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Pray for our marriage

My wife and I feel very disconnected, and the marriage is in a very bad shape

I won't detail but we have no intimacy of any kind and now there are conflicts almost everyday

Pray for us and our marriage and our daughter

It is pretty bad
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There’s also a playlist called covenant marriage when I look up “douglas wilson marriage playlist” on YouTube. I hope this helps.
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“Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea. And if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life crippled than with two hands to go to hell, to the unquenchable fire. And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life lame than with two feet to be thrown into hell. And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into hell, ‘where their worm does not die and the fire is not quenched.’” (Mark 9:42-48 ESV)

It is a grave sin to willfully (purposefully, deliberately) do or say what you know is going to lead a brother or a sister in Christ to sin against the Lord, particularly those who are young in the faith or who are not yet matured in their walks of faith in the Lord Jesus. So all those pastors out there who are telling the people that all they have to do is profess faith in Jesus and now they are “good to go to heaven,” and that they don’t have to repent of their sins, and they don’t have to obey God, are in BIG TROUBLE with God!

All throughout the New Testament Scriptures and the teachings on what constitutes the gospel of our salvation, we are taught that we must die with Christ to sin, not just once, but daily (in practice), that sin is no longer to be what we practice, and that we must now walk in obedience to our Lord and to his New Covenant commands if we want to have salvation from sin and eternal life with God in heaven. But not to earn our salvation, but living out the salvation already provided for us in the power of God at work within us.

[Matthew 7:13-14,21-23; Luke 9:23-26; John 1:12-13; John 6:44; John 10:27-30; Acts 26:18; Romans 2:6-8; Romans 6:1-23; Romans 8:1-14; Romans 12:1-2; 1 Corinthians 10:1-22; Galatians 5:16-21; Ephesians 2:8-10; Ephesians 4:17-32; Ephesians 5:3-6; Titus 2:11-14; Hebrews 3:1-19; Hebrews 4:1-13; 1 Peter 2:24; 1 John 1:5-10; 1 John 2:3-6; 1 John 3:4-10]

So, it is not okay with God for us to deliberately and habitually pursue sinful pleasures and not walks of obedience to our Lord. We who believe in Jesus, in truth, should be those who take sinning against God seriously to the point to where we do everything we know, as directed by the Lord, according to His word, to die with him to sin daily and to pursue righteousness, godliness, holy living, uprightness, honesty, moral purity, faithfulness and obedience to our Lord’s commands – all in the power of God, by his Spirit.

So, as drastic as it may sound, you will be a whole lot better off if you are missing an eye or a hand or a leg or a foot, but you maintain a holy and pure walk of faith in the Lord Jesus until he returns for his faithful ones, which is when our salvation will be complete. Yet, I tend to take this passage of Scripture less literally and more figuratively when it comes to cutting off body parts. For our eyes are our judgments (discernments), and our hands are our deeds (behaviors), and our feet are our walks of faith or in sin.

So, to me, this is really talking about cutting out of our lives all actions and thinking and behaviors which are contrary to the will of God, and which are sinful, so that we can live holy and morally pure lives in the power of God. And it is cutting out of our lives the things we take into our eyes and minds and hearts and ears on a daily basis which might tempt us to sin against the Lord and lead us into sin. And we replace them with all that is godly and morally pure and loving and kind and submissive and obedient to God.

For the Scriptures are very clear on this subject. We are not saved and on our way to heaven on the basis of lip service only to the Lord. We must deny self, die to sin daily, and walk in obedience to our Lord and to his commands, in his power. For if sin is what we practice (our habit, addiction), and if walks of obedience to our Lord and to his commands are not what we practice (deliberately and habitually), then we will not inherit the kingdom of heaven, regardless of what faith in Jesus we have professed with our lips.

The Spirit Calling

An Original Work / November 12, 2019
Christ’s Free Servant, Sue J Love


Hear the Spirit calling.
He’ll keep you from falling.
Tenderly He’s calling,
“Come and follow Him.”

Walk with Jesus daily.
Don’t give in to lazy.
Folks may call you crazy.
Fellowship with Him.

Follow where He leads you.
Eat what Jesus feeds you.
His love will renew you
If you follow Him.

Do what Jesus tells you.
Don’t let your faith fail you.
His love will avail you
If you walk with Him.

Jesus, Lord and Savior,
Reigneth now forever.
He gave us His favor
So we’d live with Him.

Turning now from our sin,
Holy Spirit live-in.
Holiness we walk in,
Purified by Him.

