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Progressive government is the antithesis of a biblically based republic.

Many Christians like to go to atheist spaces with the motive to save souls and spread the gospel. Unless an atheist is seriously considering conversion, what motive does an atheist have to come to a Christian forum? @Hans Blaster if you can answer this question without sounding absolutely demonic I will be impressed.
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What about thr simple... he wanted to dialogue.

Is dialogue with an atheist without thr express purpose of saving their soul so demonic and evil that you couldn't even imagine it being given as a reason?
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ICE officers to attend Super Bowl after Bad Bunny halftime headliner announcement, Lewandowski says

Now I've watched it. If someone asks me why I don't like most country music, then I'll show them slop like that. If I wanted to write a parody of country, that would be it.
Yeah, but who doesn't want to kiss their fish, drive their truck and drink their beer? That's all we want to do, man. Doesn't everybody? ;)
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‘Judged More by Christians Than Anything’—Jelly Roll’s Wife Addresses Faith Controversy After Grammys

Jelly Roll’s wife, Alisa DeFord, addressed online outrage following her husband’s viral Grammy Awards speech. She said it was “insane” that some have labeled Jelly Roll a “performative Christian,” adding that Christians have “judged them more” than anyone else.

At this year’s Grammy Awards, Jelly Roll won all three categories in which he was nominated and delivered a faith-filled acceptance speech.

DeFord, married Alisa DeFord, 46, in 2016. The couple have full custody of the two children Jelly Roll had from previous relationships. Alisa DeFord previously worked as a high-end escort and produced adult content on OnlyFans. She said she quit escorting in 2020 and stopped posting on OnlyFans in 2023. Her story includes a troubled childhood, domestic violence, sexual assault, and suicidal thoughts.

Alisa DeFord: ‘People Are Weaponizing the Bible’


Continued below.

Church of England General Synod votes against blessing same sex marriage after long debate

The Church of England’s General Synod has voted to end plans for stand-alone blessing ceremonies for same sex couples in churches after extended debate. The decision also closes a years-long process that had examined whether such ceremonies could be introduced.

Members this week approved a motion from bishops to conclude the Living in Love and Faith process and halt further work toward permitting special services for same-sex couples in civil marriages, The Telegraph reported.

The vote followed hours of discussion and confirmed that agreement between conservative and liberal factions had not been reached.

The Synod supported forming new working groups on relationships, sexuality and gender to continue discussion in the future rather than advancing blessing ceremonies now, according to Church Times.

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Looks like the Electric Car era is over...

BYD going gangbusters. America just can't make a economical vehicle anymore. I'll assume the Chinese will be shut out in the USA for a time, but I see those Chinese Ev's all over Asia.
The Chinese may not be making an economic electric vehicle either. It's hard to pierce the screen around a communist government's economic picture.

And, no, the Chinese government has never stopped being communist. They've never even claimed they were no longer communist.
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The Hidden Sufferings of Christ – A Reflection on the Apostolate for the Dying

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The Hidden Sufferings of Christ – A Reflection on the Apostolate for the Dying

There are some books that do not simply inform the mind—they awaken something in the heart. The Hidden Sufferings of Christ – Apostolate for the Dying is one of those rare works. It does not shout, it does not argue, and it does not try to impress. Instead, it quietly opens a door into the mystery of Christ’s compassion, especially toward those who stand at the threshold of eternity.

For many readers, this book becomes less a text and more a summons. It invites us to stand with Christ in His most hidden work: the silent, unseen accompaniment of souls who are dying, often alone, often afraid, often forgotten. It reveals that the Lord’s Passion did not end on Calvary. His Heart continues to labor in love for every soul who approaches the final moment of earthly life.

A Hidden Ministry in the Heart of Christ

The book’s central insight is simple but profound: Christ suffers with the dying. Not metaphorically, not poetically, but truly. His compassion bends toward every soul in its final struggle. The agony of Gethsemane, the loneliness of the Cross, the thirst for souls—these mysteries are not locked in the past. They are alive in Him, and He invites us to share in them.

This is not a morbid spirituality. It is a spirituality of mercy.

