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Out-of-Place ‘Devil Bird’ Wows Spectators in Maine, the First Anhinga Ever Seen in the State

In winter of 2022, Maine was accorded the honor of a visit from a Stellar’s sea eagle, a truly incredible raptor with an 8-foot-wingspan that may have been diverted from its migratory path as far away as Russia.

Now, it’s the turn of this strange, long-necked “devil bird,” to send the state’s birdwatching community into a flurry of activity, as it’s the first-ever sighting in Maine’s history.

Related to the double-crested cormorant, this is an anhinga, a piscivorous bird native to South and Central America. Its breeding range extends into Florida, the Gulf Coast, and even as far as the Carolinas.

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Kamala Harris on Inflation

Lest someone should claim that the video clip in the OP is unfairly "manipulated", here is the complete response to the question from start to finish. Also note that this response is from a video posted on YouTube on November 14, 2021.

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IMHO, it's not much better. She basically says that "Build Back Better" will make things cheaper and/or free for people, and it won't cost anything, but never really explains how.

It's more of Harris doing what Harris does; saying a bunch of words without actually saying anything.
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K9 Sniffers in Oklahoma Use Their Nose to Convict Child Predators

A doctor who treats children in Ecuador is currently facing a 30-year prison sentence for creating explicit content involving minors—and his prosecution is thanks to Rosco, the electronic sniffer dog.

Not a robotic dog, but a dog trained to detect the chemicals applied onto the surfaces of data storage devices, even SD cards no larger than a pinky nail.

Rosco hails from Rogers County Oklahoma, where he and his partner Lieutenant John Haning work in the Internet Crimes Against Children Task Force.

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Adorable Dutch Webcam of Rescued Seals Is a Big Hit in Japan (WATCH)

This year, GNN has featured a variety of stories showing how viral posts on social media do a world of good, all around the world.

Yet another entry in the series comes now from the Netherlands, where a 24-hour live stream of a seal rehab center went viral on social media 8 time zones away in Japan.

The Zeehonden Center in Pieterburen is one of the premier seal hospitals in Northern Europe. They take in sick or injured seals, and handle them in such a way as to maximize the chances of preserving their wild instincts.

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WAS THE STORY OF JESUS ACTUALLY LIFTED FROM THE EGYPTIAN HORUS MYTH?

Dear Father Spitzer, the Jesus myth is almost entirely lifted from Horus, the Egyptian God of the sun.
Born of a virgin on Dec. 25, had 12 disciples, healed the blind, raised a man from the dead, crucified, rose again three days later, and was. . . savior. . . all thousands of years before the New Testament (and a larger part of the Old, as I recall) was written.
Although I have never doubted that a man named Jesus existed and taught, calling him the messiah seems extremely pretentious."
—Brad (as commented on the Magis Center Facebook page)
Dear Brad,

Thank you for your question.

I think you will eventually want to answer it in a much larger context taking into consideration some of the outstanding scholarly works of historical exegesis concerning Jesus Christ (see below).

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Harris Campaign Website = Merch Store

A poltical campaign is hawking merchandise? Who would have guessed?

As for the Harris platform positions, we're just into into the 3rd week of her campaign. As I recall, Trump didn't publish anything until a few days before the RNC (and he could have done so years in advance). I expect Harris will do so prior to the DNC.
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Radiate Love’: how California Catholics are celebrating marriage and family

California Catholic bishops are launching a yearlong initiative to celebrate and encourage marriage and families through educational resources and parish-based resources, citing attacks on marriage and the decline of faith in the Eucharist as the reasons behind the initiative.

“Our culture has been wounded by the erosion of an authentic vision of love, sexuality, and marriage,” Archbishop Salvatore Cordileone of San Francisco said in a July 30 press release.

The “Radiate Love” initiative takes inspiration from the miracle of Jesus turning water into wine at the wedding feast at Cana, because Jesus “believes marriage is beautiful and worth celebrating,” the website says.

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Sky News on Kamala Harris

CNN isn't left, it's centrist, even somewhat right-of-center at times. MSNBC is left-of-center.
Actually CNN moving more to the centre is a recent change. Since the rise of Trump they have been on the Left. Its only since a new CEO has taken over that they are now going back to basics with informed news rather than allowing their anchors to push their own ideologies.

But there is still a degree of bias that has yet to be removed. The fact that CNN push the idea now that Harris was not the border czar when they have repeatedly said she was in the past.

