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China is winning the trade war Trump started

Following Trump's 50% tariff on Brazil......

SAO PAULO, Aug 3 (Reuters) - China has approved 183 new Brazilian coffee companies to export products to the Chinese market, according to a social media post of the Chinese embassy in Brazil on Saturday.

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‘TERMINATED!’ Trump Calls to End FEMA and Let States Manage Disasters for ‘BIG SAVINGS’

Survivors of Texas floods are grappling with trauma – and still waiting on financial help

One month after the Texas floods, some survivors are sounding the alarm, pleading for help they say still hasn’t arrived. Others are emerging from the nightmare with the support of a community rallying to clean up the devastation on their own.

It’s a long and uncertain road, burdened by complex insurance claims, government red tape, and financial strain.

[Government red tape? Didn't we fire a bunch of people to make all the red tape go away?]

For many survivors who lost their homes, it remains unclear how much support they’ll receive from the Federal Emergency Management Agency and other government programs. Even if help comes, it won’t be quick.

[But that was only under the old "SLOW AND TOTALLY INEFFECTIVE" FEMA. The new vigorous MAGA FEMA must be faster and better.]

[Anyway, surely the state is stepping up. That was Trump's original idea for GREAT SAVINGS!]

Flood survivor Bud Bolton, a resident of Hunt, Texas, says the aid has been painfully slow, and in some cases, nonexistent.

“The state and county are helping us none,” Bolton told CNN.

"We don’t need toilet paper, bottled water, and few necessities and gift cards. We need financial help and are not getting it.”
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Romans 5:19 uses many to refer to those who are made sinners in Adam and also uses many for those who because of Jesus will be made righteous.

No passage of scripture should ever stand on its own. But this is what you suggest.
Feel free, as I suggested, to read through the exchange between myself and Clare73 to gain understanding of my statement. What you are doing is a perfect example of not taking my statement in context. I agreed with your statement of what is entailed in understanding a passage so why are you pushing against me without first understanding the context? I spent enough time in my exchange with Clare73 so I’m not going to reconstruct said exchange just to defend my statement to you.
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I am struggling to understand choice in salvation in Lutheranism

Recently I have been investigating Lutheranism as someone coming out of the RCC and currently attending a Southern Baptist Church. The differences between the RCC and SBC are vast. I believe the Gospel is a simple message of having faith in Christ’s work on the cross to be saved. However, one hang up for me is the purely symbolic view of Baptism and the Eucharist in the SBC. I understand the arguments from both sides but having accepted the RC and, what I think was the Early Church view for so long I feel as though I am missing out in the SBC with their symbolic view and because they only offer Communion once a quarter.
This leads me to where I am currently, investigating Lutheranism pretty heavily. I agree with almost all of the Lutheran theology I have learned thus far and find it to be most aligned with what I think scripture reveals. Except with regards to free will and predestination. I have always leaned Arminian if I had to put a label on it. From my understanding, Lutherans teach that human beings have nothing to do with their salvation, that God provides this faith to them and they have no choice in it except the ability to reject this faith and walk away.
That is a misrepresentation of the reality of it.
God disposes them to prefer him, and they freely and willingly choose what they prefer. .they do not reject what they prefer.
I understand the overall doctrine is considered a paradox. What bugs me and holds me back from going further into Lutheranism, is that when in the New Testament, someone asks what they must do to be saved, such as Acts 16:30-31, the answer is “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved” which to me is clearly implying that we have to choose to believe and we have a responsibility to accept or reject the Gospel message.
However, in light of the NT that is not what it "clearly implies."
All it implies is that salvation is the result of faith.
And the rest of the NT informs us that:
there is no faith without rebirth (Jn 3:3-5) by the sovereign choice of the Holy Spirit, as unaccountable as the wind (Jn 3:6-8),
faith is a gift (Php 1:29, 2 Pe 1:1, Ac 13:48, 18:27, Ro 12:3) in which the Holy Spirit works in one's disposition, giving one to prefer and, therefore, one freely chooses belief.
Without the rebirth no one believes, and with the rebirth no one fails to believe.
The New Testament seems to time and time again, point to human free will in the process of salvation.
The NT presents faith as a "choice" that only the born again can make.
We preach the gospel, not because all are able to respond to it, but for the sake of those who are enabled by the Holy Spirit to respond to it.
Would it be accurate to say, in Lutheran thought, that God works towards faith in all those who hear the Word preached? Not in a Universalist sense, but that everyone who hears it has the same opportunity to come to faith. Some will come to full faith and be saved by the working of the Holy Spirit, and others will resist God's working in their hearts unto damnation? Such that, when Paul and Silas tell the Jailer, "Believe..." in Acts 16, that God has thus begun working on the jailer's heart so that he will come to faith? And by telling him to Believe, they are admonishing him not to resist the workings of God?