To pray for the dying is to step into the Heart of Christ at the very moment when His love is most urgent. It is to stand beside Him as He reaches for a soul who may be confused, resistant, despairing, or simply exhausted. The book teaches that our prayers—quiet, hidden, unknown—can become a bridge of grace at the most decisive moment of a person’s life.

The Apostolate of Presence

One of the most beautiful themes in the book is the idea that praying for the dying is a form of presence. We may not be physically at their bedside, but spiritually we stand with them. We accompany them. We refuse to let them die alone.

In a world that fears death, avoids it, and hides it away, this apostolate is a gentle act of defiance. It says:

“You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. Christ is with you, and I will stand with Him for your sake.”

This is the kind of love that does not seek recognition. It is the love that mirrors Christ’s own hidden suffering—quiet, faithful, and poured out for others.

A Call to Intercession

The book does not burden the reader with guilt or obligation. Instead, it awakens a desire. It shows that praying for the dying is not a task but a privilege. It is a way of participating in Christ’s redeeming love at the very moment when a soul needs it most.

Many who read this book find themselves praying spontaneously throughout the day:

  • for those dying in hospitals
  • for those dying suddenly or violently
  • for those dying without the sacraments
  • for those dying in despair
  • for those dying unprepared
  • for those dying alone
This prayer becomes a rhythm of mercy woven into ordinary life. It becomes a hidden ministry of the heart.


A Spiritual Work of Mercy for Our Time

We live in an age where death is often sanitized, rushed, or treated as a medical event rather than a sacred passage. The book reminds us that every death is a spiritual battlefield, a moment of immense grace, and a moment of immense vulnerability.

To pray for the dying is to stand in that gap.

It is to offer Christ the companionship He sought in Gethsemane. It is to offer the dying the mercy they may not know how to ask for. It is to offer the world a quiet antidote to despair.

A Personal Word

For many who take up this apostolate, something unexpected happens: their own fear of death softens. Their trust deepens. Their sense of Christ’s nearness grows. They begin to see that death is not an end but a meeting—one that Christ Himself prepares with tenderness.

This book does not simply teach a devotion. It forms a heart. It shapes a way of seeing the world. It invites us into a companionship with Christ that is intimate, hidden, and deeply fruitful.

And in the end, it leaves us with a simple truth:

To pray for the dying is to love with the Heart of Christ. To share in His hidden sufferings is to share in His hidden victories.

The Hidden Sufferings of Christ – A Reflection on the Apostolate for the Dying

hiddensufferingsofjesus.jpg


The Hidden Sufferings of Christ – A Reflection on the Apostolate for the Dying

There are some books that do not simply inform the mind—they awaken something in the heart. The Hidden Sufferings of Christ – Apostolate for the Dying is one of those rare works. It does not shout, it does not argue, and it does not try to impress. Instead, it quietly opens a door into the mystery of Christ’s compassion, especially toward those who stand at the threshold of eternity.

For many readers, this book becomes less a text and more a summons. It invites us to stand with Christ in His most hidden work: the silent, unseen accompaniment of souls who are dying, often alone, often afraid, often forgotten. It reveals that the Lord’s Passion did not end on Calvary. His Heart continues to labor in love for every soul who approaches the final moment of earthly life.

A Hidden Ministry in the Heart of Christ

The book’s central insight is simple but profound: Christ suffers with the dying. Not metaphorically, not poetically, but truly. His compassion bends toward every soul in its final struggle. The agony of Gethsemane, the loneliness of the Cross, the thirst for souls—these mysteries are not locked in the past. They are alive in Him, and He invites us to share in them.

This is not a morbid spirituality. It is a spirituality of mercy.

To pray for the dying is to step into the Heart of Christ at the very moment when His love is most urgent. It is to stand beside Him as He reaches for a soul who may be confused, resistant, despairing, or simply exhausted. The book teaches that our prayers—quiet, hidden, unknown—can become a bridge of grace at the most decisive moment of a person’s life.

The Apostolate of Presence

One of the most beautiful themes in the book is the idea that praying for the dying is a form of presence. We may not be physically at their bedside, but spiritually we stand with them. We accompany them. We refuse to let them die alone.


In a world that fears death, avoids it, and hides it away, this apostolate is a gentle act of defiance. It says:

“You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. Christ is with you, and I will stand with Him for your sake.”

