Losing friendships and Matt 24:12
- By timechangers
- Christian Philosophy & Ethics
- 11 Replies
Thanks for the reply and thoughtful response. I did send a text to one of the guys in my potluck yesterday telling him I hope all is okay and he did respond that we need to catch up. I need to not give up on people even though I feel like just not talking to people if they don't want to ask me anything. That's not a good attitude on my part. Only 1 leper went back to thank Jesus for healing him so I need to be a thankful person like that leper was regardless if I have friends or if nobody asks me anything. I do have a younger 20 something year old church member who I meet with once a quarter to mentor and read the Bible with. I just wish someone my own age would want to have a Bible Study with me and pray for me or that someone in church would ask me what they could pray for me about. I tell others I will pray for them on different situations brought up during a conversation with them but they don't return the favor by asking what they could pray for me on. I just don't understand. Maybe spiritual warfare or people just don't care or both.It sounds like people in general are getting depressed, discouraged and the fire for the Lord they once had is dying. Maybe you should talk to them or to the Leadership of the church to reach out and see if anyone can help with anything. Sometimes we need others to be encouragement and sometimes people need a reminder that they need others to stay encouraged.
While I'm 39 and not in your age bracket or noticed the exact same thing you have, I've noticed in general that peoples faith within my age bracket is very limited as people in general seem to not be too interested in studying the bible. Also, I just hear complaints about the state of the economy or the world and when you tend to be in that kind of mind set, the thought of get-togethers is just further from your mind. So maybe reach out and see why they've decided to pull back or if you don't have their number, reach out to a leader of the church and see if someone can reach out in general to see how people are doing. That might help.
Either way, I'm sorry to hear this is your experience and I hope something changes for you.
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