-God, I am so sorry that you feel "unappreciated" in your looks and abilities. I know God made you the way that He made you for a special reason as God does not make mistakes.
You can take comfort in knowing that God will never leave you nor forsake you EVER He loves you and He thinks that you are beautiful :] Bless you friend .

 

[A_Thinker]

I am born with bad genes. I lack the masculinity. God made me socially anxious. God gave me bad looks. God gave me a high pitched voice. God made it so that everyone makes fun of me for the fact how I look and speak. Why did God do this?

Why did God give other boys good puberty growth and have them have a good looking head shape with high testosterone and was I not gifted this?

You should know that you can teach yourself to develop a deeper speaking voice ...

 

[I-Love-God]

You should know that you can teach yourself to develop a deeper speaking voice ...

How?

 

[A_Thinker]

How?

Most persons have a range of voice pitch. It is most evident when singing. Simply talk in the lower pitches of your voice.

Find someone whose depth of voice you admire ... and imitate their speakng voice until it becomes natural for you.

 

[miamited]

Hi IloveGod,

It is sad that we live in a world where people use physical attributes to determine ones value and worth as a person. We so often don't seem to understand, and I'm probably as guilty as anyone at times, that they are a person with a mind and feelings and hopes and fears just like the rest of us.

This is so blatantly obvious here in the states with other races. We place some lower value on a person who is black or chinese or mexican based solely on how they look or where they're from. I believe that God wants us to see each other as pretty much the same as we are. A black man with a family likely has the same hopes and dreams for his family as I do. He surely wants to live with the same security of his person as I do. The same freedoms to come and go pretty much anywhere that he would like to go as I do without fear of being accosted or looked at as some lower form of human life because he was born with black pigmentation in his skin. The security of knowledge that his children won't be tormented in anyway merely because he/she is a black child. His child feels the same as my child when confronted by people who hate him or denigrate him because of his physical feature of color.

However, I can't fix the problem. I can only refuse to be a part of those that act that way. It's one of the things that I so dislike in our current president. He has no problem with denigrating people based solely on their birthplace. The country where they're from. And the really sad part is that there seem to be an awfully lot of people here in the states that are just like him in that regard. He actually made me sick to my stomach when he made such a representation of the disabled reporter. Of course, he claims that he wasn't making any reference to the reporters disability in his act of throwing his arms around like some out of control monkey, but there are just so many other evidences that it would have been perfectly natural to how his heart is.

I would hope that you can rise above the judgment, but I know that it's tough. It's hard to see that others think poorly of us based on some physical condition.

God bless,
In Christ, ted

 

[Persis]

I-Love-God, I don't believe God gave you social anxiety. For sure everyone has their own unique temperament, and things that have occurred in a person's life can shape how they respond to things, however, social anxiety is primarily a physiological imbalance caused by poor diet and a lack of nutrients. Every person deals with this as this is the result of our fallen nature. Physiological imbalances very often affects mental health, as they are intertwined, one affecting the other.

The probable root of your condition is 1. hypoglycemia and/or 2. copper toxicity sometimes called copper dysregulation/unbound biounavailable copper. I would advise you to research these two topics as these conditions can cause anxiety. If it is copper related it is very probable that you have a lack of the key hormone like Testosterone which may affect your voice. Testosterone requires good stores of Zinc. Copper is involved with the female hormone estrogen, so you can understand. Zinc to copper ratio must be balanced for balanced hormones.

To detect nutrient deficiencies and imbalances, a hair tissue mineral analysis can be very helpful.

I hope this was helpful.

Take care

 

[Far Side Of the Moon]

I had social anxiety...I have remnants.but now my problem is that I talk too much lol.

When. My anxiety was bad..I prayed to God about it..in addition to practicing ways to get over it.

 

[Monna]

It is sad that we live in a world where people use physical attributes to determine ones value and worth as a person. We so often don't seem to understand, and I'm probably as guilty as anyone at times, that they are a person with a mind and feelings and hopes and fears just like the rest of us.

