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hello, I have been with my serious boyfriend for a while now. I found out his sister is coming to the same university and she asked me to move in with her. I would be sleeping with her in one room and he would have his own next door. I was wondering if anyone has any guidance or spiritual...

Hello everyone, I have never heard of a therapist or medical provider doing this before. What is it that I can do in situations like this or if it happens again? I'm not sure where to even start when it comes to navigating a mental health clinic's system. They are my only option for a...

Hi family. I am conflicted deeply about what the Lord wants me to do regarding my relationship. When I first starting dating my boyfriend a year and a 3 months ago, I felt like the Lord was calling me into this relationship. I joined the relationship due to his heart for God, our daily...

Hi, everyone. For over 4 years, God has led me to write a blog to help people that need healing from divorce. I have also written 2 divorce reading plans for the YouVersion Bible App that are approaching 100,000 downloads. I wanted to provide a Christian perspective to the issues and feelings...

Proverb 17:9 GNT If you want people to like you, forgive them when they wrong you. Remembering wrongs can break up a friendship. Proverbs 17:9 NLT Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. Proverb 17:9 NIV Whoever would foster love covers over...

long time ago my younger brother read my journal and revealed my secret my sister that I didn't want to introduce her to celebrities and that was supposed to be a secret. Idk what part of my journal thats making people want to read it and reveal my secrets and spread it all over the public...

I have a hard time with understanding temptation.What is the difference between temptation and actually having something bad in your heart? For example, sometimes I am tempted to listen to secular music because some music reminds me of my childhood. If I think that way, but I do not act on it...

Hey all. I'm new here and I am coming here for advice on a situation dealing with my sister. I'll try and keep this as short as possible but I have to throw in a little backstory to get the correct advice. Thank you so much in advance... I am the youngest and my older sister is 14 years older...

Hi guys. I've been suffering really badly with migraines recently. They've become much more frequent and I'm finding it really hard to carry out a normal day as they're keeping me bed bound. Too much movement, loud noises and bright lights make the pain much worse and I've tried taking so many...

Hello guys.. I need some encouragement/advice. Like the title says, I have put in my two weeks notice at the restaurant where I work as a bartender. I believe that God is calling me out of that restaurant and to find work elsewhere. Me working there has really drifted me away from God and I...

I attend a public university and have a choir scholarship there, although I am not a music major. The music director is a Christian and also directs the choir program at a local Methodist church in my town. Today, the director called a meeting for the different university choir classes for some...

I am a college freshman. I was approached by a really nice student a few months ago who was conducting a survey about how different Christians interpreted the Bible. She invited me to attend her Bible study, and I did. Their purpose in this Bible study is to not focus as much on what each...

Hey everyone! What are some of your tips and advice for making the most out of your singleness and being grateful where God has you?

We'll, I'm confused about something. I would like to know how you handle situations like these. I have this kind of character of wanting to apologise if i say something that is wrong or if i feel what i said may have offended a person. An example is, i have to apologise to the person and like in...

Hi Friends, Some one please tell me what I should do. I became a member of this church about a year ago now. Since then I’ve joined small groups, discovery classes and now serve as a volunteer on Sunday mornings in the children’s ministry. I enjoy the church, and the leaders seem to manage...

Hello dear brothers in Christ, this is my first post in this forum and I'm seeking advice regarding courting and marriage. First, some background about me. I'm 27 yo, recently graduated from University and will start living away from my family. I feel like soon it would be a suitable time for...

I have been with my fiance for over four years now. To say it has been a bumpy road would be an understatement. He has dealt with a lot of mental struggles from *extreme* depression and anxiety and what some may even describe as a personality disorder. Many people question why I choose to stay...

To start, I suffer from severe anxiety/panic and depression, I also have a really bad case of OCD. I took it upon myself with some help from my doctor to go off of any antidepressants and benzo's this last year. I was fine for months, I could handle one panic attack every once in awhile. I truly...

Me and my ex girlfriend broke up this year, and I've been this emotional wreck for the past 7 months. We dated starting November of last year and broke up in May. It started as a mutual break up; she wanted to take a break to fix things and get back together again, and I thought this would've...

Hello! I'm very curious about this topic! Hey, so I'm pretty young in my (new) faith, considering becoming an ex-adventist after 18 years (I am 18) because now that I'm away from home, I have been reading the Bible for MYSELF and not listening to what people tell me like how it was in the past...