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abuse

  1. Christsfreeservant

    Confession of an Addict

    Disclaimer: This is not an actual letter to you by anyone in particular. But, it serves as a model of a letter of confession by an addict who is attempting to be honest and to come clean regarding his true motives and intentions, and regarding his true heart attitudes and behaviors. For this...
  2. L

    SLAPPED A PARENT

    Hello Everyone, I'm currently new on here and I'd love some advice. There's sth that's really heavy laying on my heart. Throughout my whole childhood, my father was always verbally and emotionally abusive towards my mother. The abuse continued more as the years went by. Over the past last...
  3. A

    I Need Prayers to Stop satan from "hunting" Me via toxic females.

    Preface: After studying GOD’S WORD [GENESIS 6:2] and reading Tertullian, Athenagoras, Justin Martyr, Irenaeus, and Jude, and others, I choose to Believe that We Humans share this earth with fallen angels and their hybrid children. I’m talking about evil spirits with the ability to manifest on...
  4. Christsfreeservant

    Sovereign Over All

    Note: This is a continuation of a series I am doing as a public testimony of what God has allowed in my life to take place throughout my life, all of which was in preparation for the ministry to which he has now called me. This is #3 in the series. Again therefore Jesus spoke to them, saying...
  5. Christsfreeservant

    Our Spiritual Fervor

    Note: This is the second writing in a series of personal testimonies regarding trials and tribulations the Lord Jesus took me through in preparation for the ministry to which he has called me. The first one is called, “Slam-Dunked Again.” ** “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to...
  6. Christsfreeservant

    Slam-dunked Again

    Have you ever felt like you were drowning? And, that every time you came up for air there was someone there just waiting to push you back under? There was always someone waiting in the wings ready and willing to slam-dunk you if you tried to survive and to thrive? Perhaps you weren’t drowning...
  7. bèlla

    The Blame Game

    I don’t typically share posts from the site but this one stood out. She Accused Him of Rape. She Then Sent Herself Threatening Messages to Frame Him. John Doe, told the Record he was on the brink of suicide until he was acquitted last November on five charges of sexual assault. Continued...
  8. Pavel Mosko

    Gaming the Gospel

    I've been slowly working on various projects that will hopefully turn out to eventually be video series, blog posts series or maybe even some kind of ebook. I decided to post here because I thought it would make a good discussion and maybe give me a few extra insights and thoughts (I already...
  9. Christsfreeservant

    Give Me Understanding

    Psalm 119:33-35 ESV Teach me, O Lord, the way of your statutes; and I will keep it to the end. Give me understanding, that I may keep your law and observe it with my whole heart. Lead me in the path of your commandments, for I delight in it. We need the Lord to teach us the way of...
  10. pantingdeer

    Toxic family

    When I grew up my dad always treated me harshly while treated my sisters like princesses. Whenever I did something that was bad I would be afraid because my mum would tell my dad when he got home and he would sometimes smack me with the sole of his shoes several times or with his belt or with...
  11. Christsfreeservant

    God Means Business

    John 15:18-19 ESV “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.” First let me state here that “the...
  12. DeeDee79

    Turning the other cheek vs actively doing something

    I know scripture says we are to turn the other cheek when wronged but how many times are we to turn it when being abused/wrong by the same person over and over taking pleasure in it making your life difficult? Will God actually do anything about it? Or am I just to accept this abuse for as long...
  13. Heartofsilver

    "Why do I want to be around people who scare me?"

    Hello everyone, This is what my therapist asked me at my last session. I told her that the reason why I still try to see my abusive family is because they are my family and I love them, so I still try to see them from time to time. Though, I usually try to bring someone with me when I actually...
  14. Heartofsilver

    Parental abuse effecting my relationship with God

    Hello everyone, Months ago, I went through a crisis where my abusive family was treating me harshly while I was having psychiatric issues. My dad has become more physically abusive towards my mom and I. He is struggling with a work addiction, sleeping issues, and exhaustion which makes him...
  15. christianlloydteegardin

    Religious background issues. (BIO) - Need prayer.

    It's really odd how despite the fact that I believe salvation comes through God alone through Jesus Christ regardless of our spiritual and mental state, I still feel as if my salvation hangs by the 'weights and balances' of what I do with my life. Am I being slothful sitting here on my PC while...
  16. chevyontheriver

    So it turns out abp. Vigano was correct

    Finally the evidence has been leaked that ex-cardinal ex-priest Teddy McCarrick really was censured and restricted. Like archbishop Vigano said. I'm not surprised. We still have the difference of opinion on whether pope Francis knew archbishop Vigano told him about McCarrick.
  17. T

    Is Separating Biblical?

    Greeting Brothers and Sisters in Christ: Forgive me for this being VERY long and thank you in advance for those who take the time to answer their sibling in Christ :) . Please no bashing as I am a sinner too who also takes 50% accountability for my marital conflict. God is righteous and I too...
  18. S

    Please pray for an abusive husband.

    I came to Christ a month ago. My wife brought me to Him over the last three years. And I need Him now more than I ever knew. I am abusive. My wife, who brought me to Christ, is my third, and the first to call it what it is. She's left me, with good reason. And while I hope that God will change...
  19. Heartofsilver

    A few months ago...

    Hello everyone, A few months ago I started having severe panic attacks which was triggered on by my OCD/rumination thoughts and going too hard for too long with school which resulted in me not properly taking care of myself. This was due to lack of time and mishandling by the university. I also...
  20. Christsfreeservant

    Flogged And Crucified

    Matthew 20:17-19 ESV And as Jesus was going up to Jerusalem, he took the twelve disciples aside, and on the way he said to them, “See, we are going up to Jerusalem. And the Son of Man will be delivered over to the chief priests and scribes, and they will condemn him to death and deliver him...