this is just what the victims said, it seems like it was dealt with in a responsible manner
I think we need to look at why is this so long in the media? (Personally I’m not a Duggar fan because of their marriage and sex teaching) and this is the quality of the show most in question I will give you a couple of points why:
1. How did the girls first court?
a. Their dad introduced them/interrogated the other (cause his daughter met him online) – This said I have no problem of a guy going to a girls dad and say I like your daughter can I date her to see where it goes?
b. This shows male dominated and the father/male is right and the female has to listen (this is if you take “wives submit to your husband” out of context and paying attention to “husbands love your wives” or completely disregarding the Prov. 31 woman)
2. The rules of courting?
a. Do not kiss, do not front hug, do not hold hands – why? Cause each can tempt towards more intense sexual attraction
3. Once they get married what about sex then?
a. Anytime, anywhere, anyhow the husband wants – I’m not kidding google it….Mom Duggar gives advice on how to make your marriage work? #1 you may be tired from housework, taking care of kids, and just a busy day overall but you need to give your husband sex if he wants it.
4. What did they teach their kids about proper/improper touching?
a. Absolutely nothing….did you watch all three parts? Did you hear what the girls said? Oh we did not know what was happening>>>I mean seriously? You don’t know when your big brother was touching weird areas of your body that something was not right? Who’s fault is that? Mom and dad for not teaching proper boundaries (yes I get boundaries in a large family are a little fluid I have many siblings….but really we still had boys in boys room girls in girls room not allowed in the other room)
The take away?
The Duggar’s message is all about no sex till marriage and then have all the sex you can to pop out those kids and have the biggest family you can. Did you catch that NO SEX ABSOLUTELY NO SEX - NO TOUCHING, NO TEACHING, NO TALKING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT SEX……and what happened when their son did some sexual touching and what do they say? OH its no big deal he was just a little too curious about girls. This is the heart of the issue and why they say there is a disconnect/hypocrisy