Funny, how I have said that to so many friends, family and my sons...but guys?How many I've said it to? Two, my exh was one. The other was the guy I dated seriously and we were talking marriage. However-it took me a much shorter time to get past him, and I had made the decision to break it off...the relationship wasn't right for many reasons. So I loved him on the surface but not deeply. Loved more the idea then him.The two I didn't say it to, that love persisted for them for quite some time-one was a friend/casual relationship and we parted on good terms-the relationship gave to me what I needed, but I realized when we were apart that I did indeed love him, it took some time to get over that but I did. I never said it though.The other one, well he did say it to me several times, I didn't respond-and I'm glad, it's a complex situation. I still love him.So in summary: Didn't say it to the two I loved most, said it to my exh when I think it was more traumatic bonding then love, and the other guy I wasn't truly in love with lol. That just makes perfect sense.