Many of your statements are broadly accurate - indeed, precisely so - although they do not take all of Paul's teaching on the matter fully into account.
But Paul didn't teach on this matter; that's the problem.
Nowhere did he say, "men can be ordained, wear dog collars and be in leadership in the church, but women never can be - ever; no matter what the culture. This is a command from God for all time."
He made a statement in 1 Timothy 2:12 about women being silent, not teaching or usurping a man's authority - and people can't even decide on how to interpret that.
Some on these forums have said "women being silent isn't to be taken literally; they can pray, prophesy and worship God. But the next words, in the same verse, ARE to be taken literally, so that means that as women can't teach or be in authority over a man [whatever that means], they clearly can't preach or be ordained." Some have said, "Scripture says that women must be silent so they must be; they can't even worship or say 'Amen'." Believe me, I have read statements like that on here over the years - but at least they practice what they believe.
I don't see that this matter is ever going to be resolved.
Those of us who preach know that God has called us to do so, that we do it to obey him; whatever our natural feelings and temperament, and know that he inspires us and blesses our words. God does not contradict his word, so as he is calling women into this role today, clearly he cannot have forbidden it in Scripture.
Those who read Scripture a certain way and who disagree with women in Ministry, are always going to say that God has NOT called us, and that we are disobedient, deluded, feminists or pandering to our own egos. Oh yes, and that female preachers is a sure sign of end times. God does not contradict his word, and as they believe that his word clearly forbids this, the only explanation is that women from all over the world are choosing to deliberately disobey.
If there was very clear teaching, from Paul, Jesus, Peter, James and everyone else, I believe women would obey it. We do not set out to rebel against Scripture, whatever anyone else thinks.
Sorry, not all of that was aimed at you; I get a little carried away sometimes.