But it is good if news media like CNN become more central and factual because it seems the majority of media is biased to the left. Or at the the ones that people seem top hear anyway.

It seems over the last year or more there has been a rise in independent media that is not subject to the influence of government and corps or political activists groups and they are becoming more popular.

This comes at the same time that enough time has gone by for people to see the lies and unrealities that political ideologues have been pushing. We have seen a number of examples where these false narratives are exposed such as with CRT within institutions and the sackings of several heads for pushing antisemetism and racist policies.
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Weight loss coach explains reality of low carb dieting

I'll have to post a link to explain myself. Glycogen stores were meant for deep ketosis.

About every article about ketogenic diets say the diet is risky.

Fortunately, there are alternatives to reaching ketosis with non-keto diets. Simply exercise without eating within the fasting window in intermittent fasting. It makes the body use ketones and save glycogen for exercise.
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15 Year Rule Ends with Bangladeshi PM’s Resignation

There are no term limits. Don’t compare to a presidential elections. This is more like a house rep who gets to be speaker. Except in this case the prime minister is head of government, but not head of state.

The US does not have term limits for reps or senators.
The entire operation is largely based on seniority. Term limits stink, it makes the electorate lazy, though it would tend to create new and clever ways to get in on the graft before one “timed-out”, so corruption could be rooted out faster.
If there is no clear majority the parties have to form a coalition government.
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In Your Direction

Lead me, Lord, in Your direction,
Even if it means correction.
You have now my full attention,
Whate’er You will choose to mention.

Do I love You? Absolutely!
Will I serve You? Very truly!
Will I bow in full submission?
Yes, Lord, as You give me vision.

Do I care about the others
Who’re my sisters and my brothers?
Yes, Lord, I do love them truly,
Even those who are unruly.

“Feed them now with what I mention,
For this is My full intention
You should be My witness to them
Telling them My truth in wisdom.”

An Original Work / May 5, 2023

What Accords with Sound Doctrine

“But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine.” (Titus 2:1 ESV)

If we are to teach what accords with “sound doctrine,” how do we know what is “sound doctrine” and what is not? First of all we must be in genuine relationship with Jesus Christ by faith in him via dying with him to sin and now living to him and to his righteousness in walks of obedience to him. Then we must be listening for the Spirit’s voice guiding and directing us as we study the Scriptures (IN CONTEXT) in showing us what they are saying. And we must be testing everything we read and hear from others to make certain that what they are teaching is the truth and not the lies.

But as we read through the Scriptures, we should not read them with our minds already made up based on something we had learned previously from our parents or former preachers or others of influence in our lives who may or may not have taught the Scriptures to us correctly. So as we study the Scriptures fresh we must be willing to unlearn what we learned wrongly and to change our doctrinal beliefs if, as we study the Scriptures, and we compare Scripture with Scripture on the same subjects, we find that what we had believed all along is not really what the Scriptures teach in context.

And CONTEXT is always critical to correct biblical interpretation. So many people today are teaching certain Scriptures out of their context and they are making them say what they do not say if taught correctly in context. And when I was growing up that was done much in gospel presentations where we were taught to use certain Scriptures, one after another, to present the gospel of our salvation. But they were out of context and so they did not give a completely accurate picture of the gospel of Christ. And what many did then is to adopt a diluted and altered gospel message, instead.

Let me give you a few examples of what I am talking about here. Many people are teaching Ephesians 2:8-9 absent of verse 10 which is critical to the whole message. And so they are teaching people that God requires no works of us at all. And many of them are teaching that we don’t have to repent of (turn from) our sins, and that we do not have to obey our Lord’s commands (New Covenant) but all we have to do is “believe,” without really defining biblically what it means to believe. But verse 10 says that we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus “for good works” which God prepared in advance that we should “walk in them.”

But God’s grace is not free license to keep living in sin while claiming salvation from sin and eternal life with God. His grace, which is bringing us salvation, is training us to renounce (say ‘No’ to) ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives while we wait for our Lord’s return. And his grace, which sent Jesus to the cross, delivers us from our slavery (bondage, addiction) to sin so that we can now walk in obedience to our Lord and to his commands in holy living. And death to sin and walks of obedience to our Lord are required for salvation from sin.