I suppose the question would then be, why would God's working in the hearts of man be effectual for some but not others?
The Holy Spiit does not work in all hearts, only those of the elect (Ro 8:29-30), where "foreknew" there refers to God's foreknowledge (prognosis) of his election of them.
Could God not overcome the will of those who resist belief if he wanted to, especially seeing that man is not making the choice here? In my current Arminian understanding, God would not want to force someone to love Him and override the human free decision to do so, what would the Lutheran make of this?
That is two assumptions of human reasoning nowhere presented in Scripture.

What God would not want, and God forcing. . .God does not "force," he works in the disposition of the elect to give them to prefer him, which preference they then freely choose, no force involved.

Good questions. . .
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Lady Justice: To Spank Or Not To Spank Our Children

I think there is a narrow window, around 15 to 30 months--while children are still learning the world as "every action creates a reaction"--that a quick swat can be useful.

But such a response must be as automatic, instantaneous, and consistent as gravity. And, it should not need to be said, should not be even so injurious as to raise a welt.

But by the time a child is 48 months, they've begun to have concepts of justice and injustice. They're learning to reason verbally, and that should become the primary method of correction and instruction.
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Another look at the moon landing.

That’s just making a statement again. Stop avoiding the ridiculousness of your posts.

You’ve effectively said that God couldn’t control His creation if He created a rotating globe earth, implying that He is weak, unless He created the type of earth that you claim He created.

You’re going around in circles with your posts, making unsubstantiated statements, then making ridiculous claims, and then circling back to your unsubstantiated statements again.

And not forgetting that you only take the Bible literally when it suits you…when you can use a phrase to promote a flat earth. But when a phrase contradicts a flat earth, that’s not literal. Again you are being inconsistent and hypocritical with these posts.

And you ignore the evidence you have witnessed with your own eyes…the sun looks bigger at sunrise than it does at noon, which falsifies flat earth.

And you refuse to acknowledge the inevitable implication of your posts…that you consider a Christian astronaut, who has given eyewitness testimony, not just of the shape of the earth (and other Christian astronauts too), but also of going to the moon and walking on it, as a liar.

You have sunk very low indeed.

This all, still doesn't change the fact that God stopped the sun & not the earth.
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Is the Rapture credible?

No verse in the Bible says anything about God taking Christians off the earth while political events are still taking place.
And 1 Thess 4:17. says , Then. we the LIVING ONES , the Surviving ones. will be Caught Away at the same time with them in

CLOUDS for a MEETING. of the Lord into the AIR and so we will at ALL times be with the Lord

And there are more verse concerning. of Christ coming for the Body of Christ , like Gal 1:4

Just asking , where is your verse ?

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Texas A&M-Corpus Christi Pastor, Who Abused Child for 7 Years, Avoids Jail Time in Plea Deal on 5 Felonies

I don't understand how using a sauna properly (naked) is considered sexual abuse / exploitation.
I tried to spare the sensibilities of sheltered forum posters by not quoting explicit passages from the news article. If the criminal charges are not convincing, you may read more about the allegations.
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China is winning the trade war Trump started

US allies felt that Trump's manner of handling the trade deals was humiliating. That is going to have a negative effect.

Case and point: As of today, the tariff against our closest ally - Canada - is 35%. China is 30%.

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Romans 5:19 uses many to refer to those who are made sinners in Adam and also uses many for those who because of Jesus will be made righteous.

What you have just articulated in the above is exactly what I mean by “stand on its own.” My hermeneutics is just fine brother. You would have to read the exchange between myself and Clare73 to understand the context of my statement. If by error you mean my position on Universal Reconciliation I am quite comfortable with where I rest in the Scripture.
No passage of scripture should ever stand on its own. But this is what you suggest.
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Romans 5:19 uses many to refer to those who are made sinners in Adam and also uses many for those who because of Jesus will be made righteous.

