I am surprised anyone who has read their Bible from Genesis to Revelations would derive from it that God is a God who cares about your consent. Yes He loves us, and yes He is compassionate towards us, but when He wants His righteous will done, He is not taking no for an answer. For all those saying God seeks our consent, I would have to think they have not read the book of Jonah and seen how Jonah's will was treated when it contravened God's.
"All the inhabitants of the earth are accounted as nothing, and He does according to His will among the host of heaven and among the inhabitants of the earth; and none can stay His hand or say to Him, “What have you done?” (Daniel 4:35)
Again: "Our God is in the heavens; He does all that He pleases." (Psalms 115:3)
"Many are the plans in the mind of a man,but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand. (Proverbs 19:21)
He does not ask consent for your existence, your salvation, your condemnation, your place or time of birth, your strengths or your weaknesses, your gifts or your deficits, or anything else. As much as He loves us, He is God and we are not, and we are regarded exactly as we are. All we are, and all of our value, is derived from God, so that it is utter nonsense and self-defeating to appeal against God by employing aspects of our being that could only be established by Him. In extension, that is to say that if He has not ascribed to us something we simply do not have it; it is an illusion and inflation of ourselves.
I would remind anyone inclined to thinking that God is particularly concerned with your will to again consider the case of Jonah, among many others in the Scriptures. Even better, think of yourself and the fact that Jesus is your Lord and not your co-pilot, and that all who come to Him do so on His terms and under His power and not yours.
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." (Isaiah 55:8-9)