[Matt 7:21-23; Lu 9:23-26; John 10:27-30; Acts 26:18; Rom 2:6-8; Rom 6:1-23; Rom 8:1-14; Rom 12:1-2; 1 Co 6:9-10,19-20; 1 Co 10:1-22; 2 Co 5:10,15,21; Gal 5:16-24; Gal 6:7-8; Eph 2:8-10; Eph 4:17-32; Eph 5:3-6; Col 1:21-23; Col 3:1-17; Titus 2:11-14; 1 Jn 1:5-10; 1 Jn 2:3-6,24-25; 1 Jn 3:4-10; 1 Pet 2:24; Heb 3:1-19; Heb 4:1-13; Heb 10:23-31; Heb 12:1-2]

Another example of this is John 10:28-30 which leaves out verse 27. Verse 28, which is most always quoted first, begins with “I give them eternal life, and they will never perish…” But verse 27 tells us who “they” are. So why is it so common to leave out who “they” are? Because they are using these promises broadly to include everyone who gives lip service to having faith in Jesus Christ. But verses 28-30 do not apply to everyone who professes the name of Jesus. Read verse 27. They apply only to those who are listening to the voice of the Lord and who are following him in obedience, in practice.

And another big one is Romans 10:9-10. Many are teaching this as “the gospel” message, but out of context of the whole of Romans. And so they are teaching that all we have to do is to confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that God raised him from the dead, and we will be saved. But Romans 6 and Romans 8, in particular, do not teach that. They teach that we must die with Christ to sin and that we must no longer let sin reign in our mortal bodies to make us obey its passions. For if sin is what we obey, it leads to death. But if obedience to our Lord is what we obey, its end is eternal life with Christ Jesus our Lord. (see Romans 6:1-23)

And they teach that the righteous requirement of the law is fulfilled in us who walk not according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. For if we live according to the flesh, doing what our flesh desires, and we do not walk in obedience to the Lord, then the end result is death, not life eternal. “For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.” “So then, brothers, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.” (see Romans 8:1-14)

So, don’t read the Scriptures out of context and then apply them broadly where they do not apply or in the wrong way. Study them IN CONTEXT.

Songs in the Night

An Original Work / December 18, 2013

“About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them.” Acts 16:25 NIV ‘84


Lord, I praise You forevermore.
You, my Savior, I now adore.
Hope in heaven awaiting me,
Because You died at Calvary.

I have been forgiven,
And I’m bound for heaven.
Jesus set me free from
All my sin, I say.
I will praise Him always!

Lord, I love You for all You’ve done:
Overcame death, my vict’ry won!
Jesus saved me, and now I’m free!
I rejoice in His love for me.

I will walk in vict’ry!
My sin is but hist’ry!
I am free to please Him
With my life today.
I will love Him always!

Lord, I thank You for giving me
A new life bought at Calvary.
Loving Jesus, I meet with Him.
Tender mercies now flow within.

Lord, I am so thankful;
Through my Lord, I’m able
To sit at His table;
Fellowship with Him.
I will thank Him always!

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Your Salvation

Woe to the Obstinate Nation
“Woe to the obstinate children,”
declares the LORD,
“to those who carry out plans that are not mine,
forming an alliance, but not by my Spirit,
heaping sin upon sin;
who go down to Egypt
without consulting me;
who look for help to Pharaoh’s protection,
to Egypt’s shade for refuge.
But Pharaoh’s protection will be to your shame,
Egypt’s shade will bring you disgrace…
everyone will be put to shame
because of a people useless to them,
who bring neither help nor advantage,
but only shame and disgrace.”
…This is what the Sovereign LORD, the Holy One of Israel, says:
“In repentance and rest is your salvation,
in quietness and trust is your strength,
but you would have none of it…”
Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you;
he rises to show you compassion.
For the LORD is a God of justice.
Blessed are all who wait for him!
Isaiah 30:1-5,15,18 (NIV 1984)

Your Salvation

An Original Work / May 29, 2011
Based off of Isaiah 30


In repentance is your salvation.
In quietness and trust is your strength.
The Lord longs to be gracious to you.
Blessed are all who wait for Him.

Pharaoh’s protection will be your shame.
Egypt’s shade will bring you to disgrace.
Ev’ryone will be put to their shame,
Because they trusted in man.

Woe to those who carry out their plans
Without consulting God their Savior.
God’s calling out for you to listen
And obey all He commands.

In repentance is your salvation.
In quietness and trust is your strength.
The Lord longs to be gracious to you.
Blessed are all who wait for Him.

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To move in or not to move in...