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An Original Work / January 29, 2025
Christ’s Free Servant, Sue J Love
Are you not glad we can excise all those nasty parts by water baptism into Christ and into His death and burial ?
Paul writes..."Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin."
The entire old man can be destroyed at its "immersion" into Christ's death !
Paul alludes to the same eradication of the old man in Col. 2:11..."In whom also ye are circumcised with the circumcision made without hands, in putting off the body of the sins of the flesh by the circumcision of Christ:"
We no longer need cut off individual body parts to be free of wickedness.
We can cut off the whole old man !
May God be praised !!!
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Conformed Or Transformed

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“Conformed Or Transformed?”
Romans 12:2 NIV
Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Recently I was watching a sermon by Louie Giglio on the power of a transformed mind and something he said really caught my attention. He talked about how every moment of each day is claimed by either following God or following the world. The thought really spoke to me and I thought about how often we live our lives conformed to the world instead of transformed for God.

The past few months I have really struggled with thoughts in my mind. The enemy has been working a lot on me getting me to think negative thoughts about myself. Recently I finished Louie’s book “Don’t Give The Enemy A Seat At Your Table” and it was a life transforming book for me. It really challenged my thoughts and how I need to take them captive each day instead of letting them take root and cause a downward spiral of a negative mindset.

His sermon and book were a big reminder that my life needs to be completely transformed by God every moment of every day. The NLT version reads, “Don’t copy the behaviors and customs of this world”. So often we find ourselves following and copying what the world does. And, there is absolutely no way in the world we can be conformed to the world and transformed to God at the same time.

This reminds of Paul’s words as he spoke about the fight of the flesh each day. He speaks about following the flesh and following the Spirit. It goes back and forth. We need to be renewed in our minds by God’s Word. Every time a negative thought comes into our mind, we must IMMEDIATELY take it captive. No “ifs”, “ands” or “buts”! We are told to take it captive right away and not let it simmer in our minds and stew on it. From there, it can become a fast downward spiral.

I highly encourage you to read Louie’s book as it really challenged me to think of things I had never thought of before. It’s a daily battle we face striving to live our lives transformed by God instead of confirmed to the world. I challenge each of us to strive for taking captive every thought and not letting the enemy have a seat at our table. The enemy will try to in many different ways and a lot of us have given him the seat for a long time. I know I have. We must be careful to not let negative thoughts slip in and take root.

Take some time today, tomorrow and each day after thinking about whether you live your life more conformed to the world or transformed to God.

My fiancée is homeless, please pray

Hi, everybody. I have not posted in a long time. A lot has happened, and currently I am living in a shelter for homeless women & children, while my fiancée is on the streets. I'll be honest - he had a serious drinking problem and a number of behavioral problems (plus almost his whole family resents me and has not made life easy for me) that have brought us to this point, but I've also of course made plenty of mistakes. I'm on disability for a number of mental troubles; he hasn't had a job in a long time and has no money. All the local men's shelters are full. We're in a big city and two days ago he was robbed of his cellphone by a swindler who offered to pick him up and help him to get somewhere safe. Please pray urgently and intensely for him to find shelter. I honestly have no more resources and it's terrible to know he's roaming around out there.

Thank you, and blessings to all.
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Watch this, they have two devotionals every day. I hope this helps.
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I want to do the works of God, and live a long life for the Lord

Please pray for me, I don't know what my calling is but the more I read the Bible and pray the more I want to serve God.

I think a good place to start is a soup kitchen, I will serve hot meals to the homeless. Jesus doesn't want us looking down at the needy, I believe he wants us to help and shelter them do not reject them. I pray God gives me the opportunity to serve him, and that I use my life to help the Kingdom of God until I pass away. I want God to be very pleased with me how I lived my life, I don't want to be useless to God with no fruit.

I am on fire for the Lord, and this is true happiness to me. Thank you for your prayers.
Have you ever watched Paul Washer? He’s a missionary and he does have sermons on YouTube. You might like him and his videos might even help you, depending on your calling. Another thing that you can do is hand out gospel tracts if you aren’t already. The advice of Voddie Baucham for people looking for their calling was read your Bible. I hope this helps.
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Need a miracle for a job

Hi,

I am in a serious predicament- I came down with schizophrenia in the first week of my freshman year of college and I have suffered with that for the last 20 years. I have been unemployed for 20 years due to my illness. I am going to need to look for a job soon but there is almost no chance on EARTH anyone would EVER hire a person with my background. I may even have a hard time finding employment as a janitor. Starting salary in my field (information security) is very high, over $100,000/year, so they expect alot out of you. You are expected to be HIGHLY professional. It would be a crying shame for anyone to pay a person like me that kind of money, it may even be impossible. Almost the only way I could get into the information security field is by special arrangement. If I was highly competent and was very good at what I did I could possibly make a name for myself and eventually get in, however I have a serious problem with dead religion, I am so religious it interferes with my ability to work, as of now I am highly incompetent. I think God has told me I have something wrong in my brain that forces me to be religious, I need a miracle to get free from this. I think if I got healed of my disease (schizophrenia) I would take right off, I could get a high level job and make alot of money for the kingdom.

