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    Wife admits to kissing my friend

    I am looking for Christian advice on how to handle this. My wife admitted to me last night that her and a friend of mine had an emotional affair during a time that I was being cold and distant. their discussions and flirting led to two separate kisses. I am in the process of forgiving her but my...
  2. K

    Any advice on struggling with a Sister-in-law relationship?

    The story of how I got to this point is long and can be easily drawn out. But her I am utterly confused as to why my husbands' brother and wife appear to dislike me very much. I have always tried to make conversations with her, and help her, and give her things but it's always met with silence...
  3. Jeremy444777

    Will God have Mercy on me?

    Hi, I suffer from pretty severe OCD (and possible Tourette's) and it makes the simple things in my life hard. I get a lot of blasphemous thoughts about Jesus and other thoughts that I do not want because of my OCD. I get nervous because of these thoughts, but I get burned out asking God to...
  4. Srom

    Need Some Advice

    There is this girl that I think likes me, but we have been really good friends since our senior year (We are both 21 years old) and lately she has been wanting to hangout a lot lately more and more. I for one don't really like her, but she is a strong Christian women,very kind, and caring and I...
  5. S

    Dealing with parental adultery

    Hey all, Bit of a serious topic here. Not sure how I’m supposed to deal with it. The context is that I come from an extremely abusive family. My parents were never happy; they fought each other every chance they got, and our family conversations would be filled with crap like my dad blaming my...
  6. B

    New To Youth Ministry - Need Some Advice!

    Hello, all! I've been recently blessed by being selected to be the Youth Director at my church. I love the Youth of my church, and I wanted to serve them and help them along their spiritual journey. However, I'm running into a lot of obstacles. There are a lot of elements of our current...
  7. K

    Should we buy this house?

    my husband and I have been searching for months for a new house for our family that’s out of the city and has property for our kids to grow up on. We’ve found the general area we’d like to be in now and are trying our best to continue to pray and listen to gods direction on such a big decision...
  8. C

    Newish Christian. What now?

    Hi everyone! I've been a nominal Christian for a while, I've read the Bible and I know a fair amount about a number of denominations. Despite all that, of course, I am still a beginner since I only recently made the decision after years of soul-searching to actually try to live as a Christian...
  9. Kajiki

    I Wish I Was a Better Discerner (Any Advice is Welcome)

    I keep leaving and returning and leaving and returning to this Forum. This time however, I don't want to get advice from only one specific group at a time. I am very open to advice from any Christian who could help me here. I don't know what I am doing and have honestly been having an identity...
  10. stardreamer

    Broke Up Due to Alcohol

    Last night my boyfriend ended our relationship because of his drinking habits. He said he didn't want to get me upset anymore by drinking even though he loved me. And that he didn't want to lie to me by saying that he drank less or wasn't drinking. But he also justified his drinking and said...
  11. MARIAH36

    Am I experiencing lust, infatuation or real attraction?

    I'm experiencing a really deep sadness, as someone that I feel deeply for is no longer in my life. We did not have a romantic relationship officially, but it was very obvious that there was chemistry there. I'm struggling now, to discern between whether my feelings are genuine or strictly...
  12. A

    Is Sex Sinful in Committed Relationship

    God bless
  13. GoldenRule636

    Am I being too prideful?

    Hello everyone! This will be a bit of a lengthy thread, so I'll add a tl;dr at the end. I'm sorry if this is the wrong thread section, I wasn't sure which section to post in, since they all seem fairly specific. Christian advice seemed appropriate, but I can repost elsewhere if necessary...
  14. P

    Hi, I am new, but I was hoping for advice on something I would like to do.

    I want to write a book, it is in the fantasy science fiction genre. I was told by some people that anything but realistic fiction was demonic, they also said yoga and many other things which seem benign would open doors. While I don't necessarily agree that everything they said is dangerous, I...
  15. Lexie Grey

    Career/College Advice *help*

    (I posted this in the college life forum as well, I'm not totally positive how this site works, sorry :)) In all of high school I never considered that I might not be good at what I planned to do in college. I decided at around 16 that I wanted to be a doctor. So I applied for the biggest STEM...
  16. Lexie Grey

    Very Lost *help*

    In all of high school I never considered that I might not be good at what I planned to do in college. I decided at around 16 that I wanted to be a doctor. So I applied for the biggest STEM school in my state as a pre-med neuroscience major. However, after my first year at this school, I've...
  17. C

    Single father in need of relationship advice.

    First let me apologize for a potentially long post. I am a 26 year old active duty soldier. Back in 2016 I started talking to a girl I went to high school with. I was stationed in Texas at the time while she was back in my home state of Tennessee. During that time she was a single mother and I...
  18. Lisanna

    I'm stressed too badly I need help please

    Hello friends! 4 years ago when I was 13 I started using the internet for the first time. I eventually found some chat sites and went on them and met lots of people who would become my friends. I never had friends in real life because I was homeschooled and sadly we could not go to church often...
  19. R

    Newlywed Help

    Hi! I'm new to this site and I don't usually ask for advise about personal problems like this online, but I didn't know who else to ask. My husband and I are both in our mid-twenties. We got married last June and from the first week, I knew something didn't seem quite right. We had sex on our...
  20. B

    Devotional Recommendations

    Hey There! I'm new to this forum, but I'm posting to get some advice. My soon to be mother in law is Wiccan, but as of the last 2 months or so, she's been coming to service with my fiance and I! And this past sunday, one of our church staff gave her a Bible! With Mother's Day coming up, I...