I met somebody (Ken) in one date app and since the first time I knew I was not attracted to him as a man since he appeared taller in his profile and was older than in looked in his pictures, without mentioning his intense personality…

I should have listened to the red flags in both of us from the beginning, but I chose to ignore them apparently, like “I miss you” after the first time he took me to dinner.

After some weeks he invited me to a “friendly” Valentines dinner with my mother whom I take care of after her hip replacement surgery. He said he wanted to make it easier for me due to the fact that she is my priority for this time of my life and until she heals better and/or decides to go back to her country.

He felt in love with my mom and we both saw him as a generous soul that God had put in our path. That night due to his smoking I did realize but my nose started to react and I almost fainted of not being able to breath… he took us to his house being so near to that restaurant and took care of me giving me hot tea and some medication for allergies. We grew fond of his friendship inviting him over to our place for a home-made dinner on a later date. He was utterly happy, and my mom and I felt we reciprocated his attentions.

By March he invited me to dinner again and wanted to include my mom as well for me to feel more comfortable. I was already having some dates every 15 days with other people without any good results, so I took his invitations as friendship with a very sociable and nice man who several times cooked for us in his home, introducing us to his adult kids. We both are 53 y.o.

In April I lost my job and didn’t want to tell him, but my mom’s eye surgery was confirmed and I had to take her to the hospital due to the urgency of the procedure. He insisted on paying for it and I totally denied it arguing that the same hospital suggested me to request financial aid due to a hardship. I did so and I received it, but he paid for the rest without me knowing it and I was a bit mad but then had to be thankful assuring him that one way or another I would be able to pay him back whenever I recover from the financial situation.

After my mom’s recovery in a couple of weeks, she suggested inviting him again to have dinner over. There is when he asked me to explore the possibility of a relationship and I was certainly not excited since after coming back from the conference, I sort of rekindled another relationship with a out-of the country prospect, Clark. (I have to say that after losing my job I strongly considered moving back to Europe)

In June I went to Europe for work and Ken insisted on visiting the place and events I went, and I denied it since there was a strong possibility to finally meet Clark to consider our future possibilities. Before leaving Ken asked me if I was ready for an exclusive relationship with someone and I told him no, but I made the mistake of continuing in touch with him just to not make him feel used and left or discarded. I propose him to give us a break until my come back and he refused. I went to Europe met Clark for a brief lunch at near the train station on his was back home from some business meeting a near city and I felt I would love to explore a life with him but had to wait until the end of September to see him again in my country of residence but he started being too distant and almost stop conversations, video calls, etc. in spite of giving me an exact date of arrival here. I texted him and he said he is dealing with too much related to his last daughter about to leave to university and that after that would announce his “girlfriend” mood with me.

In the meantime, Ken stayed in Europe attending the events and I had to eventually introduce him as potential investor/entrepreneur to some of my key contacts in order to make this easier of everyone and not have to explain too much around my people. They accepted him and even invited him to the next events, and he proposed to in fact make some investments in the company, I was speechless.

At this point, my key contact tried to convince me that I should consider giving him a chance since his behavior towards me was more than obvious showing a genuine interest and that I should stop being mean to him, which I never thought I was. I sort of accepted and stayed with him his last days visiting different venues and receptions belonging to my work field. Unfortunately, in one of them he made a jealousy scene, and we fought until his return short after. I had to stay one more week attending to some other events and conferences.

Back in the country he proposed me to have an exclusive relationship which I tried to explore, overlooking his intense character and jealous nature.

By July he proposed us to move to his enormous house so I should stop paying rent and save for a better financial situation as well as to buy my first house as a divorced single daughter to provide a better life for my mom and myself. I agreed at first thinking that we could make it work specially after the almost complete indifference of Clark, who would only text me as a reply but never as own initiative.

Few weeks ago, Ken and I spoke about my move, but I was still very doubtful. At that time to my surprise, I met Tom who I always wanted to meet by 2022 and who just popped up into my life. I didn’t want to have sex with him since I was as an “official situationship” with Ken. I was super confused but felt an incredible connection with Tom as I haven’t felt in a very long time. We texted some more times and all of the sudden a colleague invited me to a conference in another state and Ken insisted on taking me there with my mom. I didn’t want to go and even didn’t want him to join either. I have no idea why and how; he convinced me and then I accepted after he mentioning again his interest in investing on my contact, my siblings, etc. and making everybody’s life better.