There have been times when I am envious of blind people. I reason that if I were blind I would not be able to judge people on their looks. I am all too often conscious of how I am affected by the appearance of someone I meet for the first time. It can be either positive or negative. Then I wish I were able to sense other, deeper and more meaningful attributes of the person, or be forced to wait longer before developing any firm impression of a person.

No doubt I would be equally affected by some other sensed attribute - maybe voice, or scent, or some combination. Perhaps we are just too spontaneously judgemental of people when we meet them. The scienctific basis of so much of our education socialises us to categorise things - and people. Put them in "boxes" so that we can work from a set of that box's "set of common characteristics." It gives us a sense of control, thinking we know how people in that box "are." Makes them predictable and manageable. It denies us the freedom to see each person as individual, to embark on an exciting journey of discovery as we get to know the person and find him or her to be special and unique.

I-love-God, there are over 7 billion people on the earth just now. Among all those, there is not a single other one that is just like you! And none of the others are exactly like each other either. But instead of seeing "different" as being something negative, understand yourself as special, unique, one in ten billion! Don't assume that you have to be like others, or even liked by them. If they don't understand how unique you are with your exclusive combination of experiences, values, potential, knowledge, skills and talents, growth capacity and so on, that's their loss - don't think it is yours.

 

[Handmaid for Jesus]

@I-Love-God There have been quite a few people with high pitched voices who trained their voices and became quite famous. In the music industry, having a falsetto(high pitched) voice can be very profitable. Here is a video showing some famous falsettos. For the record, I disagree with some of the choices for the "best". LOL.My choice for number 1 would be Bobby DeBarge followed by his brother El.

 

[Project Panda]

I am born with bad genes. I lack the masculinity. God made me socially anxious. God gave me bad looks. God gave me a high pitched voice. God made it so that everyone makes fun of me for the fact how I look and speak. Why did God do this?

Why did God give other boys good puberty growth and have them have a good looking head shape with high testosterone and was I not gifted this?

Outside looks aren't a gift, a gift is born of a creative spirit & inner talent.

 

[Isocoma]

So sorry to hear that my friend. Just be thankful what God gave us.

 

[Kevin Snow]

If being given the light of life is punishment for you then consider how terrible eternal life must be! Your perspective is selfish but God teaches us to consider others more significant than ourselves.

But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart." ~1 Samuel 16:7

So be of good courage! It's what we do that God is concerned about. Remember how,

For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards,c not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human beingd might boast in the presence of God. And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, “Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.” ~1 Corinthians 1:26-31

He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God? ~Micah 6:8

 

[Niblo]

Hi IloveGod,

It is sad that we live in a world where people use physical attributes to determine ones value and worth as a person. We so often don't seem to understand, and I'm probably as guilty as anyone at times, that they are a person with a mind and feelings and hopes and fears just like the rest of us.

This is so blatantly obvious here in the states with other races. We place some lower value on a person who is black or chinese or mexican based solely on how they look or where they're from. I believe that God wants us to see each other as pretty much the same as we are. A black man with a family likely has the same hopes and dreams for his family as I do. He surely wants to live with the same security of his person as I do. The same freedoms to come and go pretty much anywhere that he would like to go as I do without fear of being accosted or looked at as some lower form of human life because he was born with black pigmentation in his skin. The security of knowledge that his children won't be tormented in anyway merely because he/she is a black child. His child feels the same as my child when confronted by people who hate him or denigrate him because of his physical feature of color.

However, I can't fix the problem. I can only refuse to be a part of those that act that way. It's one of the things that I so dislike in our current president. He has no problem with denigrating people based solely on their birthplace. The country where they're from. And the really sad part is that there seem to be an awfully lot of people here in the states that are just like him in that regard. He actually made me sick to my stomach when he made such a representation of the disabled reporter. Of course, he claims that he wasn't making any reference to the reporters disability in his act of throwing his arms around like some out of control monkey, but there are just so many other evidences that it would have been perfectly natural to how his heart is.