This is a hermeneutics disaster in progress. No verse was ever written to stand in an island devoid of literary and/or cultural context, author purpose, etc. My brother this answers why you attempt to support error.
What you have just articulated in the above is exactly what I mean by “stand on its own.” My hermeneutics is just fine brother. You would have to read the exchange between myself and Clare73 to understand the context of my statement. If by error you mean my position on Universal Reconciliation I am quite comfortable with where I rest in the Scripture.
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Texas A&M-Corpus Christi Pastor, Who Abused Child for 7 Years, Avoids Jail Time in Plea Deal on 5 Felonies

I don't understand how using a sauna properly (naked) is considered sexual abuse / exploitation. When I was in high school, I was forced to strip naked in front of the entire class, and shower with other naked kids in a community shower after swimming and gym class. We all did. And the teachers were there to ensure everyone actually showered and didn't skip out.

It's not a big deal, IMO.
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Spirituality and the Three Little Pigs

I was brought up in many different denominations and this is in no wise hinting that you need some spiritual gift to be considered spirit filled. I have met fine and terrible people in each denomination.

Spirituality and the Three Little Pigs… Scripture - Whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock: And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock. – Matthew 7:24-25

Once upon a time there was a mother pig who did not have enough food to feed her little pigs. So when they were old enough, she sent them out into the world to seek their fortunes.

The first little pig was very lazy and built his house out of straw.
The second little pig was a little more diligent and built his house out of sticks.
They sang and danced and played together the rest of the day.

Meanwhile the third little pig worked hard and built his house with bricks. It was a sturdy house complete with a fine fireplace and chimney.

The next day, a wolf happened to pass by and began to hunger pork for his next meal. He stopped by the first two houses and said… “Little pig! Little pig! Let me in! Let me in!” In which the replies were… “No! No! No! Not by the hairs on my chinny chin chin!” Then the wolf showed his teeth and said: “Then I'll huff! And I'll puff! And I'll blow your house down.”

So he huffed and he puffed and he blew the house down. The wolf opened his jaws wide and bit down as hard as he could, but the first pig escaped and met up with the second pig, whose house was a little sturdier. Having the wood house blew down the two pigs escaped together. The wolf chased them down the lane and almost caught them. But they made it to the brick house and slammed the door closed before the wolf could catch them. The three little pigs they were very frightened, they knew the wolf wanted to eat them. And that was very true. The wolf hadn't eaten all day and he had worked up a large appetite chasing the pigs around and now he could smell all three of them inside and he knew that they would make a lovely feast. He stopped by the house of brick and said… “Little pigs! Little pigs! Let me in! Let me in!” In which the replies were… “No! No! No! Not by the hairs on our chinny chin chin!” Then the wolf showed his teeth and said: “Then I'll huff! And I'll puff! And I'll blow your house down.”

He puffed and he huffed. And he huffed, huffed, and he puffed, puffed; but he could not blow the house down. At last, he was so out of breath that he couldn't huff and he couldn't puff anymore. So he stopped to rest and thought a bit with rage and swore he would come down the chimney and eat up the little pigs for supper. But while he was climbing on to the roof the little pigs made up a blazing fire and put on a big pot full of water to boil. Then, just as the wolf was coming down the chimney, the little piggy pulled off the lid, and plop! In fell the wolf into the scalding water. So the little piggy put on the cover again, boiled the wolf up, and that was the end of their fearsome adversary.

Interpretation. The houses are three…

1. The Straw House – Salvation – Salvation is great… But you need to start building a second house
2. The Wood House – Sanctification – Offers a little more protection… But you need to move on to a third house
3. The Brick House – The Holy Spirit – Offers the utmost protection… A wonderful fortress in the times of storm

Absolutely, Brother, thank you for sharing such a creative and spiritually rich post. I love how the beloved children’s tale of The Three Little Pigs was used to reflect deep spiritual truths, drawing directly from the words of our Lord in Matthew 7:24-25:
“Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock…”
Let’s take a moment together and unpack this entire imagery through the lens of Scripture, spirituality, and truth. And I want to especially address your honest and heartfelt comment:
"I was brought up in many different denominations and this is in no wise hinting that you need some spiritual gift to be considered spirit-filled. I have met fine and terrible people in each denomination."
Amen to that what a balanced and humble perspective! Let’s explore this further.