I thought I should finally define this crazy situation and accepted to go with him. It was decent time always with his jealousy scenes when I bumped into several male colleagues from abroad and out of state who he considered hitting on my in a disrespectful way.

Back in town from the conference he made me a proposal to for one year cover all my debts, move into his big almost empty house, stop paying rent and focusing on my professional growth without going to work as much as I normally do for the last 20 years and just enjoying a better life until recovering, improving and helping him at home and as his current girlfriend.

I was very grateful for this offer, but I had to stress the fact that I was not romantically interested in him and if he would like to collaborate with me and key contacts in the field he was welcome but I could not promise him to grow in love with him after actually having tried for about 3 months already.

He was crushed and I felt the most evil and deceitful girl in the world. I tried to tell him that I didn’t want to feel as I am selling to someone and he said, “what is wrong with me to take over your life when you know that I love you more than my own life and would take a bullet for you?”

I was appalled and went back home crying. Next day he requested a “goodbye dinner” and for some reason after crying with my mom I ended up saying “Ok, ok we will move, since apparently it’s on me to save your face from your executives at the company, your kids, family and friends after you turning around your house to accommodate my mom and myself”

I felt super guilty and even worse when finding myself very interested in Tom with whom I had zero drama and lot of chemistry and apparently a promising relationship in the future.

I have found another job that seems promising to give me back my previous lifestyle in spite or Ken accusing me of having an employee mentality instead of an executive like him.

In conclusion:

1. I am not sure still if Tom would end up committing to a stable relationship. 2. No idea if Clark will end up coming to see me and what are his real intentions. 3. The fact that I “am playing ping pong with a high executive” as Ken told me, is killing me especially when I know this is taking a toll on his health.

I am so so confused and August is already here…
Your life seems incredibly complicated and certainly anyone who reads your story should pray. Some of what you say about Ken raises some red flags. Using money makes me suspicious but I can say I too have helped a woman financially but never distinguished between "employee' and "executive." All I can say is the bible is true when it comes to relationships. Like careers, ministry and anything else important, to get the best out of life you have to simply follow God's plan and His path. So to me that is your answer, follow and focus on Jesus like you never have before and if this requires taking a breather from all these guys then certainly I would do it. Also, if there is any sin involved, it has the opposite effect on even the best dating relationship. It may block God's voice, His blessing and confuses our heart which desperately wants God, but is too controlled by the things of the flesh to achieve them. I do not recall in your message where you mention any of the guy's walk with God. Shaming yourself, guilt, control, possible abuse of money and privilege makes a hard life. I have seen all of that and more in my life and pray that you can calm those things down and find more of God and the path the Holy Spirit sets before you. God bless you sister in all your choices.
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When marriage is not ‘for better’ but ‘for worse’

I did not write the article so you’d have to ask the author. My guess is because June is a popular month for marriage. A month with new life and promises. So do we really consider what the worse in “better or for worse” means? It makes sense when you read it in full. Here is an excerpt from the article but I recommend you read it in its entirety.

In the marriage vows, the lovers pledge their troth “for better or worse.” They thereby acknowledge that they are entering into a relationship whose future cannot be predicted. They may be starry-eyed now, and naturally they expect to be happy together for years. But they know there are risks; things may get “worse.”

What does “worse” mean in a marriage? It may mean living together in illness or poverty. But it may also mean living together in a difficult relationship; the romance itself may become “better or worse.”

Sadly, when a marriage hits a rocky patch, many Catholic couples—even solid, faithful Catholics—think of the divorce before they think of the vows they have made. Sadly, too, many Catholic pastors advise them to think back to their wedding, and ask whether they were really prepared, mentally and emotionally, to give full consent when they made their vows. If they can conjure up a case of defective consent, they have a case for annulment.


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How to Destroy a Marriage

Compromise only in non-essentials. Like you can compromise about things that don't matter for eternity but not in matters of moral right and wrong.
Yep, compromising on choosing the dinner for the evening is okay, but not compromising on our Christian faith. :) If I had a partner, I'd tell her to stay away from the woke churches, or the churches that get into politics (whether right or left).
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Would you give money to Mr Trump if he called for donations to cover his $83 million civil fine?

What are you talking about?
The drug lords , as far as I know, do not pay the fines. Maybe it is only particular ones, but what I read is that since 1986 give or take, all the losses they incur are paid for by democrats and republicans and independents and everyone else paying taxes.
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