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  1. Christsfreeservant

    Cleverly Devised Plans

    1 John 3:4-10 ESV Everyone who makes a practice of sinning also practices lawlessness; sin is lawlessness. You know that he appeared in order to take away sins, and in him there is no sin. No one who abides in him keeps on sinning; no one who keeps on sinning has either seen him or known him...
  2. M

    Question about husbands internet searches

    So I’ve posted before on my husbands porn use and my concerns. I still haven’t decided how to handle it because I’m afraid if things blow up and we separate I don’t want the possibility of losing my 3 kids even if it was split custody. But recently I found he’s been searching local escort sites...
  3. M

    Husbands porn addiction

    My husband has struggled with porn since before marriage and continues in the cycle of me finding out, askinghim, him lying until he realizes I’ve seen, then confessing and apologizing saying he won’t do it again. I always forgive and offer to support him if he’ll just be honest about it. This...
  4. Servatude

    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Hello Family, I am a young man who is actively looking for a godly christian female to court or date. I have been having a dilemma as for whether or not I should go for women that I have been normally attracted to all my life. Just to give you a little background of myself, I was recently set...
  5. Servatude

    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Hello Family, I am a young man who is actively looking for a godly christian female to court or date. I have been having a dilemma as for whether or not I should go for women that I have been normally attracted to all my life. Just to give you a little background of myself, I was recently set...
  6. Christsfreeservant

    Where There Is No Water

    Psalm 63:1-5 NASB O God, You are my God; I shall seek You earnestly; My soul thirsts for You, my flesh yearns for You, In a dry and weary land where there is no water. Thus I have seen You in the sanctuary, To see Your power and Your glory. Because Your lovingkindness is better than life, My...
  7. 2PhiloVoid

    Mommy, why has the Playboy Philosophy perverted American men's minds and actions?

    ...well, Junior, a while back, my sociologist friend said that it all came about like this: ...and then, Junior, we now have to deal with this very scary devastation to men's psychology in our culture. Understand? But here's something else to think about, and I hope after you hear it, it'll...
  8. Guy Incognito

    Practical Ways To Fight Porn(/porn Addiction)

    So the reason I wanted to share this was mostly, I want it to be helpful. There's been a very interesting topic about porn in the marrieds forum, it's been an issue I've struggled with most of my life, and something a lot of Christians face. My hope is these steps have both practical and...
  9. savedthroughgrace

    Encouragement/Advice

    Hi all, (sorry for the long post) I am new to the forums but I have been a Christian my whole life. I have, however, had some struggles for a lot of my life. I'm 24 and married. At a young age I was introduced to pornography and since then sexual immorality of different kinds have been a...
  10. Christsfreeservant

    Lust Or Love?

    Proverbs 23:26-28 ESV My son, give me your heart, and let your eyes observe my ways. For a prostitute is a deep pit; an adulteress is a narrow well. She lies in wait like a robber and increases the traitors among mankind. Sexual sin is at its peak in our day and time with the ease...
  11. S

    Help from a former Pro-Domme

    I've had BDSM fantasies from early childhood and have been trapped into it since. It has been a nightmare. Praise God, by his grace he set me free 4 months ago. This has been a huge breakthrough for me but very isolating as no one knows. God answered my prayers and each time I had a thirst...
  12. L

    PLEASE pray for me - Porn Addiction

    I am asking for your prayers and support in my battle with porn. After all this time I've spent in conflict with my desires, I have finally accepted I can't get over this by myself. I need the love and support and prayer of others. This is not something that I can just say to the people that...
  13. S

    Husband Secretly Looking At Porn and Lying About It

    Hello everybody. I married my best friend on November 19, 2016. We were each other's first in everything. First boyfriend/girlfriend, first kiss, first everything. He is my dearest and closest friend, and I often realize that I couldn't have been luckier. He treats me extremely well and is...
  14. PistolPete9

    Relapsing Back To Porn & Masturbation

    Hi all Greetings from Australia :) How are you all fairing? I will cut to the chase, I am a Born-Again Christian who loves Christ however just like a lot of men (and women) I struggle with habitual sins of porn & masturbation. For the past 2 weeks I was able to control my urges but just last...
  15. destinyrealized

    How do I just sit and wait for God to fix my marriage?

    Long story short: we’ve been married for a year and a half. I am four months pregnant with our first child. I have been suspecting my husband of masturbating/watching porn for a few months and confronted him several times where he has lied straight to my face. Yesterday I caught him. He turned...
  16. megan_26

    Relapsing In Sin

    There's a quote from R. Zaccharias that says, "Sin will take you further than you want to go, keep you longer than you want to stay and cost you more than you want to pay." I first heard my pastor say this during a sermon and it struck me particularly hard because it's true. I first got into...
  17. S

    Being tempted in my dreams...

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  18. S

    Help|Sex & guilt

    Hi guys, So i'm actually a christian (Jehovah's witnesses) but you don't recognise them as one. I'm 19 and having been having same sex thoughts a lot recently mainly from watching porn. I know in my heart what's right, I know such desires are not in allign with Gods purpose. I have had many...
  19. O

    Porn in a Christian marriage

    Hi guys, I've been having problems. Some between my husband and some between my mind and soul. My husband and I have been together for almost 2 years. We love each other, and we want to live the most Christian life possible. My husband watched porn for about 5 years before me and even in our...
  20. B

    A re-occuring porn addiction.

    I remember that I wasn't much older than 11 years of age. It was the late 1990's, and the internet had not made it into our home, yet. Television was the way for me to get entertainment. By day, I watched cartoons, motorsports, movies, soap drama's, etc. But by night, being the curious only...