The Three Houses of the Soul​

1. The Straw House – Salvation (Initial Faith)

Salvation is the beginning, it’s the "yes" to Jesus, the doorway into the Kingdom. The first pig built a straw house: quick, easy, convenient. And this reminds us of believers who receive Christ but don’t yet root their faith deeply in the Word or walk in obedience.
“As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby.” – 1 Peter 2:2
This is where many start. But beloved, salvation is not the finish line, it’s the starting line. We must not camp out in the straw house, for the enemy prowls like a roaring lion (1 Peter 5:8), and straw can’t withstand fire or storm.

2. The Wood House – Sanctification (Growing in Grace)

The wood house is stronger. The second pig put in more effort. This is the believer who begins to mature, prays more, studies the Bible, resists sin they’re in the process of sanctification.
“But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.” – 2 Peter 3:18
This house offers more resistance to the wolf (Satan), but the wood still burns. Wood can be broken. And if the foundation is not Jesus. it can still fall.

The Brick House – The Holy Spirit (Spirit-Filled Living)

Ah, the brick house! Strong. Stable. Sealed. This is the Spirit-filled believer, the one who walks daily in step with the Holy Spirit, clothed with power from on high (Luke 24:49). They live by the Word, obey God's commands, bear fruit, and are rooted in Christ.
“Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.” – Galatians 5:16
“Be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.” – Ephesians 6:10
This house withstands the huffing and puffing of the enemy because it’s built not just on bricks but on Christ the solid rock and sealed with the Spirit (Ephesians 1:13). It's not that this believer is sinless. It's that they are Spirit-led and Spirit-defended.

Your Comment: A Heart of Discernment​

You said:
"This is in no wise hinting that you need some spiritual gift to be considered spirit-filled..."
You’re absolutely right. The Spirit-filled life is not about charismatic gifts alone. It’s about fruit , love, joy, peace, patience, kindness… (Galatians 5:22–23). Many seek spiritual gifts, but forget to develop spiritual character.

Being Spirit-filled means yielding your daily decisions, your thoughts, your will to the influence of the Holy Spirit not chasing emotional highs, but abiding in Christ.
“By their fruits you shall know them.” – Matthew 7:20

Suggestions to Grow from Straw to Brick (Spiritual Formation Steps)​

  1. Daily Word Consumption Not just reading, but meditating (Psalm 1:2-3). That’s how your house gains weight.
  2. Consistent Prayer Life Communing with the Father like Jesus did (Luke 5:16). Prayer builds the mortar.
  3. Obedience in the Small Things Not just hearing, but doing (James 1:22). Each brick is laid by obedience.
  4. Community with the Body of Christ Iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17). Build together don’t build alone.
  5. Confession and Repentance Keep short accounts with God. Purify your spiritual foundation (1 John 1:9).

Stay in the Brick House​

Dear brother/sister, wolves will come. Trials, deception, temptations, storms. They’re part of the Christian walk. But when you’re in that brick house founded on the Rock, sealed by the Spirit, matured by the Word. You will not be shaken.
“The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous run into it and are safe.” – Proverbs 18:10
So let us not settle for straw or wood when God is calling us to build with living stones (1 Peter 2:5). The wolf may huff, but the Spirit will stand.

Stay strong. Keep building. And know this: You are not building alone . God is your Master Architect.
In His Grip and Grace,
Pastor Waris
“Built on the Rock that cannot move.”
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Am I being used for grandchild time by my mother-in-law (MIL)?

My MIL used to be kind of uncaring. She is a hot and cold kind of person. You can get along with her and then all of a sudden you're treated like you're not family.

I've been put down, yelled at, ignored, interrupted while talking to her like I wasn't even having a conversation with her so that she could start a conversation with someone else when I was talking to her. There was always a comment about my sister having a baby outside of marriage. I ended up only going to her house once a season so I didn't have to have bad experiences with her. Didn't matter how well you got along with her, I have always had to be made felt like something was wrong with me or I wasn't good enough. Until... I got pregnant with twins and gave her grandkids after struggling with infertility.

I had Thanksgiving at my house while pregnant. I was excited despite how bad I felt. I cooked most of the food. She attended along with her daughters who are also rude, but one was really nice at the time. I had something hurdled at me over my sister with babies out of wedlock, yet her daughter was in the next room engaged to a dude she met online and pregnant with some other guy's baby. And she had the audacity to come at me over my sister?