This is the kind of love that does not seek recognition. It is the love that mirrors Christ’s own hidden suffering—quiet, faithful, and poured out for others.

A Call to Intercession

The book does not burden the reader with guilt or obligation. Instead, it awakens a desire. It shows that praying for the dying is not a task but a privilege. It is a way of participating in Christ’s redeeming love at the very moment when a soul needs it most.

Many who read this book find themselves praying spontaneously throughout the day:


  • for those dying in hospitals
  • for those dying suddenly or violently
  • for those dying without the sacraments
  • for those dying in despair
  • for those dying unprepared
  • for those dying alone
This prayer becomes a rhythm of mercy woven into ordinary life. It becomes a hidden ministry of the heart.


A Spiritual Work of Mercy for Our Time

We live in an age where death is often sanitized, rushed, or treated as a medical event rather than a sacred passage. The book reminds us that every death is a spiritual battlefield, a moment of immense grace, and a moment of immense vulnerability.

To pray for the dying is to stand in that gap.

It is to offer Christ the companionship He sought in Gethsemane. It is to offer the dying the mercy they may not know how to ask for. It is to offer the world a quiet antidote to despair.

A Personal Word

For many who take up this apostolate, something unexpected happens: their own fear of death softens. Their trust deepens. Their sense of Christ’s nearness grows. They begin to see that death is not an end but a meeting—one that Christ Himself prepares with tenderness.

This book does not simply teach a devotion. It forms a heart. It shapes a way of seeing the world. It invites us into a companionship with Christ that is intimate, hidden, and deeply fruitful.

And in the end, it leaves us with a simple truth:

To pray for the dying is to love with the Heart of Christ. To share in His hidden sufferings is to share in His hidden victories.

DEA quietly resumes anti-drug coordination with Bolivia almost 20 years since its expulsion

Fantastic news! One of the many steps by the Trump administration that saves lives. The decrease in drug deaths in the U.S. has been dramatic.

Degrees of Deliverance

It's ok of course if we differ in our understanding concerning this subject. I used to post 1 article per week for the last 10 years but are getting few now. About 20 years ago I was able to find some of these writings but they're mostly out of print, being 3 centuries old. One Book is free to view online. It is a daily devotional that contains the center of all the articles of the Plymouth Brethren's writings.

"None But The Hungry Heart."
Yeah, that's understandable.
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Don't Call It Love If..

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” (John 13:34-35 NASB1995)

The above passage of Scripture is the “Verse Of The Day” on Bible Gateway, which is the Bible source I use for writing on the internet. My first thought was, “I just taught on the subject of ‘love’ recently,” so I began to look at the other verses to see if I should write on something else. And, as I was contemplating this in my mind, I looked over to my left, to a little sign made for me by one of my grandsons which says, “A Little Sign to Say I Love You.” But partly covering the word “say” was a red lady bug with dark spots.

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And here’s the thing. When Jesus lived on the earth he often spoke to the people in parables. So, parables are not anti-biblical as long as they agree with and support the teachings of the Scriptures. I like this definition:

“A biblical parable is a short, realistic story or analogy using everyday scenarios—such as farming, fishing, or household tasks—to teach profound spiritual truths or moral principles. Primarily used by Jesus in the Gospels to describe the Kingdom of God, these narratives function as ‘earthly stories with heavenly meanings’.” (Source: Google AI)

So, when I see something like this bug, and the Holy Spirit prompts me, I know to look at the meanings of the words in the image. So, what is a bug? It can be many things, but what stands out to me is that it is an infection, a poison, an impurity of some kind. And “spot” (in this case multiple dark spots) is also a blemish or a moral flaw (sin), which are multiplied. And dark is used consistently throughout the Scriptures to symbolize the opposite of light, such as lies, deceptions, immorality, wickedness, i.e. sinful behaviors.

Okay, so this “bug” is positioned on the word “say,” which has to do with expressing thoughts, opinions, beliefs, and/or information, either in verbal or in written form. So this would seem to indicate that there is an impurity, a lie, a deception in the words spoken, “I love you.” (This has nothing to do with who gave me this sign. This is a parable only!) And “a little sign” could be a slight (an insult) and/or an insignificant indication of actual love being present in the words spoken. So, “I Love You” is a lie, and thus an insult.

