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sexuality

  1. pantingdeer

    Is sex before marriage wrong?

    Where in the bible does it say that you can't have sex before marriage? And if there is a verse on this topic, why is it so important? How do couples manage to abstain from sex for years before getting married - it seems weird in this day in age. For example, if I saw a couple I would...
  2. pantingdeer

    Lost my attraction to women and now very depressed and sad

    When I was 16 it seemed that overnight my attraction to women dramatically reduced. I am now 20 and I am still struggling with this and have become very depressed. I find it very hard to get on with other people as I hate myself and get negative thoughts about myself all the time. All I want is...
  3. D

    Struggling with porn and homosexuality At 16

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  4. Monkish

    Sexuality

    do we lost our sexuality in next life? I know the Bible is vague the sadducees were trying to trick Jesus, but Jesus explain that marriage for this life, but in next were like angels, but it goes to state that God is of living and not the dead. So this seem vague and unclear. What do you make of...
  5. pantingdeer

    Depressed with my life

    I am 19 and am a nobody. I have no friends and although I have a job which is good, it is pretty boring and don't want to do it much longer. I also go to university and do maths and even though I find this subject relatively straight forward if I study enough, I don't find it exciting at all - I...
  6. pantingdeer

    I am Guy. Why does God not let me like women.

    i would prefer to like women my own age but god does not grant this wish of mine even though I ask him for 3 years. Instead I am depressed as I've no friends or people who care about me and no girl like me. I stopped being attracted to women 3 year ago (I 19 now) and now my life is bad since. I...
  7. pantingdeer

    Depressed and lonely life

    When I was growing up I felt straight but when I was 16 (now 19) my libido left me completely one day out of nowhere and it never came back. This was the start of my depression. Every day since I've had anxiety about my sexuality and am mad at God for never helping me when I asked for help and...
  8. HatGuy

    The Thrill And Beauty Of Purity

    Sex is more than just when you should have it, who you should have it with, and how you (should) prefer it. I tuck my kids away at night and think about how boyish they are. I think about how the bath that night turned brown and mirky within seconds of them getting in, thanks to their grubby...
  9. S

    I just need answers and help from others.

    I'm 17 and I've never really done one of these before but I need help. Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost two years now and we love each other very much. We feel as if God put us together considering what we've been through. We're really close and she's my best friend. She's a...
  10. M

    Thoughts on Fictosexuality?

    I made an account specifically to ask this question, though if it goes well, I'm hoping to return to this site in the near future for further advice and such. I'm too terrified to ask a pastor about this in real life. Truth be told, "Martha Joyce" isn't even my real name, and the same goes for...
  11. Raphael Jauregui

    Iowa Annual Conference BOM declares itself at variance with BoD

    The Iowa Annual Conference's BOM has declared that it will not discriminate based on sexual orientation when considering candidates for ministry. It has declared itself to be at variance with the current BoD. Iowa AC Board of Ordained Ministry commits to non-discrimination - RMN+
  12. O

    Athletes Question on Modesty

    Hi all, Thanks for reading. Hope you all have a great day. I'm 23 and on a university wrestling team, I have also been blessed with a fiancé and we plan to marry when we both graduate in two years. We have both kept ourselves pure for marriage. My problem is that I am not comfortable in my...
  13. anonymousme

    Dauhter thinks she's bisexual

    I need advice. I recently read a note my 12 year old wrote saying she is bisexual. I was in complete shock. She has always been super boy crazy but also tends to idolize people/girls and has always become obsessed with things easily (actors, animals, topics, etc). Slightly OCD I think. Anyway...
  14. pantingdeer

    Depressed and need help

    Please help me. I'm getting worse. Last year something changed in me and I did not like women anymore and I got scared. My life is a mess, everything is going wrong. Im depressed and the side effects are terrible. My brain has stopped functioning properly - I have a terrible memory and my...
  15. Quid est Veritas?

    Pornography is damaging young men's sexuality

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/article/37058019/easy-access-to-online-porn-is-damaging-mens-health-says-nhs-therapist Too much Pornography is causing a rise in Erectile dysfunction in young men, according to psychologists. I posted a similar series of articles on the negative psychological...
  16. Gregory Mallett

    What is the significance of human sexuality?

    Yes, that may seem like a strange question, but if you think of it the vast majority of the sins man commits are in regard to purity. The first step to building a relationship with God is to remain pure in body, mind, and speech, and there is a great deal of controversy surrounding the subject...
  17. pantingdeer

    My world is falling apart. Please pray for me.

    Whoever reads this do not laugh or judge me. Please help me, I'm in a very bad state. Until about 6 months ago I would be very into girls until one day all attraction towards women and the desire to be with one suddenly disappeared unexplained. I thought it was a phase and would maybe come back...
  18. pantingdeer

    Need help before I can't take anymore

    Whoever reads this do not laugh or judge me. Please help me, I'm in a very bad state. Until about 6 months ago I would be very into girls until one day all attraction towards women and the desire to be with one suddenly disappeared unexplained. I thought it was a phase and would maybe come back...
  19. pantingdeer

    17 With Erectile Disfunction. I'm so sad. Can God help? Embarrassing. Don't judge please.

    I m 17 and three months ago I had a massive crush on a girl but then about a week later I realised I was losing my attraction to girls completely. This was frightening and I was afraid I was turning gay or something. Now I m afraid that if I even look at a guy and think he s even good looking it...
  20. pantingdeer

    Will God ever give me back a desire for women which I ask for

    im 17 and about 2 months ago I met this girl I really liked but never said. I kept thinking about her but and couple of days later my desire for women completely disappeared and since that day I've never felt attracted to a woman at all. This scares me greatly and I'm sure this contributed to...