Hmmm....do you know where she is now and what she is up to? Any chance you could reconnect with her?D, I don't know. Part of me says no, but part of me still wonders.
The worst part is that she was one of my best friends at the time and I lost that too. I didn't even say goodbye when I left...
Stupid, I know. But saying it made it real...
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I like that line - Dwelling on the past only blinds me to what is ahead - it's very, very true!!!I have an idea where she is. I've gotten group e-mails from her, but she hasn't responded to my personal e-mails in 2 years.
We were both going in separate directions with our lives and both were scared to admit it or ask the other to go with them.
It's in the past. I have to look at the future now. Dwelling on the past only blinds me to what is ahead.
Coach
Couldn't we all!If your making a note book of what NOT to do, I could fill it up for you in not time flat!
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1- and he couldn't say it back. it really hurt me. We had dated for a long time and as it got more serious he was in panic mode- he did not know what he wanted. So i said it, and things pretty much ended. We had dated for close to 2 years exclusively and i did love him. I think he loved me too but was too scared to let himself feel that and commit to that. I hope the next time, the person is more receptive and knows that he loves me.
thanks. God has brought a lot of healing and wholeness into my life since that. I think i am over him at last. It's still pretty crappy that he wasted my time and couldn't figure it out. I think this guy regrets it some. I don't talk to him anymore, but yeah we have a weird corespondance now and his actions make me wonder. I would never date him again though.awwww Mina I'm so sorry
Oops! should of read the post before voting. I tell everyone I love them... but meaning it romantically I've never said it to anyone. Oh well.Those 3 little magic words that make you
I've actually never said them to anyone that I've been in a romantic relationship with...I've felt it for 2 of the men that I dated but I never said it to them...I wanted them to say it first...and obviously, since I'm not dating anyone at the moment - they never said it!
Anyways, I was just curious...how many people (I'm talking romantic love) have you said, I Love You too and really meant it?
No, it might have made me break up with her sooner though.do you think the fact that she said she loved you played into you breaking up with her?
It didn't scare me, though I was very surprised she said it so soon, and I knew I couldn't say that I loved her at the time.Did it scare you? Or did you just realize that you didn't feel the same way about her?