I have been contemplating moving down to Lynchburg, Virginia and applying for a job at Liberty University, I may be forced to to find a good job, they may be the only organization that would hire me, there is a slight chance they will hire me. I don't want to leave Grace Chapel and my family but I may have no choice.

I have alot of hurdles to overcome to get a job, if you wouldn't mind pray that I can overcome these hurdles and for a miracle healing of my disease. Thank you!
What do you mean makes you be religious and dead religion?
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Chinese migrants flood South Florida via boat as authorities seek help with Cuban smugglers

Chinese migrants flood South Florida via boat as authorities seek help with Cuban smugglers.
Chinese migrants were found in Coral Gables, Florida, where suspected smugglers from Cuba and Haiti were arrested.

Amid a nationwide crackdown on known criminal aliens in the first days of President Donald Trump's second arrival at the White House, police and federal agents have stumbled upon dozens of Chinese migrants in Coral Gables, Florida, and arrested at least four suspected smugglers from Cuba and another from Haiti.

Now local authorities are hoping that more resources from the state and federal government will help them protect the coastal enclave, just west of Miami.
The waterfront city has more coastline to protect than Miami Beach.

Police said a witness reported seeing a suspicious man shoving a woman into a Toyota Corolla parked near a U-Haul van. Responding officers, investigating the incident as a possible kidnapping, found 22 migrants in the van, most of them believed to be Chinese. They found three more migrants in the Toyota, from Ecuador and Brazil. Investigators found it suspicious that they had valuables like phones and jewelry, but no typical items a tourist would carry, including luggage, spare clothes or sunscreen. The migrants were taken to a U.S. Border Patrol facility.


Border encounters drop sharply as Trump launches crackdown on illegal immigration

Border encounters drop sharply as Trump launches crackdown on illegal immigration


The number of Border Patrol encounters at the southern border in the first three days of the Trump administration is 35% lower than the final three days of the Biden administration, the sources said. The numbers do not include encounters at the northern border, or encounters at ports of entry by Customs and Border Protection's (CBP) Office of Field Operations.​
On Jan. 17, there were 1,288 encounters nationwide, then 1,266 on Jan. 18 and 1,354 on Jan. 19. That is 3,908 encounters in total.​
President Donald Trump implemented took office on the 20th, when there were 1,073 encounters. It then declined further to 736 encounters on the 21st and again to 714 on the 22nd — making up 2,523 encounters.​

Ukrainian army marching further into Russia

Lawsuit says Russian officials stole millions meant to fortify border region attacked by Ukraine

A lawsuit filed by the office of Russia's Prosecutor General orders the head of the Kursk Regional Development Corporation, his deputies and a number of businessmen to repay more than 3.2 billion roubles ($32.7 million) allegedly embezzled from the regional defence budget, state news agency RIA reported.

In the two years prior to Ukraine's attack, the governor in charge of Kursk at the time had repeatedly told the public that Russia had boosted its fortifications along the region's 150-mile (240 km) border with Ukraine.

It may take weeks for America to catch up to the advanced kleptocracy of Russia.
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Wisconsin man shoots and kills 8-year-old stepson while attempting to ‘look cool’ by showing off guns, cops say

I don't hunt and don't go to Walmart armed looking for troublemakers. 90% of what I have are duplicates of my work guns and all they shoot is paper and steel with the occasional soda bottle. I hate that I have to use them at all in the Navy but that's what the world is.
Hey! It's your right! I'm 100% ok with doing what you want, safely.

:)
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How to process guilt

Don't listen to him. Fight him with God's grace. Focus on how you can serve the living God. When you do, Satan will stop.
I agree. However, it is worth noting that James blames the person for their own sin and even their own temptation, and not Satan.

Also, I want to try to propose a point-of-view, in which all things come about by God's plan from the foundation of the world. We can be certain that he will accomplish everything that he set out to do, and that is to his own great glory and praise, and to be permitted to even WATCH this happening is a privilege beyond anything we deserve, and full of joy and confidence, BECAUSE we are simply thrown onto his mercy and grace, and not according to our level of obedience. We have NOTHING by which to recommend us to God.
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Biden pardons Fauci, Milley and the Jan. 6 panel. It's a guard against potential 'revenge' by Trump


“The issuance of these pardons should not be mistaken as an acknowledgment that any individual engaged in any wrongdoing, nor should acceptance be misconstrued as an admission of guilt for any offense,” Biden said in a statement. “Our nation owes these public servants a debt of gratitude for their tireless commitment to our country.”