I would hope that you can rise above the judgment, but I know that it's tough. It's hard to see that others think poorly of us based on some physical condition.

God bless,
In Christ, ted

Excellent post.

 

[Drifter Kybe Scythe Kane]

I am born with bad genes. I lack the masculinity. God made me socially anxious. God gave me bad looks. God gave me a high pitched voice. God made it so that everyone makes fun of me for the fact how I look and speak. Why did God do this?

Why did God give other boys good puberty growth and have them have a good looking head shape with high testosterone and was I not gifted this?

I'm an agnostic but at least you already have God in you in terms of beliefs. Everyone may already have God within them but that doesn't mean they believe in him. In the end philosophically speaking, no one can really challenge you because the universe tends to unfold as it should. As long as you do good, God will bless you or as we fully agnostics or atheists say, karma will be on your side. In your case-God. I do hope you at least halfway or something at least within the next few days or something you feel some changes to the justice of universe will do for you happens or in your case is the justice of God. There really are no restrictions in life if you try to find your own styles and processes of making poetry you can find for yourself or some kind of skill to woo girls. Or make friends. Besides if you ask yourself the question:where is God? I hope you believe he is with you.

 

[AservantofGodandthelordJC]

You planned out everything before you were born. Blaming God for problems is like blaming water for drowning someone.

 

[Undead]

I don't know what everyone else has said, but if you hear nothing else, please hear the heart of Jesus in my words today.

The Prophet Isaiah, said in Is 53:2 regarding Jesus... JESUS:
"For He shall grow up before Him as a tender plant,
And as a root out of dry ground.
He has no form or comeliness;
And when we see Him,
There is no beauty that we should desire Him."

It has often occurred to me (knowing how My God operates) He may have even given Himself buckteeth to cause an even further stumbling block for the Pharisees.. can't you just hear them now? "Surely our Messiah would NOT look like this fellow!"

Say that with me please: "And when we see Him,
There is no beauty that we should desire Him.

Jesus, the Son of the Living God, did not come as Fabio-- He did not look gorgeous and have women fawning over him.
Beauty is a curse my friend... moreso than "ugly". Because it is true that beauty is on the inside--and sometimes these people who the world calls beautiful (Beyonce? Miley Cyrus?) are disgusting refuse heaps on the inside. Rotten like a corpse.
But you my friend-- no matter your voice, or your looks are not only beautiful right now--but you will be beautiful in heaven.
And I secretly hope Jesus has buck-teeth because I will love Him all the more!

I suffered physical child-abuse my whole young life---and although I consider myself a handsome man, I have the self-esteem of a gnat. If my wife hadn't chased me down 25 years ago, I would still be single--because I don't know how to talk to women. As a married man, that comes in quite handy.

God bless you my friend. You are beautiful right now.

 

[SkyWriting]

I am born with bad genes. I lack the masculinity. God made me socially anxious. God gave me bad looks. God gave me a high pitched voice. God made it so that everyone makes fun of me for the fact how I look and speak. Why did God do this?

Why did God give other boys good puberty growth and have them have a good looking head shape with high testosterone and was I not gifted this?

We all have to work with what we have.

Improving your looks with unlimited wealth is not a sure thing either.

 

[W2L]

I am born with bad genes. I lack the masculinity. God made me socially anxious. God gave me bad looks. God gave me a high pitched voice. God made it so that everyone makes fun of me for the fact how I look and speak. Why did God do this?

Why did God give other boys good puberty growth and have them have a good looking head shape with high testosterone and was I not gifted this?

Friend, you can find blessing in this. I ask why God made me the way He did, but i accept it, and have found Gods love in it. God doesn't look at the outward appearance like we do, He looks only at the heart. Its Gods vision that will endure forever, mankind's vision however will fade into nothing.