Now in the USA today, February 14th is traditionally referred to as “Valentines Day.” This celebration has pagan roots to it, and the “love” being spoken of is typically of romantic love, not the kind of love being referred to in this passage of Scripture. But it is also used in the context of friendship love, too. And the color “red” is the color associated with the holiday, which interestingly enough was both the color of the little sign and of the lady bug. Like, “though your sins be as scarlet,” so symbolic of sin (Isaiah 1:18).

So, when Jesus gave the commandment to love one another as he loved (loves) us, he was not speaking of romantic love, and he was not speaking of fake artificial love (the sign was made of plastic) spoken falsely in words only but with little to no evidence of actual love being put into practice. For how did Jesus demonstrate his love for us? He sacrificed his life for us on a cross to put our sins to death with him so that, by faith in him, we will now die to sin and live to God in walks of surrender to him in obeying our Lord.

And this word “love” is agape, which has to do with preferring what God prefers, i.e. all that is holy, righteous, godly, morally pure, upright, honest, faithful, and obedient to our Lord and to his commands. For the believer in Christ, it involves us denying self, dying to sin daily, and walking in obedience to his commands, in practice, by the Spirit. So, when we say that we love God, or that we love other humans, it should be this kind of love which is honest, faithful, and pure, and not fake, impure, and deceptive.

So, if you claim to love God, and to be in fellowship with him, but while you walk in darkness (in sin), and while you do not obey his commands, in practice, the Bible says that you are telling a lie. And if you say to your spouse, “I love you,” while you deliberately and habitually sin against them via addiction to sexual sin and adultery, don’t call it love. Don’t lie. Don’t give your spouse a valentines card and a hug and a kiss if you are secretly looking at sexually explicit images and committing adultery in your minds.

Don’t call it love if it is hate in disguise. For adultery against your spouse is hate, not love. And refusal to obey our Lord’s commandments and to walk in love and in moral purity is also hate, not love. For biblical love is not based in emotions and in lies to cover up sin. And a valentines day card is not proof of love. If cheating is what is taking place in the background, it is an insult. Be honest. Be sincere. Don’t lie. Don’t cheat. Repent of sins of adultery and idolatry, and now love purely as God, as Christ loves us and sacrificed for us.

[Matthew 7:13-14,21-23; Luke 9:23-26; Romans 6:1-23; Romans 8:1-14; Galatians 5:16-24; Ephesians 2:8-10; Ephesians 4:17-32; Ephesians 5:3-6; Titus 2:11-14; 1 John 1:1-10; 1 John 2:1-6; 1 John 3:4-10; Acts 26:18]

In Harmony

Based off Romans 12:9-21; 1 Peter 3:8-17
An Original Work / September 2, 2012
Christ’s Free Servant, Sue J Love


Love each other truly.
Cling to what is good.
Hate all that is evil.
Never lack in zeal.
Serve the Lord with fervor.
Joyful in hope be;
Patient in affliction;
Praying faithfully.
Honor one another.
Live in harmony.

Share with all God’s people
Who are found in need.
Do not be conceited.
Sympathetic be.
Love, and show compassion
In humility.
Keep your tongue from evil.
Peaceful you must be.
Honor one another.
Live in harmony.

God sees who are righteous;
Listens to their prayers.
But He’s against evil –
Is His to avenge.
Do not fear what they fear.
Suffer patiently.
In your hearts, make Christ Lord.
Serve Him faithfully.
Honor one another.
Live in harmony.

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8 Once more, the Adversary took him up to the summit of a very high mountain, showed him all the kingdoms of the world in all their glory,
9 and said to him, “All this I will give you if you will bow down and worship me.”
10 “Away with you, Satan!” Yeshua told him, “For the Tanakh says,

‘Worship Adonai your God, and serve only him.’”

