I Love You...

[Spicy McHaggis]

I said it to like, 20+ people the other night on CF, but it wasn't romantic



for most of them!

 

[Tink]

I voted earlier. I've said it to three people. My first love, my husband, and some guy that I thought I was in love with, but I really wasn't. Boo on me.

 

[ido]

I voted earlier. I've said it to three people. My first love, my husband, and some guy that I thought I was in love with, but I really wasn't. Boo on me.

In that order?

 

[Tink]

In that order?

ROFL.

No. First love, weird person I mentioned and then my husband.

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

ROFL.

No. First love, weird person I mentioned and then my husband.

which one was I?

(kidding, I know we're not married)

 

[Tink]

which one was I?

(kidding, I know we're not married)

u wuz the 1st luv. duh.

 

[ido]

ROFL.

No. First love, weird person I mentioned and then my husband.

Whew! Just checking!

 

[ido]

u wuz the 1st luv. duh.

Seriously? Because I would have totally believed he was the weirdo...

 

[Mrs. Luther073082]

Two.

 

[Tink]

Seriously? Because I would have totally believed he was the weirdo...

Well, the first love was also a weirdo. LOL.

Does that explain it?

 

[ido]

Well, the first love was also a weirdo. LOL.

Does that explain it?

It's all very clear to me now.

 

[puddleoffaith]

zip zero nadda...OH and I reached 1000 posts! yeehaw!

 

[ChooseTheRight]

Hmmmm....so do you know what you're looking for now so you can tell the difference between lust and love?

Yes i can tell the differance now. Its taken a while to learn, but i felt it was a lesson worthy of the time spent on it.

 

[Tink]

lol

I'm glad to be back. I sure have missed you all!

 

[GritsnGrace]

That's one thing I've learned as well...mutual respect is soooo very important. I think that for me was one of the elements missing with the other guys I've dated that I never "felt" love for...

One thing my oldest sister has always told me - you should never be made to feel that you're lucky a guy is dating you...you should feel equal in the relationship. When you are put into a position of feeling like you're lucky that a guy is giving you the time of day or is "gracing" you with his presence then you start losing your own identity and you start acting in ways to "earn" and keep his attention and love...

That isn't what mutual respect is all about...

(hope that made sense )

This is how my ex #2 was like. He actually told me once, after we broke up, that he thought the only reason I married him, was because of his looks!!! Puh-leeeze!!

 

[GritsnGrace]

Oh, and my answer is 2, both my exes.

 

[dluvs2trvl]

No, it might have made me break up with her sooner though.

It didn't scare me, though I was very surprised she said it so soon, and I knew I couldn't say that I loved her at the time.

Gotcha! Thanks for clarifying!

Yes i can tell the differance now. Its taken a while to learn, but i felt it was a lesson worthy of the time spent on it.

Yep! Any lesson learned is a worthy lesson

 

[jcj3803]

Man Law #4

NEVER say "I love you" first.

 

[dluvs2trvl]

Man Law #4

NEVER say "I love you" first.

Hmmm...well, then I'm in big trouble cause I'd like the man to be the one to say it first

 

[jcj3803]

One thing my oldest sister has always told me - you should never be made to feel that you're lucky a guy is dating you...you should feel equal in the relationship. When you are put into a position of feeling like you're lucky that a guy is giving you the time of day or is "gracing" you with his presence then you start losing your own identity and you start acting in ways to "earn" and keep his attention and love...

This sword cuts both ways.