The prospect of such pardons had been the subject of heated debate for months at the highest levels of the White House. It’s customary for a president to grant clemency at the end of his term, but those acts of mercy are usually offered to Americans who have been convicted of crimes.

Trump said after his inauguration that Biden had pardoned people who were “very very guilty of very bad crimes" — “political thugs,” Trump called them.

Biden, a Democrat, has used the power in the broadest and most untested way possible: to pardon those who have not even been investigated. His decision lays the groundwork for an even more expansive use of pardons by Trump, a Republican, and future presidents.

While the Supreme Court last year ruled that presidents enjoy broad immunity from prosecution for what could be considered official acts, the president's aides and allies enjoy no such shield. There is concern that future presidents could use the promise of a blanket pardon to encourage allies to take actions they might otherwise resist for fear of running afoul of the law.


It’s unclear whether those pardoned by Biden would need to apply for the clemency. Acceptance could be seen as a tacit admission of guilt or wrongdoing, validating years of attacks by Trump and his supporters, even though those who were pardoned have not been formally accused of any crimes. The “full and unconditional” pardons for Fauci and Milley cover the period extending back to Jan. 1, 2014.

“These are exceptional circumstances, and I cannot in good conscience do nothing,” Biden said, adding that “Even when individuals have done nothing wrong — and in fact have done the right thing — and will ultimately be exonerated, the mere fact of being investigated or prosecuted can irreparably damage reputations and finances.”

Fauci was director of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases at the National Institutes of Health for nearly 40 years, including during Trump's term in office, and later served as Biden’s chief medical adviser until his retirement in 2022. He helped coordinate the nation’s response to the COVID-19 pandemic and raised Trump's ire when he resisted Trump's untested public health notions. Fauci has since become a target of intense hatred and vitriol from people on the right, who blame him for mask mandates and other policies they believe infringed on their rights, even as hundreds of thousands of people were dying.

“Despite the accomplishments that my colleagues and I achieved over my long career of public service, I have been the subject of politically-motivated threats of investigation and prosecution,” Fauci said in a statement. “There is absolutely no basis for these threats. Let me be perfectly clear: I have committed no crime.”
The hypocrisy is astounding:

Biden in December 2024: Biden declares to Jan. 6 defendants that accepting a pardon was akin to a "confession of guilt",

Biden January, 20 minutes before leaving office: Pardons virtually everyone in his administration with a high level job and his brother, literally. In fact, his whole family; Biden issues former President Biden issued a series of preemptive pardons to family members, members of Congress, and former public servants.

Fauci is pardoned back to 2014, which of course, begs the question, WHAT has Fauci been doing all these years?

Biden/his handlers are hypocrisy personified.

14 Pentecostal sect members convicted for death of 8-year-old girl denied lifesaving insulin

People need to realize what Jesus meant, when He said:

Matthew 9:12 But when Jesus heard that, he said unto them, They that be whole need not a physician, but they that are sick.

In addition, Luke was known as ...

Colossians 4:14 Luke, the beloved physician, and Demas, greet you.
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My christian friend has a flippant way of looking at (baby loss) *** Abortion ment*

Pray for her
You might even inquire, if she is a professing Christian, what it is that makes her a Christian. Some think it was being baptized as a baby, or other work. Many do not appreciate that faith is trusting. It is very hard to tell the difference between an unbeliever and a carnal (fleshly) Christian.

Some get angry if you are seen to question their faith. Only you can guess as to the right approach, if any. Even if you are rebuffed and your friendship ended, at least you will have tried to help. However, at some point we are each responsible for how we live the Christian live. Some go dormant and never grow or mature. Some are even mistaken about being Christian at all.

One cautious technique that might work is to say that you have been reading Ephesians chapter four and seeing where we are expected to grow in our faith towards Christ-likeness. If you express dissatisfaction with the progress you see yourself making, you might have an opening to ask her about her church and if she feels she is advancing as she should. Since none of us are becoming like Christ as we should, it may be a safe way to broach the subject.
I (try to) demonstrate the thing in other I want them to do. That way at least if they didn’t know better, they do now.
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Questions for Episcopalians and Anglicans regarding leadership

Click here for a link to the official web page about the AoC and his role. The first sentence is "The Archbishop of Canterbury is the Focus for Unity for the three other Instruments of Communion of the Anglican Communion, and is therefore a unique focus for Anglican unity." The rest is on the link.

This is the list of churches recognised by the See of Canterbury

And just for you, in case you want some more of our prayers, Here is the prayers page.
Thank you! :)
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