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    is kissing and cuddling a sin

    Hello guys, just recently, i felt very guilty for kissing and cuddling a lady im not married to yet. it was our first kiss. We like each other and plan to start a relationship and hopefully get married. Although I felt guilty and asked God for forgiveness, I constantly get flash back of the...
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    Is polygamy a sin

    Hello guys, I've been wondering if it's a sin for a Christian man to marry more than one wife. Will a person ho to hell if he legally marries more women? Pls advice with scriptural reference. Thank you
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    My heart is tied to the wrong person

    Hello guys.. I'm single but currently very confused about who to finally settle down with. There are very good and attractive ladies in my life that i'ad love to marry but I'm unable to make progress because of one particular lady whom my parents forcefully want me to marry. The issue is I...
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    Finding a future partner

    Hello guys, I've reached a point in my life where I'm looking for a girlfriend I can marry. Ive heard the elderly always say its best to find someone who is beautiful on the inside and pay little attention on their outward beauty. I don't know for y'all but I can't imagine myself being married...
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    Can Christians forgive someone without talking to them?

    Can you forgive someone without talking to them?.. Does silent forgiveness count?
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    Is there need to be worried

    Hello guys, Pls advise. I'm avoiding someone I used to be cool with because he's knowingly or unknowingly getting on my nerves.. He's actions come across as teasing.. And I just want to pretend I'm not offended by not talking to him. Now the problem is the devil is trying to make me feel...
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    My parents are forcing a girl on me for marriage

    Please advise me.. My parents want me to marry a lady I have no attraction for. They threaten to show no concern if I marry someone else . Now my right to find my own wife is taken from me. I am 30 now This issue has been a headache for me
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    anxiety over New job

    Hello guys, I've been praying for a job for over three years now since I completed university. Now It finally looks likely that I can land myself in one. Good news but the problem is I've suddenly lost confidence, have no zeal or enthusiasm for it. I'm struggling to make myself glad for this...
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    Bitter over Parents

    Hello friends, I am an introvert and often unable to voice out my concerns when offended. This makes me so bitter. I react by staying away from offenders: like not picking up some calls or talking to them regularly. Now I am very bitter towards my parents over some issues and although these...
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    what's the best way to honour God with your first salary

    I have been praying for a job for a couple of years after uni. And although am still unemployed now, ave been wondering what would be the best way to honour God with my first salary once i get a job. .would it be better to give to my parents or split between them(parents) and the church (as part...
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    he's showing attitude because I corrected him

    How do you deal with someone who's started showing attitude and doesn't to to talk to you because you corrected them for something they did wrong... I've made an attempt to talk to this person but he gave me an attitude and am not interested in doing it again..and aside the further embarasment i...
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    virgin but now struggling

    I am a 27 year old virgin. My curiosity has led me to unhealty habits as masturbation. I flirt with a lot of girls.. (not that many, currently like 3). One of these girls now desperately wants to have sex with me..I kinda want too as well but it is not right and against my moral standards..this...
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    struggling with lust and masturbation

    I am a 27 year old virgin. My curiosity has led me to unhealty habits as masturbation. I now flirt with a lot of girls.. (not that many, currently like 3). One of these girls now desperately wants to have sex with me..I kinda want too as well but it is not right and against my moral...
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    hello everyone

    Hello eveeyone am new here..just joined a couple of seconds ago