Mattityahu [Matthew] 4:8-10 CJB :cookie::cookie::custard::custard:
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JPPT's Faithful Thoughts and Devotions (3)

JPPT1974's Thurs Thoughts 2/19/2026:
Our world sadly lacks compassion
But that Jesus never does as His
Love and mercy along with compassion are
Unconditional and unlimited when we are
Dealing with tragedy with either personal or
Public like 9/11, race riots, school shootings, poverty
Just to name a few as that is why
He is there for you and me so that He can pick
Us up when we fall as we may be down but not out!
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JPPT1974's Daily Devotions

JPPT1974's Thurs Thoughts 2/19/2026:
And that along with corruption and
For in sinning like with Jimmy Swaggart over in
Adultery just an example over in
Denominations and praying that people
Can agree to disagree but knowing one
Day when we go to eternity there will be
No such thing as denominations as in eternity we will be
United in Christ and only denomination sort to speak
Is that we are all in the Body of Christ!
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JPPT1974's Daily Devotions

JPPT1974's Thurs Thoughts 2/19/2026:
Zeroing in on our health and
How you and I need to be the
Kind of help that we need to
Get and in the receiving on it
Quietly but effectively how the
Lord calls for us to rest and find
Ways to rest like a nap or getting
Something to eat and drink and unwind.
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Are professed Christians that worship our Lord on Sunday instead of Saturday sinning?

Interesting you left out verse 8

Col 2:8 Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men, according to the basic principles of the world, and not according to Christ.

I was quoting the portion we had been discussing. I did not quote the whole book. But if you want to discuss broader context, this also makes the point.

Paul's is writing to encourage a church that he did not plant and had only heard about from the one who did plant it. He says he had not seen their face in the flesh (Colossians 2:1)

Colossians 1:3-8​
3 We give thanks to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you, 4 since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of your love for all the saints; 5 because of the hope which is laid up for you in heaven, of which you heard before in the word of the truth of the gospel, 6 which has come to you, as it has also in all the world, and is bringing forth fruit, as it is also among you since the day you heard and knew the grace of God in truth; 7 as you also learned from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on your behalf, 8 who also declared to us your love in the Spirit. (NKJV)​
Epaphras brought the gospel to them. Paul is writing to give them more instruction. And part of that instruction is to remain complete in Jesus, not to focus on other things that could distract. In that context we see:

Colossians 2:1-10​
1 For I want you to know what a great conflict I have for you and those in Laodicea, and for as many as have not seen my face in the flesh, 2 that their hearts may be encouraged, being knit together in love, and attaining to all riches of the full assurance of understanding, to the knowledge of the mystery of God, both of the Father and of Christ, 3 in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.​
All treasures of wisdom and knowledge are in Him.
4 Now this I say lest anyone should deceive you with persuasive words. 5 For though I am absent in the flesh, yet I am with you in spirit, rejoicing to see your good order and the steadfastness of your faith in Christ.​
6 As you therefore have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him, 7 rooted and built up in Him and established in the faith, as you have been taught, abounding in it with thanksgiving.​
8 Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men, according to the basic principles of the world, and not according to Christ. 9 For in Him dwells all the fullness of the Godhead bodily; 10 and you are complete in Him, who is the head of all principality and power. (NKJV)​
They need not look to philosophy or other sources of wisdom. This was a reality in their day, as we see for instance in Acts 17 with Paul's interactions with Stoic and Epicurean philosophers. They looked to human wisdom and schools of thought. He says you don't need that, you have Christ.

He then goes on to say they don't need to focus on circumcision, on appointed times, etc. as we already looked at. They are complete in Christ.

Then he warns about worship of angels, and asceticism:

Colossians 2:18-23​
18 Let no one cheat you of your reward, taking delight in false humility and worship of angels, intruding into those things which he has not seen, vainly puffed up by his fleshly mind, 19 and not holding fast to the Head, from whom all the body, nourished and knit together by joints and ligaments, grows with the increase that is from God.​
20 Therefore, if you died with Christ from the basic principles of the world, why, as though living in the world, do you subject yourselves to regulations— 21 “Do not touch, do not taste, do not handle,” 22 which all concern things which perish with the using—according to the commandments and doctrines of men? 23 These things indeed have an appearance of wisdom in self-imposed religion, false humility, and neglect of the body, but are of no value against the indulgence of the flesh. (NKJV)​
They need not be distracted by any of these influences, because they are complete in Christ.
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