Fast forward, I fell breaking both ankles, losing my ability to walk normally for roughly 7 mo. So, I was on bedrest with the rest of my pregnancy and for some reason, she wanted to help me. I was shocked, but she was literally my only help. She's retired and widowed. She did an ok job too. She stuck by my side and got to know me better. She would barely help me when I was alone and crippled taking care of twins from a wheelchair, but she watched the babies so I could go learn to walk again. That upset her jealous daughters. I was uneasy with it because she acts like she can't do anything. She knows what to do, but won't. It's weird, but nice to have her being a good grandma and being kinder. She also has A-fib, so she will use it as an excuse a lot of times to get out of doing a lot of stuff like walking. She can't walk to their nursery, but she can walk into the post office and she can go to the store and walk up to a buffet and eat with her daughters.

Well, the first birthday rolled around and she went MIA. She barely talked to me for a little over a month so she could get out of their bday party. She blamed it on a colonoscopy, but the birthday was not on that day LOL. She did however, go to her other grandson's bday party, yeah, the one born out of wedlock. She let a few weeks pass afterwards and finally came back around with gifts, etc. She was so rude to me. She seriously went back to how she used to be. Then she started getting nicer and nicer and coming over every week. She was safe and the party was over. This past week she said she didn't feel good that she needed to stay home and I said ok. She is feeling better, but won't carry on a conversation through messaging- just like she did around the time of the party. The only thing I can think of is that the same daughter who was pregnant before is pregnant again and her baby is due soon. I wonder if she is trying to get out of seeing my kids once a week because of the other baby. I would never keep her from her daughter and new grandson. This daughter in particular is really spoiled and held high.

I guess what I am asking for is... should I just cut the grandma time in half? I can't keep doing this I treat you good when I want something or the babies kind of thing. Am I being used for time with my babies? She usually babysits for a few hours on Thursday, but I am thinking of her coming over on Sundays instead so she can also see my husband. Plus, my babies are learning to walk better and better everyday. If she can't get the door for me when I'm locked out or walk to the nursery, then I guess her sitting days are over. She can't get up and walk around with these babies. She let one slip between my couch and ottoman last time she was here and told him she couldn't get him. All she had to do was sit on the ottoman and pick him up and she wouldn't even do that. I guess it's not safe for them anymore. I am a first-time mom and I get it double over here!

China is winning the trade war Trump started

Then President Xi Jinping ramped up the pressure by restricting exports of rare earth metals to the United States, threatening to halt production of everything from cars to fighter jets.

China Is Choking Supply of Critical Minerals to Western Defense Companies

Beijing’s tightened controls are a sign of the leverage it has over the U.S. military supply chain​

China is limiting the flow of critical minerals to Western defense manufacturers, delaying production and forcing companies to scour the world for stockpiles of the minerals needed to make everything from bullets to jet fighters.

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The Sabbath. Stunning admissions?(I have no idea where things goes otherwise)

Should one's lack of faith make the Faith of God of no affect? God forbid! Let God be true and very man a liar.
I only know the word says that Jesus said, we who commit sin are a slave to it and if the Son should set us free, free we are indeed.
This freedom Paul also alludes to as being accomplished. In Romans 8 He says that Jesus has set us free from the Law of Sin and death that the righteousness of the Law be fulfilled in us who walk after the Spirit and not after the flesh. This Law of sin is disclosed in chapter 7. There Paul through the Spirit states, For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do. And saying this He states that it is no longer him , but the sin that dwelleth in Him. He then says this is a law and says that this law is that when he would do good evil is present with Him. He delighted after the Law of God in His inner most being, but this other law, that while he wanted to do good he couldn't, and the evil he did not want to do, that he did was warring against the Law of His mind, the Law of God and it was bringing him into captivity, to this law of sin which was in his members. Thank God the Lord has set us free from this Law of sin and death that the righteousness of the Law be fulfulled in us who walk after the Spirit and not after the flesh. For if we walk after the Spirit we will die. But if we through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the Body we shall live. For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.

Rom 7:19 For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.
Rom 7:20 Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
Rom 7:21 I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.
Rom 7:22 For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:
Rom 7:23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
Rom 7:24 O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
So why does John talk about our sinning and confessing our sins (1 Jn 1:8-10)?
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